masterpiecer:
I don't think so
men do keep secrets but women are a 100x more secretive than men

chigoziec: . . .

tpia@:

i'm seriously tempted to view the pictures privately, but i think i'll have to pass because i know someone will use it as an excuse to do the same with my own. [not like they're not doing so already].
well, i'll have to assume you're absolutely sure the child is biracial, and none of the features are found in any member of the family, including the grandparents.

if you check the photos of the red gala night in celebrity section, you can see the difference between nigerians who look biracial [or might be mixed], and nigerians who are actually known to be biracial.

as per the child- many light skinned black kids tend to become a bit darker as they get older. For some mixed ones, it could be the other way round, as in they could be darker initially then might lighten somewhat as they grow.

selfmade12: Is paternity testing becoming an issue in Nigeria?

We have seen that there is serious need for it because in many homes things are happening that are scary both to the lives of children and their parents. And for the general statistics that is now available, it is found that three out of every ten men are not the fathers of their babies. Similarly, three out of every ten children are not fathered by men they have seen as their biological fathers. What we have found out is that, anytime we take ten men, at least three of them eventually found that they are not the fathers of the children they call their own. And these men would have taken care of the children for all their lives.

Now, the global statistics is 100, 000 out of every 300, 000 men. But what we have found that is that the situation is higher in Nigeria than other places. For example in our laboratory here, 50 per cent of the cases comes out negative. And we also realised that majority of the first-borns are affected. You only need to be here to see big men cry like little kids and watch children weep in agony. It has been that bad. And I dare say it is becoming something every home must do and you may be quite surprised at the level of dastard revelation.

About thirty per cent of fathers are unknowingly bringing up children who are not biologically theirs. And it is suspected that this percentage may be on the increase due to sexual recklessness. According to recent trends in sexual health, especially in Nigeria, it was suggested that unprotected sex and multiple partners are comparatively common occurrences with a large proportion of conceptions still unplanned. So, more than half, that is, 50 per cent of all paternity tests carried out by our lab comes out negative and the most affected are first-borns, except in a few cases.


http://www.ediong.org/2012/09/three-of-10-men-are-not-fathers-of.html?utm_source

FlowerPower:

Madam, genes are very tricky, but I have several biracial children in my family. There is no mistaking it. Oga is NOT THE DADDY!!!

selfmade12: Is paternity testing becoming an issue in Nigeria?

We have seen that there is serious need for it because in many homes things are happening that are scary both to the lives of children and their parents. And for the general statistics that is now available, it is found that three out of every ten men are not the fathers of their babies. Similarly, three out of every ten children are not fathered by men they have seen as their biological fathers. What we have found out is that, anytime we take ten men, at least three of them eventually found that they are not the fathers of the children they call their own. And these men would have taken care of the children for all their lives.

Now, the global statistics is 100, 000 out of every 300, 000 men. But what we have found that is that the situation is higher in Nigeria than other places. For example in our laboratory here, 50 per cent of the cases comes out negative. And we also realised that majority of the first-borns are affected. You only need to be here to see big men cry like little kids and watch children weep in agony. It has been that bad. And I dare say it is becoming something every home must do and you may be quite surprised at the level of dastard revelation.

About thirty per cent of fathers are unknowingly bringing up children who are not biologically theirs. And it is suspected that this percentage may be on the increase due to sexual recklessness. According to recent trends in sexual health, especially in Nigeria, it was suggested that unprotected sex and multiple partners are comparatively common occurrences with a large proportion of conceptions still unplanned. So, more than half, that is, 50 per cent of all paternity tests carried out by our lab comes out negative and the most affected are first-borns, except in a few cases.


http://www.ediong.org/2012/09/three-of-10-men-are-not-fathers-of.html?utm_source

tpia@:


be that as it may, still not the norm since i assume a man would be able to recognise a biracial child when he saw one.
and besides, blacks with white blood might not look white, but could still have kids with caucasoid features at some point.
it all depends.
your insistence on the child being biracial makes me assume you are focusing particularly on the hair, right. In addition to the features.

stillwater:

At the end you don't need testosterone to cheat, yes or no? Nothwithstanding, men also have their excuses to cheat likey wifey disrespecting him, wifey's not sexy any more, wifey's not cut out for acrobatics in bed, wifey works too much etc.

slimyem: i'm going to try swing this around some other likelihood....
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If women are bringing bastards home to their husbands,isn't it also possible that the men themselves have sired children whose paternities have been transferred to other husbands...especially since the men these women are cheating with are not imported men?

tpia@:




"obviously mixed"- what features does the child have that look biracial?

Efemena_xy:

Is it really? 'Cos I don't think so. It's level playing field here.

~ A man chooses to have a child outside his martial home and keeps his wife in the dark. That's deceit to his wife.

~ Likewise, a woman chooses to have a child outside her martial home and keeps the husband in the dark about the paternity. That's deceit to her husband.

The common factor in both cases is that the spouses are kept in the dark! It doesn't matter whether or not it's a high level or low level of deceit. It is what it is, and it's WRONG.

slimyem: i'm not trying to make excuses for the women or justify cheating in any way...but it is not enough to put all the blame on them and forget that the results of their actions are never singly propelled!

debosky: As for those so quick to blame women, are you by any chance including your sisters/mums/cousins/daughters/aunts etc. in this large number of women who are unfaithful or do you foolishly believe your own relatives are an exception?

Just a thought - when you make blanket condemnations be sure to include your family members too.

debosky: As for those so quick to blame women, are you by any chance including your sisters/mums/cousins/daughters/aunts etc. in this large number of women who are unfaithful or do you foolishly believe your own relatives are an exception?

Just a thought - when you make blanket condemnations be sure to include your family members too.

slimyem: i'm going to try swing this around some other likelihood....
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If women are bringing bastards home to their husbands,isn't it also possible that the men themselves have sired children whose paternities have been transferred to other husbands...especially since the men these women are cheating with are not imported men?

slimyem: Tell them o......
They forget that as there are immoral women so there are very morally-inclined ones.They judge all of us unfairly as one and same all the time..
I'm just so tired of defending the few good ones cuz Nairalanders mostly never believe it!

slimyem: Tell them o......
They forget that as there are immoral women so there are very morally-inclined ones.They judge all of us unfairly as one and same all the time..
I'm just so tired of defending the few good ones cuz Nairalanders mostly never believe it!

masterpiecer:

men do keep secrets but women are a 100x more secretive than men

coogar:

the testosterone level in the naija women is higher than their female counterparts all over the world!

segxes23:
if d testosterone level in naija women is higher dn others all over d world dn dey should luk more masculine. Nd naija women re really feminine. So, ur theory doesn't hold water

tpia@:


i do pity your first born who according to you, is a b.astard.