In a world where sexual promiscuity is rampant and the practicing of abstinence has all but died out, just about everyone is having sex -- so much so that deciding between virgins and non-virgins almost seems useless.

[Men] Dont you think there's a real irony here considering that most men want the purest of the pure for marriage, yet they themselves have already experienced the pleasures of the female ?

Okay I got this from a thread (author - Crazyman, 2007

Every man would want to settle down with a girl that doesn't have a nasty past. If you fall in love with a virgin, you'll know that you the only man in her life.
No ex boyfriend
No secrets
No past life
Her intimate life begins from you. Isn't that wonderful ?

I love this quote so much that I'm beginning to think...most especially when I come across questionnable posts and comments from ladies on this forum as regards their past (ex) (some even boast of exes)

Moreso, should a man consider a pure girl who has been touched, but act like Thereza of Calcuta?
or
So many girls out there are 'apparently' virgins, but they have done everything else except [...] (Onila is a case study)

So I ASK my BROTHER, What is your preference ?

If I remain a virgin till marriage obviously a virgin will be my preference but if not,then why should I crucify her for thesame offence I committed.


The topmost requirement for me is actually a good character,I would rather marry a non virgin with a good character than a nasty virgin

Na una get una mouth o
Will continue to keep myself till marriage. Got better things to think about than being intimate up and down.
I have nothing to worry about concerning intimacy (getting pregnant, having infection or diseases and tot of been used and dumped)

Am just so happy I chose this path

k2039: If I remain a virgin till marriage obviously a virgin will be my preference but if not,then why should I crucify her for the same [size=13pt]offence[/size] I committed.

Noted! I'm happy you see it as an offence

Another virgin thread?

Bisjosh, are you for real ?

Mynd_44: Another virgin thread?

Yes sir. Aren't you tired of break-up, heart-break, "single moms" and unending lovey-dovey threads.. ??

acidosis™:

Yes sir. Aren't you tired of break-up, heart-break, "single moms" and unending lovey-dovey threads.. ??

Actually I am not. It shows how much of a cycle we travel in

IMO,this virgin thing is trash...there are so many myths concerning this quality that are fallacious...eg they are seen as impeccable in character,they certainly make good wives,they are submissive...all myths.u feel they've never had any sexual feeling? Have u considered those who sex themselves with their fingers & v1brators? In brief,the main ishh is GOOD CHARACTER

acidosis™:

Noted! I'm happy you see it as an offence

Yet to commit the offence though and I doubt I will commit the offence,but frankly fornication was not part of God's design and it was clearly stated in the scriptures.

k2039:
Yet to commit the offence though and I doubt I will commit the offence,but frankly fornication was not part of God's design and it was clearly stated in the scriptures.

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Kelele

acidosis™:
In a world where sexual promiscuity is rampant and the practicing of abstinence has all but died out, just about everyone is having sex -- so much so that deciding between virgins and non-virgins almost seems useless.

[Men] Dont you think there's a real irony here considering that most men want the purest of the pure for marriage, yet they themselves have already experienced the pleasures of the female ?

Okay I got this from a thread (author - Crazyman, 2007

I love this quote so much that I'm beginning to think...most especially when I come across questionnable posts and comments from ladies on this forum as regards their past (ex) (some even boast of exes)

Moreso, should a man consider a pure girl who has been touched, but act like Thereza of Calcuta?
or
So many girls out there are 'apparently' virgins, but they have done everything else except [...] (Onila is a case study)

So I ASK my BROTHER, What is your preference ?

errr acidosis wen will u eva grow up?

