There are times in a relationship when “LOVE” is not enough. This is the time you need to engage your brain, wisdom and your sixth sense. Most people get so carried away all in the name of love.
They start to do things; they normally would not do and keep using the cliche “IT IS BECAUSE I LOVE YOU”. Learn this fact, “NO MORTAL MAN OR WOMAN CAN DIE FOR YOU”. As long as blood flows through that vein, we are a victim of the same sickness, weakness, ideas and mentality.

Loving someone does not mean losing grip of reality and yourself, because once you do that, you have definitely gotten everything all wrong.
When love is combined with been smart and realistic, then you have succeed in loving someone and still knowing what is right and what is forbidden.
Why then should you inconvenience yourself to please someone, don’t you know that you can never love the next person more than yourself.

There are certain position of compromise and inhuman sacrifice that this so called love will put you, and the only way to get yourself out without a scratch or a scar is to engage your brain, shut your heart,(that doesn’t mean you should be cold hearted), disengage the motion of your emotions, put to use your wisdom and learn to listen to your conscience.

A love that always bends you into its own selfish shape shouldn’t be enough to carry you on in that relationship, well that is if you want something good from it. There will come a period in that relationship when what separates you from suffering from a heart break and a life of a long time union of joy and happiness is an act of wisdom, brilliance, courage and a dare devil action.

Not every time should you dance to the tone of love, though its tune is sweet, but too much of it could get you drowsy, tipsy and slavish, you just discover that you no longer do things, or take decisions from the right frame of your loving mind.
Do not let love get you blind, love is not enough reason for him to lay hands on you, it is not enough for him to treat you like trash, is love enough reason to assume his level of commitment, or wish that one day he or she will be committed.

The more you keep leaving everything to love the more pain you will be bringing to your fragile heart.

There are times when love cannot give you the comfort, convenience, assurance, conviction and believe that you need in life, because so many have successfully infiltrated the scared order of love, they have turned it into a weapon of lies and deceit, that is why you need to know what else to fall on, that inner strength that is immune to the weakness and sickness love brings with it.
Or don’t you there is another life outside your so called love life. A messed up love life could mess up the other side of anyone’s life.

Wake up from that love drunk fever, life is too real to be mistaken for an “M&B Novel”, a “TITANIC MOVIE”, or a “FREAKY MAKE BELIEVE STORY”. Don’t you know that? A misguided emotion can cause commotion.
Always have this at the back of your mind that there will come a time, when love would not be enough for you to take that very important decision, of either staying or leaving that relationship or friendship.
Know this; A RELATIONSHIP IS LIKE A SHIP THAT REQUIRES MORE THAN ONE CAPTAIN TO VOYAGE IT TO ITS GLORIOUS DESTINATION. So get on your feet and do something.

Love= a box of chocolate.

So how will a box of chocolate be enough to sustain you?

An Epistle of Lovingsoul to Nairalanders...let him that have ears,hear!

Did any body finished d reading? cos dis looks lik a seminar to me

timilehing: Did any body finished d reading? cos dis looks lik a seminar to me

Did anyone start?