I've asked myself this question for like a thousand times repeatedly without really figuring out this ladies problem, i've been on nairaland for quite some time now, and i've noticed one seriouse problem with nigerian ladies, demonstrated even on nairaland, and i'm like ''what da heck?''
So i decided to create this thread and ask nigerian ladies this question and i needed answers and need them fast cos it seems an average nigerian girl has got this problem.
Now, the question is, why is it that you ladies know deep down withen you that you do possess some negative attributes, and when i mean attributes, i meant your negative personalities, you are aware of those flaws in your attitudes and yet you brag about them, you aint even doing nothing about them like maybe working on em or something, instead you would rather stick to them and pray that God gives you a man that would accept this flaws and just smile over them, and when most of you eventually find such a man whom i personally would tag as (MUMU) you all rush down here and give testimonies of how God had blessed you with an understanding husband or man.
The question that usually pop into my mind is, are you ladies proud of your flaws (maybe they do have a way of boosting your ego & pride) or is it that you're just helpless with those flaws in personalities of yours and just accept to live with it for the rest of your life?

So would i be right to say you ladies (Atleast most) are slaves to those negative side of your personalities and just cant help but live with it, forcing us men to live in dissatisfaction with you in our lives, having to live with it too for the rest of our lives and end up dieing before our time cos you could'nt or rather would'nt deal with those flaws of yours?

Please o, we need answers o, hope i'm speaking the mind of an average male nairander here?

Gbam!



Ansa d Fuuuucking question ladies


Nigerian girls make me sick

I wish I never dumped mah canadian girlfriend

That is so untrue.
Fact remains, everyone wasnt created to be perfect.
So focusing on a particular gender doesn't help d situation.
Both males n females have their share of imperfection n flaws. So I see nothing wrong if I expect my partner to take me as I am.
Btw love sees past every flaws

Joe4christ!:
Now, the question is, why is it that you ladies know deep down withen you that you do possess some negative attributes, and when i mean attributes, i meant your negative personalities, you are aware of those flaws in your attitudes and yet you brag about them, you aint even doing nothing about them like maybe working on em or something, instead you would rather stick to them and pray that God gives you a man that would accept this flaws and just smile over them,

Not every lady knows she's got a problem. Its d duty of d patrner to point out these flaws. And if she doesn't want to work on them, dats entirely her fault.
But the men just whinning and nagging abt d flaws without tryn to bring this to her notice is very wrong. And very wrong to assume most of the ladies are api about their flaws

All I can say is IMPOSTOR
Joey4christ! Really

candygosh: That is so untrue.
Fact remains, everyone wasnt created to be perfect.
So focusing on a particular gender doesn't help d situation.
[size=15pt]Both males n females have their share of imperfection n flaws. So I see nothing wrong if I expect my partner to take me as I am.
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Btw love sees past every flaws

Dont tell me that crap lady, yea men might also have some flaws which i quite agree, but we men tend to put more efforts in dealing with our flaws, working on them to be a better husband, father and friend, while u ladies just specialises in dumping your loggages of flaws on us despite having many responsibilities to deal with, no wonder men tend to die younger this days, this was'nt the case in some decades back, so what's really wrong with you ladies?
Is'nt it time you all start taking up some responsibilities especially when it boils down to your flaws in charracter without you building up dungs of excusses.
It's just annoying mehn!

joey4jo: All I can say is IMPOSTOR
Joey4christ! Really

I aint got time for shittings. You feel me?

Joe4christ!:


Dont tell me that crap lady, yea men might also have some flaws which i quite agree, but we men tend to put more efforts in dealing with our flaws, working on them to be a better husband, father and friend, while u ladies just specialises in dumping your loggages of flaws on us despite having many responsibilities to deal with, no wonder men tend to die younger this days, this was'nt the case in some decades back, so what's really wrong with you ladies?
Is'nt it time you all start taking up some responsibilities especially when it boils down to your flaws in charracter without you building up dungs of excusses.
It's just annoying mehn!

LMAO. Is it your partner that's making u boil like this
Its the men that have the longest lifespan these days.

Joe4christ!:


Dont tell me that crap lady, yea men might also have some flaws which i quite agree, but we men tend to put more efforts in dealing with our flaws

lets count the number of single mothers who dont receive support (not only financially) from their baby daddies and we will talk about being responsible

candygosh:
Not every lady knows she's got a problem. Its d duty of d patrner to point out these flaws. And if she doesn't want to work on them, dats entirely her fault.
But the men just whinning and nagging abt d flaws without tryn to bring this to her notice is very wrong. And very wrong to assume most of the ladies are api about their flaws

The truth is you ladies just run away from every form of responsibility and expect us to live with it,
you ladies just wanna enjoy even at the expense of our joy and contentment not minding if it kills us,
you now see why bachelors of nowadays are afraid of commitement and even the thought of marraige becomes repulsive to an average nigerian bachelor cos you ladies tend to display an irresponsible attitude towards virtually everything.
Pls, do have a change of heart, atleast it begins with you!
Thanks!!!

