See how things unfold and I was shocked by all her confessions cos I used to think people taking about nigerians being a fraud in was a rumour until I almost became a victim myself. nigerians in diaspora Una no dey try at all ☺º°˚˚˚°ºo
Participants:
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*NG*SH?? SH?? ß??*JM*, { Carol Anne Arderne=-? }<3 *”*music*

Messages:
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{ Carol Anne Arderne=-? }<3 *”*music*:
Who?...:/
*NG*SH?? SH?? ß??*JM*:
Nigerian dude
{ Carol Anne Arderne=-? }<3 *”*music*:
From where?
*NG*SH?? SH?? ß??*JM*:
Nigeria. You?
{ Carol Anne Arderne=-? }<3 *”*music*:
How did u become a contact
{ Carol Anne Arderne=-? }<3 *”*music*:
Lol...
{ Carol Anne Arderne=-? }<3 *”*music*:
Where did u get my pin?
*NG*SH?? SH?? ß??*JM*:
I don't know either J?u??s??t? found U?? on it
{ Carol Anne Arderne=-? }<3 *”*music*:
U found me where? Lol...
*NG*SH?? SH?? ß??*JM*:
L? I know its funny but I J?u??s??t? happen find U?? on my list
{ Carol Anne Arderne=-? }<3 *”*music*:
What list?
*NG*SH?? SH?? ß??*JM*:
My bbm contact list
{ Carol Anne Arderne=-? }<3 *”*music*:
Whose BB was it b4?
*NG*SH?? SH?? ß??*JM*:
I bought ??T? from someone ??T? was shipped from SA
{ Carol Anne Arderne=-? }<3 *”*music*:
So it belonged to sumbdy b4?
*NG*SH?? SH?? ß??*JM*:
Yeah
{ Carol Anne Arderne=-? }<3 *”*music*:
What name was on there when u got it?
*NG*SH?? SH?? ß??*JM*:
I can't remember guess ??T? was wiped
{ Carol Anne Arderne=-? }<3 *”*music*:
Cos I am in SA
{ Carol Anne Arderne=-? }<3 *”*music*:
Are u a female ?
*NG*SH?? SH?? ß??*JM*:
Yeah I know
*NG*SH?? SH?? ß??*JM*:
No I'm male
{ Carol Anne Arderne=-? }<3 *”*music*:
Cos I see a female pp
*NG*SH?? SH?? ß??*JM*:
Yeah dats ?v? girlfriend
*NG*SH?? SH?? ß??*JM*:
You neva seen a pic of ??
{ Carol Anne Arderne=-? }<3 *”*music*:
No
*NG*SH?? SH?? ß??*JM*:
Ok ama put ??T? soon tho I'm J?u??s??t? 19
{ Carol Anne Arderne=-? }<3 *”*music*:
How old do u think I am?
*NG*SH?? SH?? ß??*JM*:
I think you're married nd in U late twenties
*NG*SH?? SH?? ß??*JM*:
Am I wrong?
{ Carol Anne Arderne=-? }<3 *”*music*:
Yes
*NG*SH?? SH?? ß??*JM*:
So ??Ψ old r you?
{ Carol Anne Arderne=-? }<3 *”*music*:
Not married....and u can guess again...
*NG*SH?? SH?? ß??*JM*:
Hmm firstly is dat U?? on U ??
{ Carol Anne Arderne=-? }<3 *”*music*:
Yep
{ Carol Anne Arderne=-? }<3 *”*music*:
Pic taken 3yrs ago...
*NG*SH?? SH?? ß??*JM*:
Ok its hard guess. Maybe U?? shld give ? a clue. But ? U?? look btw 25 28
{ Carol Anne Arderne=-? }<3 *”*music*:
Lol.....I wil take that as a compliment....(y)
*NG*SH?? SH?? ß??*JM*:
L? ok. So tell ? U real age I wanna know
{ Carol Anne Arderne=-? }<3 *”*music*:
My next bday wil be in Dec then I wil be 52yrs old....X_X
*NG*SH?? SH?? ß??*JM*:
L? omg then U?? look so young. So why U?? no married?
{ Carol Anne Arderne=-? }<3 *”*music*:
Divorced....3 children...eldest 1 wil be 33yrs old on Christmas day.....X_X
*NG*SH?? SH?? ß??*JM*:
