What do girls do when they see a guy they like, but can't walk up to the the guy and tell him how they feel? I'm just thinking. I know this discussion will help a lot of girls that have to live in agony when they like a guy, and can't find a way to let the guy know.

Back in school, i had this female friend in my class and we went to read one night, and my friend (a guy) from another dept came to see me. When i walked the guy to his dept, he told me he really liked my friend, and would like to meet her. And when i went back to class, to my surprise, my female friend confessed to me that she really liked the guy. I swear, it was like a movie.

I didn't tell either of them what the other said, i just matched them together, and let the magic happen. It was a passionate relationship.

Pls, i would like to hear from females- WHAT DO YOU DO WHEN YOU FANCY A GUY AND YOU WANT TO GET HIM?

I think a female should be the one opening this kind of thread... Or?

They do pray about it.

Why should a female be the one opening this kind of thread? They know how they feel, but guys dont. I'm a novelist, and i just want to see through the eyes of a woman.

if the guy is matured enough,the lady should put on courage and tell him.

Bekmy: if the guy is matured enough,the lady should put on courage and tell him.

Close the thread. Everyone go home. This poster has finished it

give him eye contact. .a guy with game would know the signals and will come up and say i 2 you

onila: give him eye contact. .a guy with game would know the signals and will come up and say i 2 you

As in "eye contact lens?"
Abeg,which colour?

lillyveezy:



As in "eye contact lens?"
Abeg,which colour?

buhahaha

I like this topic. At least a guy won't mistake a friendly girl as she giving signals that she likes him.

Nice thread. I think body signals will convey the message but in rare cases, the girl tells the guy. Last week i boarded a public bus and i sat next to a pretty girl. I got my shades on and right from the time i entered the bus, the girl has been staring at me, most times she would lean on my body amongst other things. As a sharp guy i just got the signal, started a convo with her and got her number. It was just like magic. As i type now, i am making huge progress.

Bekmy: if the guy is matured enough,the lady should put on courage and tell him.

Exactly!

lillyveezy:



As in "eye contact lens?"
Abeg,which colour?

onila: give him eye contact. .a guy with game would know the signals and will come up and say i 2 you

is this different from stray views,like when u're looking at an object in perspective and the person happens to be in view. And una eye 'JAM'.. ?

djeezy: Nice thread. I think body signals will convey the message but in rare cases, the girl tells the guy. Last week i boarded a public bus and i sat next to a pretty girl. I got my shades on and right from the time i entered the bus, the girl has been staring at me, most times she would lean on my body amongst other things. As a sharp guy i just got the signal, started a convo with her and got her number. It was just like magic. As i type now, i am making huge progress.

because of p.uu.s.sy? huge progress indeed!!! i jst f.uc.kd dat gal incase u dnt knw

mawojuuche:

because of p.uu.s.sy? huge progress indeed!!! i jst f.uc.kd dat gal incase u dnt knw

Lmao

Bekmy: if the guy is matured enough,the lady should put on courage and tell him.

spot on but if i were ever to be a gurl, i don't think i will tow that line reason being the different scenarios i've seen where the guy's paints the said gurls name black after getting them laid.

Men are the chasers but in a case where the lady thinks she will loose the guy if she keeps mute, then she should tell the guy after weighing the pros and cons of such act.

if i was to be a gurl, i will simply give him some signs that a guy that who is observant will notice.signs like always being with him,making him smile, playfully hitting on him or bringing love matters up whenever we're together plus other numerous stuffs.if he doesn't notice that am actually digging him, then i'll take it that he isn't intrested.sadly though, sometimes, some guys don't get to notice this signs.

Lovely replies...thanks.

kay29000: Lovely replies...thanks.

you're welcome

mawojuuche:

because of p.uu.s.sy? huge progress indeed!!! i jst f.uc.kd dat gal incase u dnt knw

hehehe. And i f.ucked your current girlfriend before you started dating her.lol

I remember some time ago, i was on the queue at gt bank, and i noticed this particular cashier checking me out. I ended up in her cubicle, and she started chit chat, but i really am not good with stuff like that in public places, so i concentrated on filling her registry book. She then realized that i had mistakenly written my phone number where i was meant to write the acct name i was paying into.

