Relationship without money will led to troubles. But the fact remains, money should not be used as a yardstick to measure love.A lady that loves you will not be too demanding. vice verse.When looking for true love, i think what should be uppermost in the minds of partners in relationship is sincerity, honest, trust, character etc.if money should be used as a yardstick, then billionaires would have been best lovers of all times. because they have money to win millions of ladies throughout the world.

A lady may love you for who you are(a poor man) while searching for a better option.She will definately dump you once she hits her target.

I WANTED TO SAY YES... BUT JUST THOUGHT OF THE BRAZILIAN HAIR THINGY!

But these days 1 out 100 ladies can stay with man without money. some will tell you i no wan suffer. Poverty is not my portion.

I miss KULIKULI. KULI KULI and Garri, please when will I have you?? Home sweet Home

tslimpez: Yes! My current boyfriend doesn't hAve a job.....we've dated for a year plus now And I still love him..I know d future is bright. So money can't buy love.money cAn only buy trouble

That is to say.....u re waiting for him to hammer....why not love someone u knw he doesnt ve a bright future. Well I like ur courage sha, it is a good thing u re doing but all the same we still need money in life. Money is good but the love of it is bad.
I wish you all the best...just keep it up.

Love and money go hand in hand...

the truth still remain's that the level of poverty on Nigerian women is high..that is Y thier next option is to opt 4 men to rescue them from this epidemic called poverty. That is Y this has become a subject. In western world like UK , woman no send ur money or man becos she get . The government pays them & takes care of their fatherless kids . So if she loves u, she doesnt base it on material things . Unlike Nigerian women wey OWU dey blow front & back. The truth is that women wey get money dey find love & the owu babes want both ,but cash is top of the list .

tslimpez: Yes! My current boyfriend doesn't hAve a job.....we've dated for a year plus now And I still love him..I know d future is bright. So money can't buy love.money cAn only buy trouble

ok o time wil tell

carefreewannabe:

thank you for this contribution.
when my grandparents got married, they were almost poor.
they made it together. their children lacked nothing. and my grandparents have been married for 51 yrs now. I love and respect them so much. and I thank them for all the love they have given our family. that's why I value love more than money. and that's how I know that money can't buy love. I know I sound romatic and all kitschy but I like it

My dear true love doesn't need money but as for Most Nigerian Babe, money is everything to them as they'll always want you to buy buy buy and even going out to restaurant you are expected to pay all the time.

What's that all about?....Don't get me wrong there are few ones that doesn't want you for your money and it's VISE VASA some Men are like parasite on their girls.

My course mate at UNILAG told me she likes me but I have no money and all I can Offer her is my DICK ....lol....but that's the level of poverty in our society.

May i remind all in the house that marriage is for better for worse in those days but this generation has changed which is constant in life, so don't blame this generation if you find out that your girl is only following you like mumu because of your money. true Love is very scarce.

claremont: An ideal scenario will be when both parties in the relationship have decent jobs, they can then split whatever bills they incur equally. I hate the idea of one party being the sole breadwinner while the other party makes little or no financial contribution.

Culturally, it is an African thing for love to be translated to mean how much a man is willing to give to his lady from his earnings. The more he gives her, the more he supposedly loves her. In most modern countries outside Africa, a female will consider it an insult for her partner to give her money.

I'm outside of "Africa" and it is NOT an insult for my partner to give me money . Most of the women I know and grew up with, would love to have a man give them money. The difference here (US) is that most women do not take kindly to a man who believes he is owed something because he gave you a few dollars. Having hope for a romantic relationship is ok, but don't EXPECT anything to happen because you gave a lady a gift.

There will always be love for all,but the kind of love one gets,depends on the kind of effort one makes.Love is selfish,it is a human trait,everybody wants some.

The fear of being alone is like the fear of death,and women are always much trouble when it comes to loneliness,that is why they can go to any lenght to have a man around,irrespective of the man's substance.

tslimpez: Yes! My current boyfriend doesn't hAve a job.....we've dated for a year plus now And I still love him..I know d future is bright. So money can't buy love.money cAn only buy trouble

time will tell......

love is not blind and not broke.

Rooneyboy: Money rules every thing including LOVE.
The only difference is that ur money will buy u the love it can afford.

*An okada rider can never date an oil big lady NEVER.

Buh he can sure fuuuck her if hez diick is good

tslimpez: Yes! My current boyfriend doesn't hAve a job.....we've dated for a year plus now And I still love him..I know d future is bright. So money can't buy love.money cAn only buy trouble

roma[b]NCE[/b] without fi[b]NANCE[/b] is nuis[b]ANCE[/b]