Joe4christ!:


I aint got time for shittings. You feel me?

I really don't!

An average male nairalander might want to ask what wld hv been running thru his mind if he had read "What Is Wrong With Guys Of This 21st Century?

bknight: An average male nairalander might want to ask what'll be running thru his mind if he had read "What Is Wrong With Guys Of This 21st Century?

internet scammers, gold diggers, lazy and ego-centric...they are worse than the women

Joe4christ!:
I've asked myself this question for like a thousand times repeatedly without really figuring out this ladies problem, i've been on nairaland for quite some time now, and i've noticed one seriouse problem with nigerian ladies, demonstrated even on nairaland, and i'm like ''what da heck?''
So i decided to create this thread and ask nigerian ladies this question and i needed answers and need them fast cos it seems an average nigerian girl has got this problem.
Now, the question is, why is it that you ladies know deep down withen you that you do possess some negative attributes, and when i mean attributes, i meant your negative personalities, you are aware of those flaws in your attitudes and yet you brag about them, you aint even doing nothing about them like maybe working on em or something, instead you would rather stick to them and pray that God gives you a man that would accept this flaws and just smile over them, and when most of you eventually find such a man whom i personally would tag as (MUMU) you all rush down here and give testimonies of how God had blessed you with an understanding husband or man.
The question that usually pop into my mind is, are you ladies proud of your flaws (maybe they do have a way of boosting your ego & pride) or is it that you're just helpless with those flaws in personalities of yours and just accept to live with it for the rest of your life?

So would i be right to say you ladies (Atleast most) are slaves to those negative side of your personalities and just cant help but live with it, forcing us men to live in dissatisfaction with you in our lives, having to live with it too for the rest of our lives and end up dieing before our time cos you could'nt or rather would'nt deal with those flaws of yours?

Please o, we need answers o, hope i'm speaking the mind of an average male nairander here?

soRry i guess it should b wtf is wrong with male of dis 21 century ...mtcheeeeew

The planet is experiencing the return of the female energy that has been absent for thousand of years. Women all over the world are beginning to wake up and empower themselves. It is a massive shame that women have been shut out of the society which also includes the church. The Bible god doesn't even reckon with them cos he was scared of the female energy.

Back in the ancient times when women ruled the world,there was peace,balance and fruitfulness. I am sure most people will agree with me that men have ruined our society. Look around you,all you see is war,war and wars.

A woman who decides not to submit to a man is only exhibiting her true self. Back in ancient Egypt,the men were called protectors of the kingdoms the women ruled.

jutino: soRry i guess it should b wtf is wrong with male of dis 21 century ...mtcheeeeew

No offense plz


Buh did u really av 2 quote d full story

femuhnisum. either that or its genetic

ifeness: The planet is experiencing the return of the female energy that has been absent for thousand of years. Women all over the world are beginning to wake up and empower themselves. It is a massive shame that women have been shut out of the society which also includes the church. The Bible god doesn't even reckon with them cos he was scared of the female energy.

Back in the ancient times when women ruled the world,there was peace,balance and fruitfulness. I am sure most people will agree with me that men have ruined our society. Look around you,all you see is war,war and wars.

A woman who decides not to submit to a man is only exhibiting her true self. Back in ancient Egypt,the men were called protectors of the kingdoms the women ruled.

wow! Are u hindu?

poster ur writeup is very vague.u failed to mention example of such flaws. cn u be clearer and objective rather than subjective.

Please, @ OP What is wrong with guys of this 21st Century??

uj_sizzle:
wow! Are u hindu?

No i don't do religion,but in-tuned with nature. The facts are very obvious. The earth is called mother because it is feminine,isn't it? Mother mean eternity,wisdom and knowledge. The war in Liberia was stopped as a result of women bringing both sides to the dialogue table. That is why a woman became the president of the country. Women are naturally caring,hence they form a balanced society.

The term human right was derived from the ancient society governed by women. There can never be a God without a Goddess.

ifeness: The planet is experiencing the return of the female energy that has been absent for thousand of years. Women all over the world are beginning to wake up and empower themselves. It is a massive shame that women have been shut out of the society which also includes the church. The Bible god doesn't even reckon with them cos he was scared of the female energy.

Back in the ancient times when women ruled the world,there was peace,balance and fruitfulness. I am sure most people will agree with me that men have ruined our society. Look around you,all you see is war,war and wars.

A woman who decides not to submit to a man is only exhibiting her true self. Back in ancient Egypt,the men were called protectors of the kingdoms the women ruled.

wow. I'm going to do a topic on Matirachy Vs. Patriarchy. I need crazy ppl like you to make it an interesting debate!

ifeness: The planet is experiencing the return of the female energy that has been absent for thousand of years. Women all over the world are beginning to wake up and empower themselves. It is a massive shame that women have been shut out of the society which also includes the church. The Bible god doesn't even reckon with them cos he was scared of the female energy.