Wow you know I guy like ? cld J?u??s??t? walk up U?? on the road nd wanna woo U??..U?? not lookin bad at all
{ Carol Anne Arderne=-? }<3 *”*music*:
Thank u....({})
*NG*SH?? SH?? ß??*JM*:
So why don't U?? wanna get any relationship again cos U?? ? hot be single?
{ Carol Anne Arderne=-? }<3 *”*music*:
The world is so different today....
{ Carol Anne Arderne=-? }<3 *”*music*:
There no real relationships anymor...
{ Carol Anne Arderne=-? }<3 *”*music*:
If men can get sex for free everywhere....y do they need a relationship?
{ Carol Anne Arderne=-? }<3 *”*music*:
So that not me.....
*NG*SH?? SH?? ß??*JM*:
Hmm true talk but U?? can't judge all men be the same there r still better ones out there
*NG*SH?? SH?? ß??*JM*:
I try be the best ?v? gf ever needed very faithful her
*NG*SH?? SH?? ß??*JM*:
I hate see women hurt
{ Carol Anne Arderne=-? }<3 *”*music*:
Ja I kno....so I wil just wait til one of the good one find me....
*NG*SH?? SH?? ß??*JM*:
Hmm that's so nice
*NG*SH?? SH?? ß??*JM*:
Glad I got U?? on ?v? list
*NG*SH?? SH?? ß??*JM*:
Tho I neva talked U??
*NG*SH?? SH?? ß??*JM*:
You're so brilliant
{ Carol Anne Arderne=-? }<3 *”*music*:
U right ...I was hurt terribly...
*NG*SH?? SH?? ß??*JM*:
Wat D U ex hubby D you?
{ Carol Anne Arderne=-? }<3 *”*music*:
Y do say I am brilliant?
{ Carol Anne Arderne=-? }<3 *”*music*:
Long story....
*NG*SH?? SH?? ß??*JM*:
Your words
{ Carol Anne Arderne=-? }<3 *”*music*:
We just had one big argument ....
*NG*SH?? SH?? ß??*JM*:
J?u??s??t? a few minutes you've impacted knowledge into me
{ Carol Anne Arderne=-? }<3 *”*music*:
And he said hurtful things to me....and I to him...so we were angry with each other for 6 weeks...
{ Carol Anne Arderne=-? }<3 *”*music*:
My mother was terminally ill at the same time...
{ Carol Anne Arderne=-? }<3 *”*music*:
I had expectations from him and I suppose he had expectations from me....
{ Carol Anne Arderne=-? }<3 *”*music*:
No looking back....it was all so unecessary....
{ Carol Anne Arderne=-? }<3 *”*music*:
Now
{ Carol Anne Arderne=-? }<3 *”*music*:
So there are 3 things in life that can destroy a human being....
*NG*SH?? SH?? ß??*JM*:
Hmmm
{ Carol Anne Arderne=-? }<3 *”*music*:
Can I tell u what those 3 things are?
*NG*SH?? SH?? ß??*JM*:
Yes I wanna know that's wat I'm waitin hear
{ Carol Anne Arderne=-? }<3 *”*music*:
Something u shud remember....
{ Carol Anne Arderne=-? }<3 *”*music*:
1st thing is PRIDE...
{ Carol Anne Arderne=-? }<3 *”*music*:
2nd is ANGER...
{ Carol Anne Arderne=-? }<3 *”*music*:
3rd is alcohol...
{ Carol Anne Arderne=-? }<3 *”*music*:
The 3 normally goes together....
*NG*SH?? SH?? ß??*JM*:
Hmmm I can't agree less see U?? makin ? sober
{ Carol Anne Arderne=-? }<3 *”*music*:
Have u been drinking today?
*NG*SH?? SH?? ß??*JM*:
I wanna grow up nd become a better man cos I see men of this present world r so wayward
*NG*SH?? SH?? ß??*JM*:
No I didn't...??T? was friday night
{ Carol Anne Arderne=-? }<3 *”*music*:
Do u drink regularly?
*NG*SH?? SH?? ß??*JM*:
