woodboi: Really I don't support a guy doing dis but couple of weeks ago I was pushd to slap 1, not a gurl friend sha but a bit emotional complicated kind off stuff. Been enduring her shouting nd throwing al kind of words at mi, would have endure al if forks are not ard. But standing in front of mi wit fork ard, up to 3 times @ dis point I couldn't hold it but lost it all.


I regret it sha, nd up til now am trying to apologize, but she stil kip using altitude on mi. So 4 now I lock up dey look gentle. Time wil always play is role.



But really guys! Pray u don't meet a gurl dat wil push u beyond ur limit. I can't imagine a woman locking is husband shirt on his way rushing to work, probably over sum issue dey couldn't work out d previous night and u ask d man not to react. Do u want d man to loose his job?

ogugua88: ^^ Epistle, for what? Lol.

ogugua88: ^^ Epistle, for what? Lol.

sexkillz: to propagate the ministry. ..

Mynd_44:
What ministry will that be oh great typist?

Maria-G:
about-to-wed ministry

sexkillz: A lot of things can warrant you wanting to beat up a woman. Personally, i would never hit any woman at all expect she is a threat to my life, or a threat to the lives of those i love, then i would be acting purely on self defence.

Hitting a woman you claim to love is a different ball game all entirely. When you say you love someone, it means you have accepted that they are imperfect and they can make mistakes, and that though it would happen, they remain assured of your love for them. Treating others the way you want to be treated yourself is the "way to go" mentality when dealing with loved ones. Men are generally more stronger physically and emotionally than women. What will piss a woman off, may not piss a man off, So sometimes when a girlfriend or a wife overreacts by hitting us first, is that a licence for us to retaliate, with even worse torrential beatings?

















Two wrongs never ever make a right. When one person is wrong, the other definitely has to be calm and swallow the humble pie for peace to reign. It doesnt in anyway denote you to be weak. A woman's slap can at most be very stinging and sharp and embarrassing, but would you hit her back? When you know a slap from you could leave her unconscious? Most men are proud and egotistical and most will want to retaliate, to show that they are still in charge, but are they, really?

There are better ways to handle a problem without involving violence. You can walk away from the relationship if you feel so insulted. And if married, you can help her correct those mistakes in a loving way since you vowed to love her till death separates you two! You could look at what warranted her to slap you in the first place, put yourself in her shoes and see if you would have reacted the same way if it were you. Seeking a level ground before acting it has never failed anyone. Yes, women should control their anger and put their emotions in check, but how do your teach someone a lesson in humility if you are not humble yourself? Yes we are imperfect and can react impulsively but we should always remember that there worse consequences that could result when you decide to beat up a woman. If the relationship gets too abusive, you can walk away.

It is even worse for those who are not married to a girl, nor intending to marry them, beating them up. Her family could take up the case and go kung fu on your azz. Really, when you sit and conclude on the negative consequences that could result from beating up a wife or gf, it outweighs the positive, that is, if anything positive results from violence in the first place. . .

Mynd_44:
Ijebabe has not sent me and invitation card yet so I dont believe it

Maria-G:
does one have to send i.vs to open up a ministry? Just like Grace of God ministry, you can also have Aboutt-to-wed ministry.....understood?

Mynd_44:
i see your point but as pastor Mrs, Ijebabe should have sent me an invitation

Mynd_44: You are promoting violence you this girl

Maria-G:
oya, come beat me

Mynd_44:
Find someone else to do that

Maria-G:
thought as much...midge heart