Well I think that no matter who it is that you like you should respect your heart, anyhow what people seem to forget is your cousin is someone who is a normal human being,,, the only people it is really 'wrong to fancy' is your imediate family eg brothers sisters or parents - of whome are related directly to you by blood. Or even one way I think of it is, people have a belief we are derived from apes (which are animals as you know) but in prides of lions the male lion grows up to dominate the pride by attacking and mating, and the only women in the pride are their brothers sisters and cousins, so at least one male of the pack will mate with family members - its just humans have bypassed the facts of nature.

Damn fo.
what do you call that

@poster, pls don't feel guilty ok? If we could choose whom to fall in love with life wouldn't be fun right? It's not ur fault i'm also in d same shoes as u, i'm dyin for her but i'm resistin d tot by stayin away, dat u should cultivate; stay away from her as much as possible, still be friends but don't be beaten by dat feelin.

Don't u have something better to think of? U done with school;I mean u gat a B.Sc, masters?U gat a job;I mean a job?U gat a house of your own? U living a well fulfilled life? You gat a car?  I mean there are thousands of things you can think of.Tryna think of how to acheive great things and a better future than thinking bout your cousin and building your castle in the air, Im sure u jobless;because an idle mind is the devil's workshop.Gosh!!!!

[quote author=uspry1]@poster, you really make me sick to hear too many those people fall in love or have crush or want to marry to their own blood or distant cousins. God forbids me like that----_{zoom off}.

You must be muslim to allow incestious relationship.
Y r u pple so foolish so its only muslims dat involves in incest right?can't u just make ur point sensibly instead of attaching religious sentiments