The race to marry a BIG BOY is what's now in
vogue. Most ladies nowadays can't function if
there is no cash involved. The urge for
material things has changed the STORY OF
LOVE. Why make money your only priority
when choosing your spouse...? There's more
to marriage than money alone.
A man with a good heart is better than a rich
man with the heart of α beast. Most women
say they want security in life so they won’t
date the poor. If he's not rich today doesn't
mean he will be poor for life. The happiness
and security of your life is your
responsibility.
Those who choose never to endure at all may
have to suffer for long. Getting married to
the rich doesn't guarantee happiness in life.
HAPPINESS IS PRICELESS. Perhaps those who
say they will rather cry inside a BMW X6 than
laughing on a bicycle have never experienced
pain in their life. Some relationship mistakes
can cause life regret Many young women
have blindly turned themselves to TEST DRIVE
VEHICLE for the love of material things.What
qualified you as great woman is not in
designer shoes and bags. It’s in your good
heart, good characters and real personality.
When a real man finds a wife in you he will
never let you go.
It’s funny how material women blame men
for breaking their heart. A man who wins
your love with cash may not stay for long.
Real men don't settle down with fake women.
THE ONLY PLACE YOU CAN FIND A FAKE
WOMAN IS TEMPORARILY IN THE HEART OF A
FOOLISH MAN, BUT WHEN THE FOOLISH
BECOMES WISE, THE WISE PERSON IS IN
SERIOUS PROBLEMS.
Looking for a real man when you are fake is
like looking for a LIVE FISH IN THE DESERT.
Life is not α joke............ You can earn the
wealth now and remain sad in years to
come......... THE CHOICE IS YOURS!
The basis of any relationship still remains
LOVE, TRUST, GOOD COMMUNICATION and
CO COMMITMENT NOTE: money is very good
and necessary... But there should be a limit.
PEACE!

GBAM!You have said it all.There must be a 'price'.it mustn't neccessarily be money.

Bunchers stab: Love and money go hand in hand...

My thoughts exactly!

While I was an undergraduate, youth corp member and a jobless graduate, I had so many good gurls that turned down the so called "big boiz" because of the love they had for me. There are still good gurlz out there that would love u 4 who u are but not just anyhow guy. It has 2 be the one with good prospect cause everyone wants a happy ending.

But let the truth be said; money is a serious motivation 2 engineer love. U can just laugh @ some sudden change in ladies behaviour when they know pepper done rest 4 ya hand.

My advice is If u want a lady who will truly love u 4 who u are, u shuld try as much as possible to eliminate making an impression with ya money.

Money cant buy happiness.. but somehow, its more comfortable to cry in a BMW than on a bicycle

jstringz: While I was an undergraduate, youth corp member and a jobless graduate, I had so many good gurls that turned down the so called "big boiz" because of the love they had for me. There are still good gurlz out there that would love u 4 who u are but not just anyhow guy. It has 2 be the one with good prospect cause everyone wants a happy ending.

But let the truth be said; money is a serious motivation 2 engineer love. U can just laugh @ some sudden change in ladies behaviour when they know pepper done rest 4 ya hand.

My advice is If u want a lady who will truly love u 4 who u are, u shuld try as much as possible to eliminate making an impression with ya money.

. 2ru talk

To me love is love without dilution with anything. If i luv my partner i can give him or her evrything i have, which is not necessary money but my body, soul and spirit. But poverty has taken over the whole place and everybody now look for way to better thier lives hence love is auction out to the highest bidder in cash Especialy in Nigeria.

Plz,let's nt mistake lv-a language of d hrt,wit money-material n physical possession.

Money cn buy u pleasure bt nt hapiness
money cn buy u a woman bt cnt buy u a wyf(i mean gd,decent home keeper)
money cn take u places bt cnt gv u peace of mind.
Moni-moni-moni-it's nt all dt matas
u cn go farther 2 ask ur dad if it wz his money dt got ur mother married 2 him.shikena

HEY, NO MONEY, NO LOVE! GBAM!

buzu84: Hi Pips,
I just had a funny discussion with my colleagues, Money and Love....people are saying in this age it's Money that oils the love, if you've got no money you are jonzing....and i quite agree though.....even the poor man that pushes a wheelbarrow still tries to take care of his partner with the little he makes. so my take is it's difficult to get love without money.

Can there be life without money?Love itself is life. It therefore depends on one's attitude to money.

your post is not true. Money precipitates the love. The Love might not be there at first but with money and a little care from the guy........The lady must show some love. Lolzzzzzzzzzz

carefreewannabe: you cannot buy love with money. you can buy a woman but not love.
if a woman truly loves you, she'll also love you when you're broke.
if she loves your money then test what happens when it's gone

but many guys don't mind.

doublecross: your post is not true. Money precipitates the love. The Love might not be there at first but with money and a little care from the guy........The lady must show some love. Lolzzzzzzzzzz

you're free to express your opinion. I have mine. and I disagree with you.
why do rich people in e.g. Hollywood marry among themselves. why no famous and rich actor marries a poor beautiful girl. why no actress takes a poor but good hearted athletic boy? why many football stars marry their girlfriends that were there before they made it? to make sure money is not their only motif for marrying them!
I know Nigeria is different and people here are convinced that love can be bought and they don't mind. this is so because it's a culture where daughters are sold off.

I met my hubby wen he had nothing nw he has small change he is cheatin on me.nw all am after is d money love don retire

No,u can buy love,but money make love sweeter $ beautiful

Money is good in evry r/ship.Pls hw much can a guy earn per mnth to take care of a family comfortably(weddings n thereafter)?