Daresh: I had a spare tyre till the day I got married.

kessyur: Is Having A "Spare Tyre" Now A Norm For Our Ladies?

sexkillz: Like i always say, having a "spare tyre" is not a license to be promiscuous. . . Having a spare tyre is recommended for both genders. In the words of my friend, a "shock absorber". Sadly the mindset of many is in the gutters. Some sleep around serially with their spare tyres while some self righteous nutters may even condemn you for choosing to have a spare tyre. . .

I say fark them.

It's all about the mindset!

Mynd_44:
You are right. How can a lady ask a guy to be dedicated to her while she is with 2 other guys just in the name of "one might disappoint"? My vote is simple, I can't be a spare tire and I can't be with someone who has one.
The fact that she has one only tells me that she does not trust me enough and I won't also trust her cos she might just decide to cut me off and go after that guy anyday she wants and I will be left sitting on my hands like a kid that missed the school bus.
I believe in a relationship, it should be clearly defined, I will be with a girl cos I don't wanna be with any other person and that's why I don't have 'spare tires' or double date. And if she chooses to do so, I won't even ask her to choose, the minute I know, its off no matter how much I love her.

KINGwax: i'm surprised u chose not to be sexkillz's dog ds time. Somethin must be wrong. Maybe u need to read your master's opinion and bark after him. U can still modify

dBard:

so u gave her a reason t not invest wholly in her relationship,gave her reasons t doubt,compare n split her emotions? it depends on d mindset abi?? anybody dat opts f a spare tyre isn't ready f a true relationship. in luv,u make d leap (wisely). its an almost absolute investment xcpt ur still not ready t settle. focus on ur partner,its dat simple.

adefash:
there is nofin wrong if u know u are a spare tyre.u just know and maintain ur level or terminate ur relationship.quarel dey am? if u are dating another man's wife secretly, u wan be main tire?
I once met a lady who told me she had a bf she could not drop easily.i wasnt interested in taking her completely away from her guy and she didnt mind seeing along side side.wetin i be? No quarrel na! She respected me whenever my gf called, i gave her chance to be wif hers.we are all cheat.so...

sexkillz: Like i always say, having a "spare tyre" is not a license to be promiscuous. . . Having a spare tyre is recommended for both genders. In the words of my friend, a "shock absorber". Sadly the mindset of many is in the gutters. Some sleep around serially with their spare tyres while some self righteous nutters may even condemn you for choosing to have a spare tyre. . .

I say fark them.

It's all about the mindset!

kessyur: my question is quite explicit as most of us guys are either the original or "spare tyre" to rely upon when the aftermath bad result of courtship emanate. What are your opinions?

berem: I don't think I need spare tyres.what I actually need is someone to fill up my petrol tank whenever it goes down abi?

KINGwax: i'm surprised u chose not to be sexkillz's dog ds time. Somethin must be wrong. Maybe u need to read your master's opinion and bark after him. U can still modify

White007:
Really?
And now that you are married nko, you still keep ur spare tyre?

Mynd_44: I will Sau/type it again, any girl that decides to use me as spare tire or has one while with me is sleeping on okada. The second I know, she is out

Daresh: I had a spare tyre till the day I got married.

Mynd_44: I will Sau/type it again, any girl that decides to use me as spare tire or has one while with me is sleeping on okada. The second I know, she is out

Mynd_44:
I have always thought noting could shock me again but this just reminds me that I am human

vascey:

Given time, even the most abnormal things will become acceptable...
Spare tyrism, man marry man etc; all products of a morally bankrupt society.
Very soon, wives and husbands will agitate for their rights to spare tyres.
Olohun gba wa oo

Mynd_44:
You are right. How can a lady ask a guy to be dedicated to her while she is with 2 other guys just in the name of "one might disappoint"? My vote is simple, I can't be a spare tire and I can't be with someone who has one.
The fact that she has one only tells me that she does not trust me enough and I won't also trust her cos she might just decide to cut me off and go after that guy anyday she wants and I will be left sitting on my hands like a kid that missed the school bus.
I believe in a relationship, it should be clearly defined, I will be with a girl cos I don't wanna be with any other person and that's why I don't have 'spare tires' or double date. And if she chooses to do so, I won't even ask her to choose, the minute I know, its off no matter how much I love her.

Sagamite:

I have been spare tyre a few times, most of the girls did not know I knew. I could not care less. As long as I get laid and then I leave when I want to.

Mynd_44:
And how would you feel if your girl was keeping a spare tire?

promire2004: Ideally, a lady is free to have suitors. If she's got d appeal and what it takes to be admired, she is definitely gonna meet different guys. Please, don't get it twisted ooo. A lady can have as many admirers as possible without neccessarily sleeping with them. Not all relationships end in marriage. For example, if a lady is in a relationship which isn't clearly defined, I think she should leave her options open. A lady can be friends with the opposite sex without sleeping with them. Although, the best option is to examine someone closely before you start a relationship with the person. Long courtships isn't a guarantee for marriage hence the duration of the courtship shouldn't be more than a year. A lady feels insecure when she is stuck in a relationship for too long without any guarantee of marriage. As for guys, please be honest. If you find out that the person you are dating isn't good enough for marriage, please make her understand by giving her genuine reasons. Don't waste her time by dating her for soooo long when you ain't gonna marry her in the long run. If only humans were sincere, there won't be any need for a spare tyre. Also, a relationship built on the word of God won't need a spare tyre. I don talk my own ooooo. #END OF STORY#

Mynd_44:
You are right. How can a lady ask a guy to be dedicated to her while she is with 2 other guys just in the name of "one might disappoint"? My vote is simple, I can't be a spare tire and I can't be with someone who has one.
The fact that she has one only tells me that she does not trust me enough and I won't also trust her cos she might just decide to cut me off and go after that guy anyday she wants and I will be left sitting on my hands like a kid that missed the school bus.
I believe in a relationship, it should be clearly defined, I will be with a girl cos I don't wanna be with any other person and that's why I don't have 'spare tires' or double date. And if she chooses to do so, I won't even ask her to choose, the minute I know, its off no matter how much I love her.