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What Would You Do If You Foun D Out Your Dad Was Cheating On Your Mom by totalbaby(f): 5:37pm On Nov 11, 2012 |
I need advise for a best friend who is going through this situation. Her parents seemed like the ideal couple who are really in love. Her dad would always ostracized cheating and would always make remarks about men who cheat and how he could not imagine himself cheating on her mom. They were high school sweethearts. Her mom had recently travelled abroad so she decided to surprise her dad by coming home early from university then expected and found a women wearing her mom's gown and sleeping in the bedroom. She left without the other women seeing her but now she does not know what to do. Must she confront her dad? Must she tell her mom or perhaps her siblings? must she pretend nothing happened? This is a real serious problem so mature answers only. Thanks |
Re: What Would You Do If You Foun D Out Your Dad Was Cheating On Your Mom by k2039: 5:42pm On Nov 11, 2012 |
If it was me I will do nothing,my father is a player. Your friend should just ignore the whole event.If he tells his mom,it's only going to tear the family apart. If he confronts his dad,it's just like wasting his time. |
Re: What Would You Do If You Foun D Out Your Dad Was Cheating On Your Mom by totalbaby(f): 5:43pm On Nov 11, 2012 |
k2039: Nothing,my father is a playerhmmm i bet you are one too |
Re: What Would You Do If You Foun D Out Your Dad Was Cheating On Your Mom by k2039: 5:45pm On Nov 11, 2012 |
totalbaby: I love my mum and I have little or no regards for my dad,so cheating is like disrespecting my mum. |
Re: What Would You Do If You Foun D Out Your Dad Was Cheating On Your Mom by totalbaby(f): 5:46pm On Nov 11, 2012 |
k2039:thats good to know but was your mom aware of the cheating or not? if she is aware fine. but don't you think it is unfair to keep the truth away from her? |
Re: What Would You Do If You Foun D Out Your Dad Was Cheating On Your Mom by k2039: 5:48pm On Nov 11, 2012 |
totalbaby:They are seperated,but ofcourse she knows he is a player |
Re: What Would You Do If You Foun D Out Your Dad Was Cheating On Your Mom by Kobojunkie: 7:21pm On Nov 11, 2012 |
totalbaby: I need advise for a best friend who is going through this situation. Her parents seemed like the ideal couple who are really in love. Her dad would always ostracized cheating and would always make remarks about men who cheat and how he could not imagine himself cheating on her mom. They were high school sweethearts. Her mom had recently travelled abroad so she decided to surprise her dad by coming home early from university then expected and found a women wearing her mom's gown and sleeping in the bedroom. She left without the other women seeing her but now she does not know what to do. Must she confront her dad? Must she tell her mom or perhaps her siblings? must she pretend nothing happened? This is a real serious problem so mature answers only. Simple, she should tell her mum and let them deal with their issues. There is no need for her to pretend she is the first to have this problem. Yes, it is serious issue but it is not her place to make judgement on who in the family should or should not hear of it. The man is involved, She needs to let her mother know that she knows. If outsiders will not do that, at least her mother needs to be able to know that she, a child of that union would know to do better. She should give her mother the chance to make a decision on the where her marriage(not your friend's) should go. |
Re: What Would You Do If You Foun D Out Your Dad Was Cheating On Your Mom by drnoel: 7:49pm On Nov 11, 2012 |
Blackmail him |
Re: What Would You Do If You Foun D Out Your Dad Was Cheating On Your Mom by mumumugu(m): 8:06pm On Nov 11, 2012 |
I wil take a photo or video coverage of my dad and d lover in action and threatn to spread it all over the internet + giving mum, pastor ,frend and sisters a copy of d video IF HE DOSENT STOP |
Re: What Would You Do If You Foun D Out Your Dad Was Cheating On Your Mom by totalbaby(f): 8:02pm On Nov 12, 2012 |
Thanks Kobojunkie: |
Re: What Would You Do If You Foun D Out Your Dad Was Cheating On Your Mom by Nobody: 1:48pm On Nov 13, 2012 |
drnoel: Blackmail himyeah, blackmail his sorry arses . |
Re: What Would You Do If You Foun D Out Your Dad Was Cheating On Your Mom by CrazyMan(m): 6:22am On Nov 15, 2012 |
