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Re: Are Nigerian Men Taking-Up More Domestic Responsibilities In The Home? by Nobody: 4:38pm On Nov 08, 2012 |
Maybe because our childcare are 100% taken care of by him ( from school,diaper changes to bedtime stories and tucking in at night) that's why I feel he doesn't need to do more....everytime a kid cries all she ask for is daddy.. even in the grocery store.. I'm like what |
Re: Are Nigerian Men Taking-Up More Domestic Responsibilities In The Home? by Nobody: 4:40pm On Nov 08, 2012 |
Sisi_Kill:Hahahaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa, I know many of them like that. One who was always running his mouth about My hubby, I dont know what touched him but now he is more into domestics than Oga, even has a baby carier and carries his baby proudly feeder and all at family functions, see the expert way he changes diapers in fact when two of them get into it I feel like a mumu they have so much indept knowledge. He confessed to my husband that his home is so much better and calmer since he started spending more time at home helping out as opposed to leaving madam to deal with it all while hanging out or watching tv, says they have more couple time together and less stress and tension resulting in more and better quality bedroom activities. jidegirl12:Calm down my sister, no be fight, we agree to disagree. 1 Like |
Re: Are Nigerian Men Taking-Up More Domestic Responsibilities In The Home? by Nobody: 4:42pm On Nov 08, 2012 |
Fight ke? I'm just proving my point my apologies if I came across too tight |
Re: Are Nigerian Men Taking-Up More Domestic Responsibilities In The Home? by Nobody: 4:42pm On Nov 08, 2012 |
jidegirl12: Maybe because our childcare are 100% taken care of by him ( from school,diaper changes to bedtime stories and tucking in at night) that's why I feel he doesn't need to do more....everytime a kid cries all she ask for is daddy.. even in the grocery store.. I'm like whatNow I get where you are coming from, but remember thats you and your husband, another couple may have their own areas of strengths and it could be in cooking just like your husband is good with child care another husband may choose to support his wife by taking charge of the kitchen |
Re: Are Nigerian Men Taking-Up More Domestic Responsibilities In The Home? by bjcole(m): 4:43pm On Nov 08, 2012 |
debrief08:I doubt this madam, lots f guys will nt descend this low, sharing chores wit u. just too much |
Re: Are Nigerian Men Taking-Up More Domestic Responsibilities In The Home? by Nobody: 4:45pm On Nov 08, 2012 |
bjcole: I doubt this madam, lots f guys will nt descend this low, sharing chores wit u. just too muchDescend low how Sir? Is it not our home? What about the bills we share is that descending low too? lol 1 Like |
Re: Are Nigerian Men Taking-Up More Domestic Responsibilities In The Home? by Nobody: 4:48pm On Nov 08, 2012 |
debrief08: And that where my problem lies .. The Kitchen...don't you think it's a woman's job to cook? What else is special then if my man cooks everything mbesides how good you are in bed? You understand my point ? |
Re: Are Nigerian Men Taking-Up More Domestic Responsibilities In The Home? by Nobody: 4:49pm On Nov 08, 2012 |
Claus: Please don't take it back, you just convinced me . . . you ARE a new age guy! 1 Like |
Re: Are Nigerian Men Taking-Up More Domestic Responsibilities In The Home? by Nobody: 4:51pm On Nov 08, 2012 |
jidegirl12:No, I dont think there is a man or woman job, I used to but my husband taught me different, he showed me we are partners and we should be primarily concerned with enhancing each others lives and not limiting each other to stereotypes and gender roles. His Mother raised him well, I hope some day a lady will say that about me amen. ANyway, someone else may not like doing what your husband does, open your mind dear, life has a lot to teach. As for what else I have to offer beyond being a cook, I offer my total loyalty, friendship, companionship, laughter, encouragement, respect, Love and most importantly Partnership. He knows whatever he wants to do he has a willing accomplice to stand with him through it all. He knows he has someone to count on no matter what happens, sickness, death, challenges, etc, he knows I am 100 percent loyal. 2 Likes |