No only wen ?v? friends wanna D. Like once a week mostly every friday
{ Carol Anne Arderne=-? }<3 *”*music*:
Do u get drunk wen u drink?
*NG*SH?? SH?? ß??*JM*:
No I don't cos I don't drink beyond I can take
{ Carol Anne Arderne=-? }<3 *”*music*:
Is that u on the pp?
*NG*SH?? SH?? ß??*JM*:
Yes that's me
{ Carol Anne Arderne=-? }<3 *”*music*:
Ok good if u don't get drunk..
*NG*SH?? SH?? ß??*JM*:
Why D U?? ask?
{ Carol Anne Arderne=-? }<3 *”*music*:
Y u look so sad on pp?
*NG*SH?? SH?? ß??*JM*:
I look sad, I'm gonna change it
{ Carol Anne Arderne=-? }<3 *”*music*:
Who else was on yur BB list?
*NG*SH?? SH?? ß??*JM*:
Nobody except my gf
{ Carol Anne Arderne=-? }<3 *”*music*:
No....I talking abt when u got the BB and u found me on yur list...
*NG*SH?? SH?? ß??*JM*:
Ok I found a man nd some other ppl but I can't remember their names cos they all deleted ? sayin I'm a stranget
*NG*SH?? SH?? ß??*JM*:
Stranger. But I ΨåΩ? U?? stay
{ Carol Anne Arderne=-? }<3 *”*music*:
Y
*NG*SH?? SH?? ß??*JM*:
Because I'll ? chat with U?? always nd U?? seem be a nice person nd dats beneficial
{ Carol Anne Arderne=-? }<3 *”*music*:
Ok.....maybe I can teach u a thing or two...lol...
*NG*SH?? SH?? ß??*JM*:
L? yeah\=D/. So wat kinda tins U?? wanna teach me
{ Carol Anne Arderne=-? }<3 *”*music*:
Like life skills....inspirational things....etc
*NG*SH?? SH?? ß??*JM*:
Yeah that's why I wanna keep U?? as my friend
*NG*SH?? SH?? ß??*JM*:
So you've been divorced for ??Ψ long?
{ Carol Anne Arderne=-? }<3 *”*music*:
Did u read my status?
*NG*SH?? SH?? ß??*JM*:
Yes I read ??T?. So ??T? happened recently?
{ Carol Anne Arderne=-? }<3 *”*music*:
What happened recently?
*NG*SH?? SH?? ß??*JM*:
I asked U?? wen D U?? get divorced?
{ Carol Anne Arderne=-? }<3 *”*music*:
2008
*NG*SH?? SH?? ß??*JM*:
Hmm been a long way
*NG*SH?? SH?? ß??*JM*:
So ??Ψ D U?? cope with U sex life?
{ Carol Anne Arderne=-? }<3 *”*music*:
Just shut it out of yur mind...
*NG*SH?? SH?? ß??*JM*:
Ok I'm sorry
{ Carol Anne Arderne=-? }<3 *”*music*:
Not to wori....a gud thing I don't have a very high sex drive....lol...X_X
*NG*SH?? SH?? ß??*JM*:
L? yeah its a Ǧ tin for U?? this situation
*NG*SH?? SH?? ß??*JM*:
I wish U?? the beest
*NG*SH?? SH?? ß??*JM*:
Will ? chat with U?? everyday
{ Carol Anne Arderne=-? }<3 *”*music*:
Ok....no prob...(y)
*NG*SH?? SH?? ß??*JM*:
South africa is 1hr ahead of nigeria
*NG*SH?? SH?? ß??*JM*:
I'll like be U country someday
{ Carol Anne Arderne=-? }<3 *”*music*:
Ok
{ Carol Anne Arderne=-? }<3 *”*music*:
Here are soooo many Nigerians here in SA...
{ Carol Anne Arderne=-? }<3 *”*music*:
And most of them are deceitful....
{ Carol Anne Arderne=-? }<3 *”*music*:
So u guys are not very popular in this country....
{ Carol Anne Arderne=-? }<3 *”*music*:
Sorry to say that but that is just how it is....
*NG*SH?? SH?? ß??*JM*:
Yeah I hear a lot of nigerians SA r like dat nd I don't know why
*NG*SH?? SH?? ß??*JM*:
Its taarnishin our image
{ Carol Anne Arderne=-? }<3 *”*music*:
I don't understand how u can go into another country and con ppl the way they do...
{ Carol Anne Arderne=-? }<3 *”*music*:
It is so sad man....
{ Carol Anne Arderne=-? }<3 *”*music*:
So when the SAfricans hear u Nigerian....they become very wary....
{ Carol Anne Arderne=-? }<3 *”*music*:
A lot of the Nigerians deal with drugs here in SA
*NG*SH?? SH?? ß??*JM*:
Hmm but really there r a lot of Ǧ ones here nd I'm one of them
*NG*SH?? SH?? ß??*JM*:
So aren't U?? scared of me
{ Carol Anne Arderne=-? }<3 *”*music*:
No
{ Carol Anne Arderne=-? }<3 *”*music*:
Shud I be?
{ Carol Anne Arderne=-? }<3 *”*music*:
They even prey on divorced women....
*NG*SH?? SH?? ß??*JM*:
No ??o its J?u??s??t? so sad nd I'm glad U?? seein ? as a friend
{ Carol Anne Arderne=-? }<3 *”*music*:
They even go onto date sites and portray to be overseas citizens in America or the UK...
{ Carol Anne Arderne=-? }<3 *”*music*:
And then they wil give the women sad stories abt themselves and pretend they rich and have classy jobs...
*NG*SH?? SH?? ß??*JM*:
Yeah I know all these stuffs they r called scammers
*NG*SH?? SH?? ß??*JM*:
Avv U?? encountered any of them like T??h??å??
{ Carol Anne Arderne=-? }<3 *”*music*:
They put pics of white guys living overseas and pretend that it is them...
{ Carol Anne Arderne=-? }<3 *”*music*:
Yes.....but I was aware of them....
*NG*SH?? SH?? ß??*JM*:
Hmm I'm really sorry
*NG*SH?? SH?? ß??*JM*:
Sometimes I regret T??h??å? I'm a nigerian
{ Carol Anne Arderne=-? }<3 *”*music*:
Yeah it is sad to kno there are ppl out there that is so mean....
{ Carol Anne Arderne=-? }<3 *”*music*:
Look how u got yur BB....
{ Carol Anne Arderne=-? }<3 *”*music*:
Just go to show that it was stolen from somebody and shipped out to Nigeria....
*NG*SH?? SH?? ß??*JM*:
Hmm T??h??å? cld be tru
*NG*SH?? SH?? ß??*JM*:
I feel ashamed of dis country

Do you really think someone is so jobless to read about how you are not proud of your country

coolkris: Do you really think someone is so jobless to read about how you are not proud of your country

Oga abeg show or tell me wats there to be proud of na when there's no positive thing your so called country is noted for. And I didn't beg you τ̅☺ read you cld av passed it.

can't you type like a normal person?

First it is American woman.now SA woman and would someone create a post about typical conversation with naija men??

@ OP is this your first time of hearing negative things about Nigerians in SA? And now you are judging every Nigerian in SA based on the opinion of a stupid, frustrated and dejected SA woman?

Let Nigerians in SA return back all the criminal money MTN, DSTV etc are stealing from Nigeria. And without the whites in SA, the country cannot be better than Zimbabwe. Take it or leave it, we are the most intelligent and most successful blacks on earth. Most Africans beefing you is out of jealousy and ignorance.

joeydozzy: can't you type like a normal person?

Asking someone who is abnormal, to type like a normal person, is pushing it.