When your boyfriend or girlfriends says it's over, there is no need to cry your eyes out or lose sleep over it. cos his/her going might be for your own good. for you're likely to meet a better person after breaking up from your ex. it's a normal thing for one to be bitter and pained after breaking up with your partner. some are heartbroken for months, while others dont waste time before starting another relationship after breaking from their ex. staying indoor, sulking or lamenting is not a better way to get over a failed relationship. while crying over an ex, your perfect match could be out there waiting for you. what you thought you've lost, a better version of it could be found in the next person you're likely to meet. so, there's no need to cry your eyes out. dry your tears, so that you can see well enough to find a better person. for what you've lost, you're bound to find it if you look well enough. atimes break ups do happen for one to find a perfect match. there's no guaranty that you're going to end up with your first, second or third boyfriend/girlfriend. some can have as many as seven to ten lovers before finally settling down with the one they are willing to let go of others for. like the story of a guy who had a girlfriend, whom he loved so much. he was hoping to even tie the knot with her someday. but along the line, they started having issues and had to call off the relationship. a break up that brought so much pain, and agony for the guy. he became withdrawn for a while and had little interest in the opposite sex. he felt he wont be able to find any girl like his ex, while waiting and hoping for her come back to him. a wish that never materialized. to cut a long story short, he later met and fell inlove with another girl. a better version of his ex, so to say. what he thought he had lost in his ex, he was able to find more of it in his new lover. she was like a dream come true for him. atimes, when we lose sometin, you could end up getting a better one in return sooner or later, if you believe. if your boyfriend or girlfriend wants to leave you (or has already left you), dont lose any sleep over it. he or she is leaving/left for a better person to come into your life. simple!

PS: Mind you, this piece is not in support of those that want to divorce/leave their wives or husbands in order to remarry or try their luck (love) elsewhere. My hand no dey there oooo.

Your head dey d matter....

Where does this guy get the bullshyt he puts up sef?