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Re: Things Every Girl Should Know About Her Fiance Before Marriage by Nobody: 2:52pm On Sep 18, 2012 |
kulyie: Nice points but d truth of d matter is dat many girls are caught up with getin d ring by fire by force without knowing d giver of d ring wel ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() |
Re: Things Every Girl Should Know About Her Fiance Before Marriage by johnkent(m): 2:53pm On Sep 18, 2012 |
Has he slept with another man ![]() 1 Like |
Re: Things Every Girl Should Know About Her Fiance Before Marriage by unwanaabasi(m): 3:03pm On Sep 18, 2012 |
ITbomb: I'm sure Pastor Okotie knew all this and even counselled his members on this .tnx mehn cos i think a man wil b a victim of 1 of this so wt God in ur marriage, peace wil hv itz place |
Re: Things Every Girl Should Know About Her Fiance Before Marriage by Nobody: 3:05pm On Sep 18, 2012 |
honeric01: There is tendency for a man to put up a facade in a relationship only for him to change when he finally marries.most men impoverise when and where necessary to get what they want. |
Re: Things Every Girl Should Know About Her Fiance Before Marriage by BeraBera(f): 3:12pm On Sep 18, 2012 |
Good. |
Re: Things Every Girl Should Know About Her Fiance Before Marriage by demitola(m): 3:15pm On Sep 18, 2012 |
Nice points, doh as common place as they may seem, we musnt assume evry 'lovebird' out there really commits all dis 2 mind. Many see dia present rltnship as jst 4 fun and dont acknowlegde d business aspect of it 1 Like |
Re: Things Every Girl Should Know About Her Fiance Before Marriage by hustla(m): 3:18pm On Sep 18, 2012 |
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Re: Things Every Girl Should Know About Her Fiance Before Marriage by sophi(f): 3:21pm On Sep 18, 2012 |
kulyie: Nice points but d truth of d matter is dat many girls are caught up with getin d ring by fire by force without knowing d giver of d ring welthank u |
Re: Things Every Girl Should Know About Her Fiance Before Marriage by tunapawizzy: 3:40pm On Sep 18, 2012 |
and u forgot to add d most important one...which is Sex preference ....u should know ur fiance's opinion (and most importantly ability) in sexuuual matters (anal and oral inclusive) |
Re: Things Every Girl Should Know About Her Fiance Before Marriage by TYTAN(m): 3:47pm On Sep 18, 2012 |
just invite the FBI to do a background check. |
Re: Things Every Girl Should Know About Her Fiance Before Marriage by honeric01(m): 3:56pm On Sep 18, 2012 |
~Bluetooth: Just like i said, humans are unpredictable in nature but men are less unpredictable. |
Re: Things Every Girl Should Know About Her Fiance Before Marriage by Mynd44: 3:58pm On Sep 18, 2012 |
~Bluetooth:Not just men. Humans are unpredictable |
Re: Things Every Girl Should Know About Her Fiance Before Marriage by belemzy: 3:59pm On Sep 18, 2012 |
All correct @OP. I love every point stated here. |
Re: Things Every Girl Should Know About Her Fiance Before Marriage by Okijajuju1(m): 4:01pm On Sep 18, 2012 |
Religion Atheist.. She dont like it, but thats the way it is.. Love me for me, and not my religion I tell her..\ Bad Habits She knows.. I smoke, drink and dont do drugs.. Except Cannabis! Children She knows I want 6 kids.. Shes been pleading with me to compromise at 3.. the jury is still out on this... Health I'm as healthy as a stud.. I fhuck like a Rabbit.. Exercise.. Play Football on the weekends as well.. Money Though we are not married, she controls the finances.. She has my account Passwords, Tokens, Cheques books and also my E-mail addresses and Passwords.. Not for any other reason ther than the fact that I know shes good with money and I'm too lazy to handle financial issues.. I make the money, she spends the money.. Moreover, she has a good job with a fat salary as well so whats there to hide? Skeletons in the Closet Yup!! She knows all my lifes history and I know hers.. Some issues in her past are still a problem, but I love her enough to work through them.. Interests She is an extrovert, I'm an Introvert.. I love being all by my alone, playing video games and have my boys come over on the weekends and chill with me and watch TV and play soccer.. She loves ging out (not necessarily to the club), but to movies and shows.. She ikes travels and vacations.. I can do vacations as it involves just the two of us, but I hate crowds so we have a little problem there.. But thats wat a relationship is all about.. COMPROMISE!! Family I love my Family.. Very close to my Parents and Siblings.. Fight almost everyday with my mum.. So what?! I dont have any extended Family relatives on either side of the Family that I'm cool with.. She on the Other hand is from a large family with many siblings, uncles and Aunties.. That shiiit gives me the creeps.. I hate extended family baggage.. But she has promised to shield me from what ever drama that comes from her extended relatives.. Temperament I can lose my temper in a second.. But with us, we fight, Quarrel and the fhuck like rabbits to ressolve issues.. Style She runs my style, wardrobe, shoes, the house and all.. All I do is make money, fhuck her and love her like shes supposed to be Loved.. 1 Like |
Re: Things Every Girl Should Know About Her Fiance Before Marriage by Reference(m): 4:10pm On Sep 18, 2012 |
No man (woman) alive can do all these, but its worth a try. |
Re: Things Every Girl Should Know About Her Fiance Before Marriage by coolgeorge: 4:14pm On Sep 18, 2012 |
@Op Thats a Job well done, quite insightful! |
Re: Things Every Girl Should Know About Her Fiance Before Marriage by destinedtee(m): 4:28pm On Sep 18, 2012 |
A very nice thread...God bless u OP.....Thanks. |
Re: Things Every Girl Should Know About Her Fiance Before Marriage by God2man(m): 5:07pm On Sep 18, 2012 |
