i have a boy friend dt i luv so much. we have been togeda since decemba 4 last year. bt i met him since 2009. i luv him so much and he luvs me too like he always say. now hes traveling out to the uk for his masters and wat he is tellin me is i should look for a guy dt can take care of me, i shuldnt put ma mind on him, he mite get dere and see som1 else. dis guy am talking abt is very k as a guy, i dont ask him for money cos i dont want him to think i love him cos of his money. am 22yrs still seeking admission into high institution. he sed if am a graduate he wuld hav impregnated me b4 travelling. now hes going all i want him to do for me is to pay ma fees cos i really want to go to school. i dnt knw wat to do cos i dnt knw how to get money for school. pls i nid ur help here i nid advise on wat to do. thanks

Ask him to assist you. There's nothing wrong in that.

nicegelly: now hes traveling out to the uk for his masters and wat he is tellin me is i should look for a guy dt can take care of me, i shuldnt put ma mind on him, he mite get dere and see som1 else...

He clearly stated this?? Free this dude babes

nicegelly: he sed if am a graduate he wuld hav impregnated me b4 travelling.

Hmmm...This guy wants a graduate for a wife abinitio. He obviously was dating you for fun.

nicegelly: now hes going all i want him to do for me is to pay ma fees cos i really want to go to school.

Even if he pays your admission fees and all that, who pays for the rest of the session??

Am a guy,and i think i understand his motives.perhaps he loves u like u said,am not sure abt dat,buh 1 thing am sure of is that he cares abt u and ur feelings 4 him.he's already moving on,and his giving the excuse of impregnating u were u a graduate,shows he doesn't want to settle with u cos of ur 'academic inadequacy'. I advise u move on.also him 4 help to fund ur schooling.he might be kind enuf to aid u.

binger: Am a guy,and i think i understand his motives.perhaps he loves u like u said,am not sure abt dat,buh 1 thing am sure of is that he cares abt u and ur feelings 4 him.he's already moving on,and his giving the excuse of impregnating u were u a graduate,shows he doesn't want to settle with u cos of ur 'academic inadequacy'. I advise u move on.also him 4 help to fund ur schooling.he might be kind enuf to aid u.

Thanks for coming through as a guy,u simplified somethings that were bugging m

nicegelly: i have a boy friend dt i luv so much. we have been togeda since decemba 4 last year. bt i met him since 2009. i luv him so much and he luvs me too like he always say. now hes traveling out to the uk for his masters and wat he is tellin me is i should look for a guy dt can take care of me, i shuldnt put ma mind on him, he mite get dere and see som1 else. dis guy am talking abt is very k as a guy, i dont ask him for money cos i dont want him to think i love him cos of his money. am 22yrs still seeking admission into high institution. he sed if am a graduate he wuld hav impregnated me b4 travelling. now hes going all i want him to do for me is to pay ma fees cos i really want to go to school. i dnt knw wat to do cos i dnt knw how to get money for school. pls i nid ur help here i nid advise on wat to do. thanks

Hey gal

M ur same age and I understand wat ur going through,as a woman we can't expect a man to pay our school fees,especialy wen he clearly told u that if u were a graduate he would have left u his child so u too will have a future.This guy simply likes the educated girl,not love u as a woman you are,my advice leave him,he doesn't love u.

Here is a piece of my short relationship I had,Iv just finished high school due to somethings that happened that prevented me to continue with high school/rather proceed to varsity.I liked the guy and I believe he did too but wen I wanted our relationship to go public on fb,he fumed telling me it will be a disgrace as m not yet a varsity,he strongly pointed out that "A university entrance" will secure our relationship.I asked him if our love was based on my level of education,he just ignored me,I knew from then we were doomed,m going to varsity next year or the year after.I have a lot of things on my mind right now but my ex will date a graduate like him who will not be an embarrassment to him.

My point is,ur future is in ur hands,don't be needy to a man,never.Look for a Job and do part time studying,u will reach ur goals dear,believe in urself and apply for schorlarships and busaries.With God on urside u will make it through just leave him.

If u need to talk (Nkelemaluleka@yahoo.co.za) m just an email away.
God bless

HumbledbYGrace: Thanks for coming through as a guy,u simplified somethings that were bugging m

i appreciate

190-the-clown:
Hehehehe

I love that dude, he did the-best thing

Never u leave a Nigerian Girl behind - Never

ur not making sense

thanks guyz i appreciate everytin. i wil try ma best to get him off ma mind. in knw it wil b hard bt i wil ovacome dis i knw. thanks again

190-the-clown:
Hehehehe

I love that dude, he did the-best thing

Never u leave a Nigerian Girl behind - Never

. Ýou always sound so annoyingly sillÿ u get correct brain so? @ poster,this guy I must confe§s is truthful enough infact u should be grateful he is tellng u the truth cos if he goes and u put ur mind n him and he dumps u later after wasting ur time,u wl come here and start crying that he cheated on you.now what you should do is try and get admission,u should have uncles,relatives who can spon§or you through school,doesnt necessarily have to be a guy that will send u to school.

thanks every1 for d advice.