ileobatojo:

I was going to type a long response but I just can't. I hope one day, you will free your mind from ancient cultural ideas that bind you before it is too late for your earthly body.

...i hope so too...

What I normally ask people is ; write what you enjoy in the marriage vs what you sacrifice, it will answer your question honestly for you

@efeme. maybe its herpes.. i dont know...but i will speak to her tonite to go for more STD tests

Maybe I should just remain single!! Issues like this, breaks my heart!! I can't take heartbreaks at all!!

tchidi: Maybe I should just remain single!! Issues like this, breaks my heart!! I can't take heartbreaks at all!!

Aww it's okay chidi, don't fret, just shine your eyes well well and pay attention to details.

Focus on your children and yourself. Try to get his nasty lifestyle off your mind. If you bother yourself over this you'll end up losing. Make the best you can of your business or career that dosent mean you'll ignore him. Continue to play your role at home that's the best advice I can give.

^^ Another piece of Nollywood advice here again.

How the heck does ignoring a problem and sweeping it under the carpet help? Is that how you resolve issues?

Is this the best piece of advise you can muster? To "grin and bear it"??

Really smh!

jidegirl12:

Ehem ... You see , I've come to learn something about people here, they will always go in circles and throwing that divorce point without hitting their main message a nail gbam! All they are contemplating is Divorce because the guy is a serial cheat, and she'll find a holoer than thou that will treat her right.....MEN!!

You have know idea what goes on behind closed doors in a so called ''nuclear family'' and the wife will still endure what is beyond your imagination.

The only and I quote the ONLY one I believe here is Debrief and I have learnt a lot from her life experience.

Like that Rich guy always say, this is the last place to seek for advice when it comes to your marriage, see a shrink and get it out and see what your options are! It's not your fault!

Just thought I should let you know the first person to mention divorce on this thread was Berem and those who mentioned it after her mostly did so in contrast to the 'must do' attitude. So I don't know the source of this particular rant.