Re: Are Nigerian Men Taking-Up More Domestic Responsibilities In The Home? by Claus(m): 4:55pm On Nov 08, 2012 |
Ujujoan: Chai! I must mark this day, 8/11/2012, as a great day for me on Nairaland. Lol! 1 Like |
Re: Are Nigerian Men Taking-Up More Domestic Responsibilities In The Home? by Nobody: 4:57pm On Nov 08, 2012 |
debrief08: I am really laughing out loud ! |
Re: Are Nigerian Men Taking-Up More Domestic Responsibilities In The Home? by SisiKill1: 5:01pm On Nov 08, 2012 |
debrief08: That's the Key!!! |
Re: Are Nigerian Men Taking-Up More Domestic Responsibilities In The Home? by bjcole(m): 5:02pm On Nov 08, 2012 |
debrief08:absolute rubbish, no wonder ur marriages dont last over there. I reject it in Jesus name. i rather stick wit my naija babes not these London girls wit wrong mentality. |
Re: Are Nigerian Men Taking-Up More Domestic Responsibilities In The Home? by Nobody: 5:06pm On Nov 08, 2012 |
bjcole: absolute rubbish, no wonder ur marriages dont last over there. I reject it in Jesus name. i rather stick wit my naija babes not these London girls wit wrong mentality.Oga Sir, I live in Nigeria, Married to a Nigerian, And for Nigerian Marriages lasting, visit a magistrate court on tuesday and thursday and see how many divorce cases are being filed and tried 4 Likes |
Re: Are Nigerian Men Taking-Up More Domestic Responsibilities In The Home? by Nobody: 5:07pm On Nov 08, 2012 |
bjcole: absolute rubbish, no wonder ur marriages dont last over there. I reject it in Jesus name. i rather stick wit my naija babes not these London girls wit wrong mentality. Mr Benjamin Cole( lovely name by the way ) chill ax ... and take some clonazipam Over where sir |
Re: Are Nigerian Men Taking-Up More Domestic Responsibilities In The Home? by SisiKill1: 5:11pm On Nov 08, 2012 |
Is Bjcole for real? |
Re: Are Nigerian Men Taking-Up More Domestic Responsibilities In The Home? by bjcole(m): 5:19pm On Nov 08, 2012 |
debrief08:U share wit him becos u have it, u can imagine after being a bachelor all these while, eating junk foods, i will now marry & still be in charge of d kitchen, God forbid bad thing. If u dnt ve time 2 cook 4 ur hubby, someone dat knows how, will soon collect am, period |
Re: Are Nigerian Men Taking-Up More Domestic Responsibilities In The Home? by Nobody: 5:24pm On Nov 08, 2012 |
bjcole: U share wit him becos u have it, u can imagine after being a bachelor all these while, eating junk foods, i will now marry & still be in charge of d kitchen, God forbid bad thing. If u dnt ve time 2 cook 4 ur hubby, someone dat knows how, will soon collect am, periodOga This is just like saying because I took care of my bills while single now that am married if my husband doesnt take care of all the bills then someone else who will do that will snatch me from him. My worth to my husband is beyond being a cook, He can always hire one, my worth to him is beyond food, by the way, I cook, He cooks we cook, Marriage is beyond food, any marriage that can be broken because of food is based on a wrong foundation. 7 Likes |
Re: Are Nigerian Men Taking-Up More Domestic Responsibilities In The Home? by Jimatex(m): 5:32pm On Nov 08, 2012 |
YES NAH
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Re: Are Nigerian Men Taking-Up More Domestic Responsibilities In The Home? by bjcole(m): 5:33pm On Nov 08, 2012 |
debrief08:naija marriage is still better, & its this ur mentality that breaks most homes. I ve read too much of how gud ur husband is in domestic chores here that i wonder if he is really d man @ home. I dont think u shd be celebrating this, if he enjoys it gud 4 him, but it is nt his role |