Back in the ancient times when women ruled the world,there was peace,balance and fruitfulness. I am sure most people will agree with me that men have ruined our society. Look around you,all you see is war,war and wars.

A woman who decides not to submit to a man is only exhibiting her true self. Back in ancient Egypt,the men were called protectors of the kingdoms the women ruled.

I like you. I can go now.

ifeness:

No i don't do religion,but in-tuned with nature. The facts are very obvious. The earth is called mother because it is feminine,isn't it? Mother mean eternity,wisdom and knowledge. The war in Liberia was stopped as a result of women bringing both sides to the dialogue table. That is why a woman became the president of the country. Women are naturally caring,hence they form a balanced society.

The term human right was derived from the ancient society governed by women. There can never be a God without a Goddess.

u make a lot of sense. some men will kill u 4 dis.their egos cnt make dem see dt women r better than them in a lot of ways

Feminism and faux personalities...

Alpha males know how to handle them - just play dumb and hit them where it hurts the most...

We run the muthaphucking planet, yo!!!

Not a male chauvinist pig but I'm an African man....

ifeness:

   No i don't do religion,but in-tuned with nature. The facts are very obvious. The earth is called mother because it is feminine,isn't it? Mother mean eternity,wisdom and knowledge. The war in Liberia was stopped as a result of women bringing both sides to the dialogue table. That is why a woman became the president of the country. Women are naturally caring,hence they form a balanced society.

  The term human right was derived from the ancient 
society governed by women. There can never be a God without a Goddess.

I love you Ife!!! I agree with you totally! Tell me, are you ok with this development?

Uhm op, your question is kinda vague so I will answer vaguely... No one Is perfect, not females or males, and rightly so! The world ll be boring if we are all perfect with nothing to work towards.
Agreed, there are some flaws that affects our neighbours negatively and these we must try to undermine but there are others that makes us unique, that differentiates us from the next Uche or deola, these flaws are to be celebrated, yes, celebrated.

Take for instance that I'm an introvert, it may seem a flaw to you but not to my better half who is highly extroverted or that I'm  too blunt  for your liking but that is needed for some people who are allergic to subtelty. Our flaws and strengths are meant to balance each other, one must not surpass the other. Besides flaws are faults in us, hardly our fault. 

Now I do not support deeply flawed women being comfortable in their own skin, I think they owe it to themselves and the world at large to try to change for the better but I also think their loved ones should tolerate, even love the flaws.

That's what true love is all about

Note: you are taking about ladies, mens flaws are even worse and while we may try to change, they feel they are God's gift to women, that we are in mens world and that we have no choice but to take them as they are, with their stinky boxers and and ungentlemanly ways!

Nothing much. Their hatred for boiled beans seems to be the major cause of their problems. Boiled beans is enriched with protein & it deficiency is retardation of the brain which some of them possess

candygosh:
LMAO.[size=15pt] Is it your partner that's making u boil like this[/size]
Its the men that have the longest lifespan these days.

Ahhhh, JOoo o! I'm single o, aint even engaged, right now i have so much in my life that needed so much focus, and most women tend to come along with so much of distractions, with an exemption of few ladies though!
Just hoping you are one of those few.

gree-die:


I love you Ife!!! I agree with you totally! Tell me, are you ok with this development?

Uhm op, your question is kinda vague so I will answer vaguely... No one Is perfect, not females or males, and rightly so! The world ll be boring if we are all perfect with nothing to work towards.
Agreed, there are some flaws that affects our neighbours negatively and these we must try to undermine but there are others that makes us unique, that differentiates us from the next Uche or deola, these flaws are to be celebrated, yes, celebrated.

Take for instance that I'm an introvert, it may seem a flaw to you but not to my better half who is highly extroverted or that I'm  too blunt  for your liking but that is needed for some people who are allergic to subtelty. Our flaws and strengths are meant to balance each other, one must not surpass the other. Besides flaws are faults in us, hardly our fault. 

Now I do not support deeply flawed women being comfortable in their own skin, I think they owe it to themselves and the world at large to try to change for the better but I also think their loved ones should tolerate, even love the flaws.

That's what true love is all about

Note: you are taking about ladies, mens flaws are even worse and while we may try to change, they feel they are God's gift to women, that we are in mens world and that we have no choice but to take them as they are, with their stinky boxers and and ungentlemanly ways!

That's the problem with you ladies, even as stated in my previous posts, you keep making excusses for your flaws instead of tackling them,
The truth is, personally i aint taking any girl who is not decipline enough to deal with her flaws to the alter, God forbid!
One thing i never do is letting love becloud my sense of reasoning, yes there are certain flaws in a lady i can ignore, ignore in the sense that i'm certain that she's working on dealing with them, i deslike ladies who are so full of themselves and tend to worship themselves.
A man would go to any length at pleasing his woman if she always put his interest at heart before doing anything.
A little love and care and more of selflessness from a lady would make her man go extra mile in pleasing her even with his life, this is how we men are designed by God with exception of those that are demon possessed.
Thank u!

*Yawns*

^close ur mouth b4 fly enters