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If It Were You: I Want You To Comment by adamsjoiy(m): 11:03pm On Nov 07, 2012 |
I bring to you this true-life "unedited" story of a bride in dilemma and want you to comment... IF IT WERE YOU? Enjoy. Am about getting married to my fiancé in a few months. I am so glad to have met someone as amazing and as loving as he is. We've dated for two years, and he recently proposed a couple of month ago, to be precise. Everything has been wonderful as far as the wedding plans are concerned. And right now, I'm just looking forward to my wedding day which has been set for December of 2012. So, here is the problem: I used to date his father many years ago when I was a student in the University. He was someone who came to the campus with some of his friends, and some male students, would arrange girls for them to hang out with either for the night, or for a week and so forth depending on what was happening. I partied with him, traveled out of town with him, and his friends until I became pregnant and decided to have an abortion. And it was while I was laying down on that bed right after the procedure that I made up my mind to stop seeing him and I completely turned my life around. I won't lie, at first it was difficult to break away from that life. I missed having a lot of money to spend and to show off to all my friends and be the envy of the whole school. But leaving the old man was a decision that I had to make for my own good. Many years later, I now work in a respected law firm, and I make my own money, and a God-fearing lady now. I have a great relationship with my future husband whom I can't wait to be married to. I don't know how this will affect our wonderful relationship, should I disclose this to him. His father on the other hand is late now, but I’d seen the old man's pictures in my fiance's phtoto album, and family photos on the wall in their family home. And they seemed pretty close from what I saw in the photos. Do I really need to tell my future husband about the affair between myself and his late fathe? It was a long time ago, and I young, irresponsible and desperate. However, having to keep this secret from him weighs heavily on my mind, and I feel guilty all the time. Please help! SOURCE: www.facebook.com/story.php?story_fbid=486596524706398&id=110927978939923&refid=17&_ft_=fbid.486596524706398 |
Re: If It Were You: I Want You To Comment by Bezed(m): 11:22pm On Nov 07, 2012 |
the old man is late, better move on with your life, or you might loose your marriage by telling your man, except you are very sure he wont react badly on hearing it.. But for me i wont tell him anything.. |
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