Ladies how do you feel when he takes your number but doesnt call. I have been guilty of this several times
but then when I finally get to call her after like a month or more, the hatred is tangible and alive.

Why do yall find it hard to understand that a man is actually busy?

I am equally as guilty.
But it simply means that you are not his only interest, so keep busy as well.
when he calls don't show desperation hes just a friend.

Most times its matured men dat don't call as often. But its not only cos their busy. You can't be too busy for a call?! At least you do make calls to people everyday, why not include hers??
I really don't understand d workings of their mind. But i know dat it doesn't mean they've lost interest, they don't just call noni. I hope guys comment and throw more light on dis.
I noticed its usually d 'boys' not 'men' dat usually calls you 24/7. Girls beware of such guys. I'm serious!

It can be annoying o I no go lie(especially when he's cute and classy) but when he eventually calls, I don't sound mad or anything, I even feign being ignorant of who's on the other end.

freecocoa: It can be annoying o I no go lie(especially when he's cute and classy) but when he eventually calls, I don't sound mad or anything, I even feign being ignorant of who's on the other end.

After letting the phone ring like forever............

It just means 'I no get credit'
afterall, isn't that the standard answer girls give?

vivian chinaza:

After letting the phone ring like forever............

You dey do am wella, you know the way

freecocoa: You dey do am wella, you know the way

Babes, its so annoying!

vivian chinaza:

Babes, its so annoying!

As in eh, I remember one guy I met on my trip back from Abuja, the dude was so fine, intelligent and his accent and command of the english language almost turned me on in the bus, he collected my digits but didn't call, after 3 weeks I started wishing I had collected his, after a while I forgot about him only to get a call 2 months after the trip together. Well he apologized and explained that he was out of the country that's why he didn't call. I just form vex small sha come later mellow.

Well for me,whenever i collect a girl's no.,i make sure i dont call her until after a week so as not to appear desperate n i also believe dis goes a long way in showing how matured i am in dat i am able to deal wif d urge to call d lady d nxt day.....now i understand y girls behave like they've forgotten you when u eventually call them...thx FREECOCOA

freecocoa: As in eh, I remember one guy I met on my trip back from Abuja, the dude was so fine, intelligent and his accent and command of the english language almost turned me on in the bus, he collected my digits but didn't call, after 3 weeks I started wishing I had collected his, after a while I forgot about him only to get a call 2 months after the trip together. Well he apologized and explained that he was out of the country that's why he didn't call. I just form vex small sha come later mellow.

Babes download me the full gist na........as in you know na *winks*

Its all bout the maturity, the more U tryna call, the more desperate U seem. If U finally call, 'em go form ignorance but bros na wash, 'em they feel U die.

Interesting to know all these.

freecocoa: As in eh, I remember one guy I met on my trip back from Abuja, the dude was so fine, intelligent and his accent and command of the english language almost turned me on in the bus, he collected my digits but didn't call, after 3 weeks I started wishing I had collected his, after a while I forgot about him only to get a call 2 months after the trip together. Well he apologized and explained that he was out of the country that's why he didn't call. I just form vex small sha come later mellow.

all said Ǎ̜̣̍Ϟd done, na im you carry the pomo take go do sacrifice f̶̲̥̅̊☺я am.

vivian chinaza:


Babes download me the full gist na........as in you know na *winks*

Use your mind's eye imagine the rest jare, it was fun afterwards sha

It has apnd to me also. A guy collectd ma number 4 different tyms, up til nw, he hasnt cald me

blink182: all said Ǎ̜̣̍Ϟd done, na im you carry the pomo take go do sacrifice f̶̲̥̅̊☺я am.

Na today? Duh!

If he know quick call, he no call noni haha abi na?

PWEETYWIZZY: It has apnd to me also. A guy collectd ma number 4 different tyms, up til nw, he hasnt cald me

As in you gave the same guy your number four times or what?

Double194: Its all bout the maturity, the more U tryna call, the more desperate U seem. If U finally call, 'em go form ignorance but bros na wash, 'em they feel U die.

Must there be a rule in everything one does? Well, I don't play by someone else's rule! I make my own rules.
If a guy collects my number and intentionally waits for like a month before he calls me, he is so not worth it! Cos I don't wanna be in a relationship where I will have to play mind games with a man all the time.

Drunken night out, "hey, how you doing.. here, give me your number"

Morning after.. "awwww my head.. wtf is this number doing on my phone, DELETE"

freecocoa: Use your mind's eye imagine the rest jare, it was fun afterwards sha

Lol........Oh no! Don't wanna do that! Hope you understand why?

vivian chinaza:

Lol........Oh no! Don't wanna do that! Hope you understand why?

Tell me why.

A gut gives me his number, I called after 2wks.........no answer...... called again.......answering machine.........
Again.......DELETED!!!

PWEETYWIZZY: It has apnd to me also. A guy collectd ma number 4 different tyms, up til nw, he hasnt cald me

Area_boy: Drunken night out, "hey, how you doing.. here, give me your number"

Morning after.. "awwww my head.. wtf is this number doing on my phone, DELETE"

Interesting.

freecocoa: As in eh, I remember one guy I met on my trip back from Abuja, the dude was so fine, intelligent and his accent and command of the english language almost turned me on in the bus, he collected my digits but didn't call, after 3 weeks I started wishing I had collected his, after a while I forgot about him only to get a call 2 months after the trip together. Well he apologized and explained that he was out of the country that's why he didn't call. I just form vex small sha come later mellow.

How the guy now freecocoa? una still dey talk abi he don chop comot?

Good topic there......not being too despirate wrks alot 4 me,ryt away am so enjoyin it!!!!!!!

Na the way, you don't need to call the day you collected the digits to show how desperate you are...

dangerzone:

How the guy now freecocoa? una still dey talk abi he don chop comot?

See as you dull, wetin make you think say na only am fit chop comot?

Maybe you babes should know that its very important for a guy to wait atleast 2days after getting your ph.no b4 he calls...the anticipation has to be there. Expecially if he's a very cute guy... Men don't call 24/7, boys do that...

freecocoa: See as you dull, wetin make you think say na only am fit chop comot?

Ms cocoa asking question no say i dull o, na question i just dey ask biko