Re: Are Nigerian Men Taking-Up More Domestic Responsibilities In The Home? by Nobody: 5:38pm On Nov 08, 2012 |
debrief08: What is the benefit of trying to speak sense to a brick wall, I wonder? Brick is dense AND porous you know? 1 Like |
Re: Are Nigerian Men Taking-Up More Domestic Responsibilities In The Home? by Nobody: 5:40pm On Nov 08, 2012 |
bjcole: naija marriage is still better, & its this ur mentality that breaks most homes. I ve read too much of how gud ur husband is in domestic chores here that i wonder if he is really d man @ home. I dont think u shd be celebrating this, if he enjoys it gud 4 him, but it is nt his roleLol, Our Mentality has built us a very happy free and no tension home, I bless God for him everyday and Bless his parents for raising him to be my King, I boast about him and he does the same about me, I hope you and your wife are just as happy even happier. Whatever works for you Sir, We are happy with our own mentality, it works really well for us. We have the best of fun, home full of dancing and laughter. I wish you the same in your home sir, relax and enjoy your wife and family. When all is said and done it wont be how "manly" you are that God will ask you but how well you took care of all your familys physical, emotional and spiritual needs and how happy you made them, How many times you made them laugh and smile as opposed to how many times you made them sad or cry 5 Likes |
Re: Are Nigerian Men Taking-Up More Domestic Responsibilities In The Home? by Nobody: 5:41pm On Nov 08, 2012 |
ileobatojo:My Sister, na my fellow sister I dey try to help, who knows he may pick up something and put a genuine smile on her face |
Re: Are Nigerian Men Taking-Up More Domestic Responsibilities In The Home? by yankidelta(m): 5:41pm On Nov 08, 2012 |
jennykadry: True @ Claus Did you actually mean 70dollars a day for a childs upkeep?Then one wonders how much you earn? find that to be an exaggeration anyway. 1 Like |
Re: Are Nigerian Men Taking-Up More Domestic Responsibilities In The Home? by AIYELE(m): 5:43pm On Nov 08, 2012 |
Before nko? na slave u married. |
Re: Are Nigerian Men Taking-Up More Domestic Responsibilities In The Home? by abbeycial: 5:45pm On Nov 08, 2012 |
debrief08:101 likes |
Re: Are Nigerian Men Taking-Up More Domestic Responsibilities In The Home? by Nobody: 5:46pm On Nov 08, 2012 |
debrief08:. It's true sha. Nothing wey God no fit do! |
Re: Are Nigerian Men Taking-Up More Domestic Responsibilities In The Home? by Claus(m): 5:54pm On Nov 08, 2012 |
yankidelta: $70 a day for child care i.e. nursery. Very normal. We pay £50 a day here per child, approx £1k a month. |
Re: Are Nigerian Men Taking-Up More Domestic Responsibilities In The Home? by TableLeg(m): 5:58pm On Nov 08, 2012 |
Don't know about others but from day one, i have seen domestic responsibilities as something a man doesn't need to be told to take onboard! 1 Like |
Re: Are Nigerian Men Taking-Up More Domestic Responsibilities In The Home? by Nobody: 5:58pm On Nov 08, 2012 |
Claus: Almost $2k a month ! For just one kid? |
Re: Are Nigerian Men Taking-Up More Domestic Responsibilities In The Home? by solomon111(m): 5:59pm On Nov 08, 2012 |
And she will be busy doing what? I see it as my sole duty to take care of the bills,while she takes care of the kitchen and my kids. Shikena!! I don't care if the lady in question is raised in Nigeria or abroad. 1 Like |
Re: Are Nigerian Men Taking-Up More Domestic Responsibilities In The Home? by bjcole(m): 6:00pm On Nov 08, 2012 |
jidegirl12:well since u ve given me benjamin cole, no qualms, i just dont like d way u girls r taking this issue. I almost got married 2 one lady that works wit Agip some yrs ago, i envisaged this & i had 2 back out, she doesnt cook, only restaurants, even 2 help me wit house chores was wahala. This my wife when we were dating, my friends usually come 2 my house 4 lunch. |
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