Every real woman has her past,it myt not be regarding this virgins gibberish but we all have our heartbreaking pasts and it takes one goodman to understand and love that woman accordingly and that man would be only a man after God's own heart

HumbledbYGrace: errr acidosis wen will u eva grow up?

lmao! I've grown enough to be your partner

Every real woman has her past,it myt not be regarding this virgins gibberish but we all have our heartbreaking pasts and it takes one goodman to understand and love that woman accordingly and that man would be only a man after God's own heart

You're right (except the part I strike through).. We all have our past.. but being proud of the bad part of our past is what makes me sick.
Btw, I'm not searching for a virgin.. but I think we/they deserve some commendations..

acidosis™:

lmao! I've grown enough to be your partner


You're right (except the part I strike through).. We all have our past.. but being proud of the bad part of our past is what makes me sick.
Btw, I'm not searching for a virgin.. but I think we/they deserve some commendations..

I made a vow God to someone already

M not proud of my past,it makes me sick in da head trust me but we can't carry on like somethings didn't happen in life

HumbledbYGrace: errr acidosis wen will u eva grow up?

Every real woman has her past,it myt not be regarding this virgins gibberish but we all have our heartbreaking pasts and it takes one goodman to understand and love that woman accordingly and that man would be only a man after God's own heart

abeg YOU FIT BREAK DOWN THIS YOUR RUBBISH MAKE WE FOR UNDERSTAND

packman:
abeg YOU FIT BREAK DOWN THIS YOUR RUBBISH MAKE WE FOR UNDERSTAND

proper english pls,I don't get u

binger: IMO,this virgin thing is trash...there are so many myths concerning this quality that are fallacious...eg they are seen as impeccable in character,they certainly make good wives,they are submissive...all myths.u feel they've never had any sexual feeling? Have u considered those who sex themselves with their fingers & v1brators? In brief,the main ishh is GOOD CHARACTER

Mr Binger you are the one confusing this MYTHYS with REALITY. No one says Virgins are impeccable in character or virginity is a yardstick for perfect behavior but one thing there is that WE ARE DISCIPLINED PEOPLE

Bisjosh:


Mr Binger you are the one confusing this MYTHYS with REALITY. No one says Virgins are impeccable in character or virginity is a yardstick for perfect behavior but one thing there is that WE ARE DISCIPLINED PEOPLE

Exactly what am saying. U just added another point to the list i made already. Disciplined people? U mean disciplined by not having s3x or generally disciplined in everything??

HumbledbYGrace: I made a vow God to someone already

Cool

M not proud of my past,it makes me sick in da head trust me but we can't carry on like somethings didn't happen in life

Oh yes dear

binger: Exactly what am saying. U just added another point to the list i made already. Disciplined people? U mean disciplined by not having s3x or generally disciplined in everything??

What else do you want to hear..

binger: Exactly what am saying. U just added another point to the list i made already. Disciplined people? U mean disciplined by not having s3x or generally disciplined in everything??

What else do you want to hear..?

acidosis™:

Cool

Oh yes dear

he has broken the vow now,should I walk away?

I have to marry a virgin.

HumbledbYGrace: he has broken the vow now,should I walk away?

No, don't walk away, walk to me.

pleep: I have to marry a virgin.

Do not think about it if you're not a virgin.

acidosis™:

No, don't walk away, walk to me.

cool where do I get u then?

acidosis™:

Do not think about it if you're not a virgin.

lolest

does virgin make a women perfect?
i need a women i will live in peace wit,that we underst me and i wil do,any women that is able to keep herself till she get marry i think
is preciouse thing to the husband,but doesn't make her perfct women,the way people talk about this virgin of a tin,without even askin them self am i a virgin,how many women above 18 is still a virgin?and how many u have already disvirgin?

Abeg mak person hear word jare..

nobody can escape d repercussion/rewards of his/her past lives,little do ppl kno dt dt sexxual relp is covenated wt blood& ppl's glory ar shared wt as many as u had sexx wt,aft al thes escapades,u now settle down wt another man or woman n wiout knowin wea d probs ar comin 4rm,u see them driftn bak to dea former lives,divorce sets in,infidelity,irreconciliable diffrcs,lack of trust etc.
a high level of trust is established between couples who found themselves at matured age,brand new despite diverse tempttns

Na only guys wey don dis-flower many pucci dey dislike virgin gals. . .wen will you guys change