Kobojunkie: Simple, she should tell her mum and let them deal with their issues. There is no need for her to pretend she is the first to have this problem. Yes, it is serious issue but it is not her place to make judgement on who in the family should or should not hear of it. The man is involved, She needs to let her mother know that she knows. If outsiders will not do that, at least her mother needs to be able to know that she, a child of that union would know to do better. She should give her mother the chance to make a decision on the where her marriage(not your friend's) should go.What kind of advice is this.... If she tells the mum...the mum might decide to confront him, and this might lead to insults, beatings...etc. Which might tear the family apart. The man won't change either, instead it would be an opportunity for him to continue his illicit act. Be best options she's got would be to keep quiet, or to confront him respectfully and her what he has to say. Reporting the incident to a third party is totally out of the question. 1 Like |
Re: What Would You Do If You Foun D Out Your Dad Was Cheating On Your Mom by Mynd44: 7:20am On Nov 15, 2012 |
k2039: If it was me I will do nothing,my father is a playerI don't doubt that |
Re: What Would You Do If You Foun D Out Your Dad Was Cheating On Your Mom by 299: 7:49am On Nov 15, 2012 |
Don't tell your mum. Respectfully confront your dad and let him know you are aware of his illicit affair. Remind him that it goes against everything he claims to stand for and it's capable of tearing your family apart. I bet he'll stop cheating, otherwise threaten to tell your mum if he doesn't stop. |
Re: What Would You Do If You Foun D Out Your Dad Was Cheating On Your Mom by k2039: 8:24am On Nov 15, 2012 |
Mynd_44: Sounds to me like you know him,lol |
Re: What Would You Do If You Foun D Out Your Dad Was Cheating On Your Mom by Mynd44: 8:26am On Nov 15, 2012 |
k2039:Maybe |
Re: What Would You Do If You Foun D Out Your Dad Was Cheating On Your Mom by ochukoccna: 5:24pm On Jan 14, 2013 |
Tell your friend to blackmail his black a$$ especially as he's forming holy pass |
Re: What Would You Do If You Foun D Out Your Dad Was Cheating On Your Mom by dayokanu(m): 6:23pm On Jan 14, 2013 |
If it was the son that caught them, He should talk to the girl to hook him up too |
Re: What Would You Do If You Foun D Out Your Dad Was Cheating On Your Mom by Nobody: 8:28am On Jan 19, 2013 |
drnoel: Blackmail himI will also blackmail him till the end of days. if possible, the gurl must hook me up also. 2 Likes |
Re: What Would You Do If You Foun D Out Your Dad Was Cheating On Your Mom by totalbaby(f): 8:03pm On Jan 20, 2013 |
Hmmm so you have no regards at all for ur mom? fem30: |
Re: What Would You Do If You Foun D Out Your Dad Was Cheating On Your Mom by Nobody: 8:38pm On Jan 20, 2013 |
I won't tell my mommy,cos I don't want my family torn apart. Somethings are better left unsaid,especially if the outcome won't benefit both party. as for my dad,I would report him to someone that can scold him on that. 1 Like |
Re: What Would You Do If You Foun D Out Your Dad Was Cheating On Your Mom by totalbaby(f): 8:41pm On Jan 20, 2013 |
True that but as you know the truth always comes out in the end. Her mom found out anyways and they are separating because she cannot handle his womanizing anymore. Yomieluv: I won't tell my mommy,cos I don't want my family torn apart. Somethings are better left unsaid,especially if the outcome won't benefit both party. as for my dad,I would report him to someone that can scold him on that. |
Re: What Would You Do If You Foun D Out Your Dad Was Cheating On Your Mom by Nobody: 8:48pm On Jan 20, 2013 |
totalbaby: True that but as you know the truth always comes out in the end. Her mom found out anyways and they are separating because she cannot handle his womanizing anymore.its better she found out herself,than for me to be an agent of destruction. |
Re: What Would You Do If You Foun D Out Your Dad Was Cheating On Your Mom by Gambrosia: 9:11pm On Jan 20, 2013 |
If I know my mom. . .she'd prolly be doing the same! I don't come from a family of 'female MUGUS'! She go don smell im azze tey tey! Haba!!! Smoke dey hide for h-inside bottle? Bottomline. . .not my consain! All I wanno know is where my school fees and pocket money at? Or where the next 'SUMMER VACATION' is gonna be! Shikena!!! I could care less! |
Re: What Would You Do If You Foun D Out Your Dad Was Cheating On Your Mom by MMotimo: 2:39am On Jan 21, 2013 |
@ Post I would be happy I'm not the one married to him He's my father, not my husband! |
Re: What Would You Do If You Foun D Out Your Dad Was Cheating On Your Mom by ifihearam: 10:39pm On Jan 22, 2013 |
@op So how did your father and mother end the matter when you ran into your dad's room and found his babe with your mom's gown? You people just come here fronting with other people when you are the ones who needs advise. |
Re: What Would You Do If You Foun D Out Your Dad Was Cheating On Your Mom by totalbaby(f): 10:47pm On Jan 22, 2013 |
Well my parents are happily married thank you. So stop saying things you think you know! ifihearam: @op |
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