Timijo: No one wants to be surprised to find that their new spouse has a serious drinking problem or is a complete slob. There are certain fundamental issues that need to be resolved before two people enter into a marriage. Until you've lived with someone for a while or been in a long relationship, it's hard to know almost everything about them. Open the lines of communication and have a series of heart-to-heart talks about the things that matter most. 1 Like |
Re: Things Every Girl Should Know About Her Fiance Before Marriage by God2man(m): 5:10pm On Sep 18, 2012 |
Timijo: No one wants to be surprised to find that their new spouse has a serious drinking problem or is a complete slob. There are certain fundamental issues that need to be resolved before two people enter into a marriage. Until you've lived with someone for a while or been in a long relationship, it's hard to know almost everything about them. Open the lines of communication and have a series of heart-to-heart talks about the things that matter most. |
Re: Things Every Girl Should Know About Her Fiance Before Marriage by dspices(m): 5:11pm On Sep 18, 2012 |
kulyie: Nice points but d truth of d matter is dat many girls are caught up with getin d ring by fire by force without knowing d giver of d ring welfor any relationship or marriage to work out then there should be inversely or rather re-circle of 60% to 40% of love between the two people,because there always a time to hate or to love.check,study and analysis every occurrence before agreement. |
Re: Things Every Girl Should Know About Her Fiance Before Marriage by Nobody: 5:14pm On Sep 18, 2012 |
honeric01: Nice...interest has alot to do with a healthy relationship, if when courting, you guys can't find anything interesting to do together, believe me, it's going to be SO BORING when you're married.How do u know that? Mention one marriage that hasn't had monumental stretches of boredom and I'll suggest u go to a mirror to see a reflection of someone who just doesn't get it. |
Re: Things Every Girl Should Know About Her Fiance Before Marriage by dspices(m): 5:14pm On Sep 18, 2012 |
d_spices:only MADWOMAN make a home but not a family thus, once home is found l will tell love would be celebrated. |
Re: Things Every Girl Should Know About Her Fiance Before Marriage by okooloyun1(m): 5:19pm On Sep 18, 2012 |
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Re: Things Every Girl Should Know About Her Fiance Before Marriage by Lalaska(m): 5:29pm On Sep 18, 2012 |
Valid issue identified here. Well done. |
Re: Things Every Girl Should Know About Her Fiance Before Marriage by dandadee: 5:29pm On Sep 18, 2012 |
'how does he like to f**k'...lets not pretend that s.ex isnt important in marriage. |
Re: Things Every Girl Should Know About Her Fiance Before Marriage by Nimi22(f): 5:36pm On Sep 18, 2012 |
@op nice thread. Thanks for d piece. |
Re: Things Every Girl Should Know About Her Fiance Before Marriage by okooloyun1(m): 5:47pm On Sep 18, 2012 |
Kingsleyinfo: @OPThat is the reason why many marriages failed coz this days people don't prepare for marriage they only prepare in marriage especially ladies that want to marry by fire by thunder you hear them saying; * - I will learn how to cook when i got married * - I can't do laundry am not a slave * - my fiance life is complicated well,i will know him better when i got married even some people can't play the bed game to your satisfaction they will tell you am not a LovePeddler. My point is whatever issues you might be struggling with your fiance now pls clear them out b4 going into the real thing coz if you don't pack-well b4 getting married you will pack-up and if care is not taking when you are repackaging yourself you might likely pack-out. 1 Like |
Re: Things Every Girl Should Know About Her Fiance Before Marriage by dayokanu(m): 6:31pm On Sep 18, 2012 |
You also need to know how she loves to be beaten. if Its just slaps or blows, Belts or wire. :8 1 Like |
Re: Things Every Girl Should Know About Her Fiance Before Marriage by Nobody: 6:45pm On Sep 18, 2012 |
dayokanu: You also need to know how she loves to be beaten.lol ![]() |
Re: Things Every Girl Should Know About Her Fiance Before Marriage by DExplorer1: 7:12pm On Sep 18, 2012 |
Are these the answers to divorce? |
Re: Things Every Girl Should Know About Her Fiance Before Marriage by ijcu(m): 7:20pm On Sep 18, 2012 |
Jumicke: @ Op, I really love this post. I've always wanting 2 know some of d things dat causes problem in marriage. Once again thanks@ Op, I really love this post. I've always wanting 2 know some of d things dat causes problem in marriage. Once again thanks@ Op, I really love this post. I've always wanting 2 know some of d things dat causes problem in marriage. Once again thanks hmmmmmmmmm ihe na eme... |
Re: Things Every Girl Should Know About Her Fiance Before Marriage by ghettodreamz(m): 7:59pm On Sep 18, 2012 |
@Timijo; Nice one! But let me add this, 'Good communication'. His he the type that discuss with you? If not all, but some of the things he goes or he's going through and wanted to seek for your advice on how to go about things? Or is he an egocentric or self-opinionated person? Relationship is a union between 2 people and the 2 should always talk and discuss about things together, 2 heads are by far better than just one. When he discuss things with you and always ready to share his day or plans with you for you 2 to discuss it and make a decision together, then you have won a jackpot, lol. In a relationship where there is always good communication between the 2, chances of conflict and misunderstanding reduces and therein reduces occurrence of arguments too. Relationship/Marriage should be a 2 way streets and should not be single sided, just my two pennies worth. 2 Likes |
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