I'm a chubby and very attractive young woman. Well,I can't remember an instance where I was with a skinny girl and she was more preferred, so to speak. I think its because I'm confident in myself. You can't intimidate me with your looks, however you are. Instead I'll admire you and we move on. I've been in a few relationships and my weight hasn't been a problem. Besides, I have no problem with people commenting on my weight. Infact, before you bring it up, I must have mentioned it. Sometimes, people call me chubby, plumpy, thick, fat...blah blah blah. I now see it as a compliment. My boyfriend loves me for me and instead of complaining when I add weight, we discuss on how to shed it. Don't forget there're some people who've tried all they can to add weight but have been unsuccessful. I walk with my head high, knowing that I'm pretty and plump. So my dear friends, just love yourself and if people can't love you the way u are, its their problem.

Dis is wat m talkin abt
Thumbs up Cherish
I jst so love thick me

Dyt: Dis is wat m talkin abt
Thumbs up Cherish
I jst so love thick me

what a joke!!!

F off
We don't nid small bois ere

Mrs..Chima:


And you are a fat boy with a dead dick.

loool, you are very funny.....well maybe u shud let me shine your kpomo with my 'dead prick' with different s.ex positions and lets see if you will not be begging me while eating your own words.

blogger1.0:

what a joke!!!

OP, weight is always an issue with most women no matter how we look. Models still complain they need to loose a pound here and there which I find very annoying and sends the wrong message to our young girls out there. Agreed, size 16 is not what the media tells us to aim for but you cannot go about life feeling miserable and depressed because you will lose out in the end. Eat right, stay fit and active, the weight will come off eventually. When you go on a crash course diet it will only end up biting you in the a s s so please let being healthy be a lifestyle decision for you.

I have met chubby people who are so full of life and confidence, men can't help but fall in love with them. You need to love yourself only then will you see changes in your body. As for the guy telling you to lose weight while having sex that is just insensitive and you need to start deleting certain people from your life if you need to be happy. Use their words as fuel to strengthen your confidence. You are not the only one, remember that.

I sure love 'em thick...............'ve never been with a skinny girl tho.

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Gabby aka Precious is African boo boo.

Jennifer Hudson is Black American. MUAHHH.

blogger1.0:

loool, you are very funny.....well maybe u shud let me shine your kpomo with my 'dead prick' with different s.ex positions and lets see if you will not be begging me while eating your own words.

t
i would rather have sex with a white man. Winks. No thanks though.

Guys,thank you so so much,am new to nairaland,and I would ve to admit,all ur words have been so encouraging and given me a new perspective about my body and my self-esteem,I appreciate all ur encouragements...thanks

Mrs.Chima:
t
i would rather have sex with a white man. Winks. No thanks though.

I would rather have s.ex with models

Cherish100: I'm a chubby and very attractive young woman. Well,I can't remember an instance where I was with a skinny girl and she was more preferred, so to speak. I think its because I'm confident in myself. You can't intimidate me with your looks, however you are. Instead I'll admire you and we move on. I've been in a few relationships and my weight hasn't been a problem. Besides, I have no problem with people commenting on my weight. Infact, before you bring it up, I must have mentioned it. Sometimes, people call me chubby, plumpy, thick, fat...blah blah blah. I now see it as a compliment. My boyfriend loves me for me and instead of complaining when I add weight, we discuss on how to shed it. Don't forget there're some people who've tried all they can to add weight but have been unsuccessful. I walk with my head high, knowing that I'm pretty and plump. So my dear friends, just love yourself and if people can't love you the way u are, its their problem.

now this is what I call BIG BOLD AND BEAUTIFUL! You look stunning babe!

omobabaolowo: Guys,thank you so so much,am new to nairaland,and I would ve to admit,all ur words have been so encouraging and given me a new perspective about my body and my self-esteem,I appreciate all ur encouragements...thanks

You are welcome, my dear. Your inner beauty has greater value than your outward appearance.
Meanwhile do not go around opening you laps for every tom, d1ck and harry. Have a self-worth. Cheers.

blogger1.0:

what a joke!!!

and what makes it a joke huh!

Mrs..Chima:


And you are a fat boy with a dead dick.

buhahahahaha! Can't stop laffing!

omobabaolowo: Guys,thank you so so much,am new to nairaland,and I would ve to admit,all ur words have been so encouraging and given me a new perspective about my body and my self-esteem,I appreciate all ur encouragements...thanks

look babe, trust me when i say the new perspective and self esteem these people have given will leave once your outside nland.
So my candid advice, if you don't like the way you look, do something about it.....if you can't then you must find encourage from within (not any other person) and create a new personality for yourself, and then build your self confidence from within.
Thats the only way it can become a way of life and remain permanently with you.
Peace.

berem: buhahahahaha! Can't stop laffing!

i bet when i hammer you my kpekus, you won't be laughing anymore.

berem: and what makes it a joke huh!

the fact that the truth is right in front of them and yet they are running around in circles.....deceiving themselves

blogger1.0:
Laaaawwwd! So most of the girls we have on here are all fat girls? Choi! slimyem hope you are not fat too?
Nairaland is in trouble.....and pls u guys should stop using the word 'chubby' and call it what it is....'FATness'.
BTW where is ID, their group leader....lol

Ayam here alive and kicking, so wot if am plummy? Guy! Dey ur lane o! Wiv my long legs Nd thickness, forget! Ur fada go divorce ur mama gba! U think dis infrastructure na beans? Oh boi! * singing* oh no u don't no dey tin, u are playing wiv dey tin... Emi omo aladewura! Barclays lomo! My alabode sef na salute! Ye Gbe! Barbie d gal wiv d coffee table behind. Gbo ju joor!

blogger1.0:

I would rather have s.ex with models

Good....go get the fat ones..they are more likely to take pity in you. Good luck!

I think it is safe to say that most Nigerian men prefer ladies with a bit of flesh, but the flesh has got to be in the 'right places' though. . .

claremont: I think it is safe to say that most Nigerian men prefer ladies with a bit of flesh, but the flesh has got to be in the 'right places' though. . .

Exactly!!!

Bennyraz loooooves them orobolicious!!!

http://fuckyeahchubbyfashion.tumblr.com/

Take a look here as well. Anything from a little bit chubby, to damn overweight..still, most of them look daaamn nice.

Chubby people, both male and female, are the most happy and playful group I have seen. . . . For me, when I'm ready to get married, chubby girls rank higher than skinny girls in the list of features I want in my wife.

Metalgoong: Chubby people, both male and female, are the most happy and playful group I have seen. . . . For me, when I'm ready to get married, chubby girls rank higher than skinny girls in the list of features I want in my wife.

"winks"

Mrs.Chima:
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i would rather have sex with a white man. Winks. No thanks though.

Are u a racist ?

claremont: I think it is safe to say that most Nigerian men prefer ladies with a bit of flesh, but the flesh has got to be in the 'right places' though. . .

spot on

Metalgoong: Chubby people, both male and female, are the most happy and playful group I have seen. . . . For me, when I'm ready to get married, chubby girls rank higher than skinny girls in the list of features I want in my wife.

well said,they are very lively and jovial.