We laughed about it, and then she asked if my name was "kayode" (i normally write "kay" instead of in full). I said yes, and asked of her name. She told me, but i couldnt bring myself to ask for her number, so i just wished her a hapi weekend, n left.

I ended up in her cubicle again d next friday ( i didnt plan it), she greeted me n said- "kay, right?" To cut the long story short, we started talking on the phone, but it ended u that i wasnt her type. But it's all good.

kay29000: I remember some time ago, i was on the queue at gt bank, and i noticed this particular cashier checking me out. I ended up in her cubicle, and she started chit chat, but i really am not good with stuff like that in public places, so i concentrated on filling her registry book. She then realized that i had mistakenly written my phone number where i was meant to write the acct name i was paying into.

We laughed about it, and then she asked if my name was "kayode" (i normally write "kay" instead of in full). I said yes, and asked of her name. She told me, but i couldnt bring myself to ask for her number, so i just wished her a hapi weekend, n left.

I ended up in her cubicle again d next friday ( i didnt plan it), she greeted me n said- "kay, right?" To cut the long story short, we started talking on the phone, but it ended u that i wasnt her type. But it's all good.

eyah! pele brother mi. such is life

lol! I guess life is not always like the fairy tales..."happily ever after"

Bekmy: if the guy is matured enough,the lady should put on courage and tell him.

i disagree. whn push comes to shove, u'l be surprised dt d guy wil tell everyone dt u wooed him. i prefer scheming. u cn scheme n strategise and orchestrate d whole thing without him knowing u did it

wen i see a guy i like, i plot. After plotting, i point and hook. Sefini!

goofie:

i disagree. whn push comes to shove, u'l be surprised dt d guy wil tell everyone dt u wooed him. i prefer scheming. u cn scheme n strategise and orchestrate d whole thing without him knowing u did it

I totally disagree with you... Personally, I'm too mature to act so awkwardly. I'd prefer I tell politely that u are not my kinda person (that is if she ain't my type) buh to act the way u talked about, that's never gonna happen. Bottom line is; if the guy is matured enough, go for it.

Idowuogbo: wen i see a guy i like, i plot. After plotting, i point and hook. Sefini!

Chai! See formation... Lmmfao

Idowuogbo: wen i see a guy i like, i plot. After plotting, i point and hook. Sefini!

Hmmmmmm...........Noted

dmcdad:

I totally disagree with you... Personally, I'm too mature to act so awkwardly. I'd prefer I tell politely that u are not my kinda person (that is if she ain't my type) buh to act the way u talked about, that's never gonna happen. Bottom line is; if the guy is matured enough, go for it.

a man may appear mature but whn d goin gets tough, u myt be surprised. its best 4 d woman not to be d one 2 hint it. she cld be friends with him n then things cld

develop from there.but i dont bliv a woman shld be d one 2 say it.afterall s.perms chase e.ggs n not d oda way round

goofie:

a man may appear mature but whn d goin gets tough, u myt be surprised. its best 4 d woman not to be d one 2 hint it. she cld be friends with him n then things cld

develop from there.but i dont bliv a woman shld be d one 2 say it.afterall s.perms chase e.ggs n not d oda way round

My dear... Maturity here ain't about the age buh ur ability to handle situations with high level of reasoning. Besides, one who is mature is balanced psychologically, emotionally and otherwise. What is emotional balance? I think it's the ability to handle an emotional situation sanely and with dignity irrespective of the emotional tension..

So, like I said from the outset, if and only if one is very mature. Capiché?

dmcdad:

My dear... Maturity here ain't about the age buh ur ability to handle situations with high level of reasoning. Besides, one who is mature is balanced psychologically, emotionally and otherwise. What is emotional balance? I think it's the ability to handle an emotional situation sanely and with dignity irrespective of the emotional tension..

So, like I said from the outset, if and only if one is very mature. Capiché?

i still disagree with a woman being d one 2 approach d guy. there will alwys be other men.and i dint say anything about age.

goofie:

i still disagree with a woman being d one 2 approach d guy. there will alwys be other men.and i dint say anything about age.

Sure! There are other men that can do the wooing even though they are not the kinda men she wants.. Abi?