drnoel: Guys, I felt this has to be said. B4 I start just want to say that my write-up repesents real life situations and lives of people I know but then I had to change the names cos I suspect emeka is also a member of NL.

Let me introduce Emeka. He is an assistant manager in a new generation bank. Ladies find him cute, I've hung out with him, so I know. He is super nice but has a big problem (Ms right). He has dated some of d finest Nigerian sisters that I've seen but can't decide which one to wed. I asked him once what his problem was and he said "I don't know". He promised his last two girl friends marriage but lost interest.

Meet Wale. He is an assistant Professor of molecular biology in the UK. A friend of a friend who later became my friend. U need to have met his last two girl friends, beautiful and successful ladies. I've had to go on blind dates at the irritation of my wife cos I was trying to help him decide on a chick and after the date he tells me "no these ones are only good to bed not to wed). Wale promised all the girls he dated marriage but didn't wed anyone.

Now, I've met many Nigerian men with similar problems. My question is why? Why do successful men have this problem, deciding about a partner. Is it cos they have experienced a wide taste of women already or they just want to sleep arnd. Have asked my unmarried friends but they didn't give a solid answer so am throwing the question at you guys. Help me understand.

Okija_juju: ... Simple The more money a man/woman makes, the more skanks, whores, gold diggers, low lifers and opportunists they attract to themselves.. When they find the right person, they will settle down.. Until then, na to dey test all wey croos their paths..

Thats why its better to date a person before the wealth starts coming in..

emilyone: fear of commitment!
they dont want to be stranded with just one punny for the rest of their life

Godman_n: It takes intelligence to be successful and these sharp guys see enough of the lies and fakes that abounds in dating.

ITbomb: The more u sleep with different girls the less ur chances of trusting a girl even the nice one are grouped together with the bad

drnoel: Guys, I felt this has to be said. B4 I start just want to say that my write-up repesents real life situations and lives of people I know but then I had to change the names cos I suspect emeka is also a member of NL.

Let me introduce Emeka. He is an assistant manager in a new generation bank. Ladies find him cute, I've hung out with him, so I know. He is super nice but has a big problem (Ms right). He has dated some of d finest Nigerian sisters that I've seen but can't decide which one to wed. I asked him once what his problem was and he said "I don't know". He promised his last two girl friends marriage but lost interest.

Meet Wale. He is an assistant Professor of molecular biology in the UK. A friend of a friend who later became my friend. U need to have met his last two girl friends, beautiful and successful ladies. I've had to go on blind dates at the irritation of my wife cos I was trying to help him decide on a chick and after the date he tells me "no these ones are only good to bed not to wed). Wale promised all the girls he dated marriage but didn't wed anyone.

Now, I've met many Nigerian men with similar problems. My question is why? Why do successful men have this problem, deciding about a partner. Is it cos they have experienced a wide taste of women already or they just want to sleep arnd. Have asked my unmarried friends but they didn't give a solid answer so am throwing the question at you guys. Help me understand.

drnoel: Guys, I felt this has to be said. B4 I start just want to say that my write-up repesents real life situations and lives of people I know but then I had to change the names cos I suspect emeka is also a member of NL.

Let me introduce Emeka. He is an assistant manager in a new generation bank. Ladies find him cute, I've hung out with him, so I know. He is super nice but has a big problem (Ms right). He has dated some of d finest Nigerian sisters that I've seen but can't decide which one to wed. I asked him once what his problem was and he said "I don't know". He promised his last two girl friends marriage but lost interest.

Meet Wale. He is an assistant Professor of molecular biology in the UK. A friend of a friend who later became my friend. U need to have met his last two girl friends, beautiful and successful ladies. I've had to go on blind dates at the irritation of my wife cos I was trying to help him decide on a chick and after the date he tells me "no these ones are only good to bed not to wed). Wale promised all the girls he dated marriage but didn't wed anyone.

Now, I've met many Nigerian men with similar problems. My question is why? Why do successful men have this problem, deciding about a partner. Is it cos they have experienced a wide taste of women already or they just want to sleep arnd. Have asked my unmarried friends but they didn't give a solid answer so am throwing the question at you guys. Help me understand.

emilyone: fear of commitment!
they dont want to be stranded with just one punny for the rest of their life

emilyone: fear of commitment!
they dont want to be stranded with just one punny for the rest of their life

maclatunji: Money or position doesn't equate to emotional maturity. They are just not mature enough to identify quality wife material and go for them.

Okija_juju: ... Simple The more money a man/woman makes, the more skanks, whores, gold diggers, low lifers and opportunists they attract to themselves.. When they find the right person, they will settle down..


Thats why its better to date a person before the wealth starts coming in..

pharuk: Dont blame men>>>> Research has proved "talking about marriage with a woman improves your chances of sex, relationship, better gist and who knows ,,, eventually MARRIAGE"

naijathings: i have furked so many pussyies wey i no even remember d name of the owner seff and i never ever promised anyone marriage to furkk. love and marriage are words i dont say easily and i dont like to hear it anyhow either. i dont know why guys do that shiet. I used to have a pal that would even knee down and beg you and tell you all sorts of marriage talk just to furk. haba. me i no fit do that kain thin oh. i nova eva beg woman for toto seff or make promises if you no wan furk then no be by force. and how come seun forgot to censor "toto"