I met dz pretty girl during my final year in school, we were actually in the same department and wz a year ahead of her, we never notised eachoda until i was in my finals...we became really close wen i started helping her with assignments n all, though she do volunteer 2 come 2 my hall of residence so i can put her thru..to save time ..we were so much in 2 eachoda dt we started kissin n all even wen i neva asked her out. tho... she told me she waz in a six yearz relationship burr the guy wasn't crious with her...even @ that I seemz 2 love her more that she was ready 2 live that guy 4 me burr the guy neva stopd callin...i graduated n went for NYSC orientation camp in PH. Wen i got bk afta dt 3 weeks she came to me cryin wen she said her family wont let her leave the guy cuz the two family ar very close even to an xtent dt her mum started maltreatin her...funny enuff the guy works in abuja n we were even makin love d last tym he called. Jus yesterday the guy called her that he was feelin very sick n he's in lagos now....i feel very bad each tym i knw they ar meetin. I really love dz girl n i jus wish there is sumfin i can do for her 2 be mine. We had 2 delete eachoda off our bbpin b4 she left for lagos yesterday in order 2 avoid d guy bein suspicious n we wont even talk on phone not until she's bk. Weneva she's bk like that....she always come beggin that i should understanddt she's doin all dt cuz of d family thing. I love dz babe burr i dont knw what to do. Share Your thoughtz House!!!

Nottin can b done
let her be

My thoughts? You are the other guy in this 'relationship' and nothing of substance will happen between you two unless the girl is ready to break it off with the other guy despite what her family says.

Hmmmmmm, did u know what? Just let the girl make her choice out of u two. It is then u will know who the girl loves out of u two. Ok! Cos girls r not to be predicted.

It's not that easy for me 2 let go burr i jus v 2 free her @ d end cuz i betta do that now than 2 be a looser 4 life. Thanks every1. I really appreci8 ur contribution. I jus hope she wont come beggin again.

Even if she comes back begging, you can't go back to her while she continues with the other guy.
It's hard i know, but it's important you do. Sorry