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| Should A Christian Hotelier Allow Unmarried Couples To Lodge In A Room? by charlsecy4(m): 12:15pm On Nov 25, 2012 |
No doubt, hotel is especially beneficial to visitors and travellers. I, myself, have experienced the usefulness of a hotel, when I arrived Owerri, on my first visit there, by 12:40am (midnight). It was a hotel that saved me that day from the killing cold and my inability to reach my final destination that night. But, what if you were a Christian owner of a hotel, or a receptionist; and a guy and a gal came to your hotel to take a room, from all indications, to have sex, what should you do? Should you deny them entry, or let them in, knowing fully well their intentions? If you allowed them in, could you be said to be a partaker in their iniquity? 1 Like |
| Re: Should A Christian Hotelier Allow Unmarried Couples To Lodge In A Room? by k2039: 12:28pm On Nov 25, 2012 |
should a pastor allow a prostitute into his church?. My point if the motive of the hotel is for relaxation and accomoddation of visitors,then the owner has not committed any sin. You will always have bad eggs and I dont think it's the ethics of that proffesion to ask the sex eligibility of their visitors 4 Likes |
| Re: Should A Christian Hotelier Allow Unmarried Couples To Lodge In A Room? by Caseless: 12:37pm On Nov 25, 2012 |
You are partaker by helping their ministry....so, dont allow...except if religion is not part of ur busness(hotel). |
| Re: Should A Christian Hotelier Allow Unmarried Couples To Lodge In A Room? by Nobody: 12:40pm On Nov 25, 2012 |
No! Tell them its not of god. Then forcefully lay ur hands on them and dramatically shout out loud that the spirit of jazebel and samson should come out of them by fire and go back to the sender. If ur manager queries u do the same to him. Then take ur sack letter and go to sleep under the bridge. To think someone said u guys ask sensible questions. Mtchew! 8 Likes |
| Re: Should A Christian Hotelier Allow Unmarried Couples To Lodge In A Room? by 2good(m): 12:42pm On Nov 25, 2012 |
charlsecy4: No doubt, hotel is especially beneficial to visitors and travellers. I, myself, have experienced the usefulness of a hotel, when I arrived Owerri, on my first visit there, by 12:40am (midnight). It was a hotel that saved me that day from the killing cold and my inability to reach my final destination that night.If I owe an hotel and you deny my customer a room, I will personally sack you without pay. Why not go work in a church where lots of religious hypocrites like you are found? 1 Like |
| Re: Should A Christian Hotelier Allow Unmarried Couples To Lodge In A Room? by vichofu(m): 4:51pm On Nov 25, 2012 |
Whats d business of d Manager of D Hotel wit wat i do in d room i paid 4 ? Make sheraton or Eko Hotel try am..........Na bankRupsy thinz......Y dem no go open church? |
| Re: Should A Christian Hotelier Allow Unmarried Couples To Lodge In A Room? by acidtalk: 4:52pm On Nov 25, 2012 |
Please people help drop very logical advice here because I need it. Thinking of setting up a Hotel but one which won't accomodate the practice of Adultery and Fornication as well as a Nonalcoholic bar in it. How profitable that will be I don't know but I want to do it out of the fear of God rather than solely for profit making. 3 Likes |
| Re: Should A Christian Hotelier Allow Unmarried Couples To Lodge In A Room? by begwong: 4:57pm On Nov 25, 2012 |
Though i know of a few hotels that conspicously display that unmarried couples are not allowed.(but yawa dey happen) But the qtn is: how can you tell when a customer comes in with his wife or woman of easy virtues? |
| Re: Should A Christian Hotelier Allow Unmarried Couples To Lodge In A Room? by fittty(m): 4:59pm On Nov 25, 2012 |
 well its buisness so you have no say on whoever a costomer decideds to bleeep! Just the same way an unemployed christian graduate takes a job offer at British American Tobacco company which produces cigarette christianity condems  |
| Re: Should A Christian Hotelier Allow Unmarried Couples To Lodge In A Room? by ITbomb(m): 5:12pm On Nov 25, 2012 |
For every work , there are terms and conditions. If u can't deliver on the job don't sign up for it. Next question. Should a christian chemist sell cond0m to an unmarried man? 1 Like |
| Re: Should A Christian Hotelier Allow Unmarried Couples To Lodge In A Room? by micki83(m): 5:13pm On Nov 25, 2012 |
acidtalk: Please people help drop very logical advice here because I need it.I don't know whether u're serious or joking,since it's u,acidtalk,but if u're serious and u're really sure u wanna open d hotel becos of "the fear of God"(what does that even mean?),and not for profit,then u can go ahead and open,with d assurance that u'll make almost no money,cos I wonder what kind of hotel caters to only "sinless" customers. 1 Like |
| Re: Should A Christian Hotelier Allow Unmarried Couples To Lodge In A Room? by getukudo(m): 5:21pm On Nov 25, 2012 |
Since when did hotel business turn a religious issue? You people just incite religion into everything. |
| Re: Should A Christian Hotelier Allow Unmarried Couples To Lodge In A Room? by uzoexcel(m): 5:31pm On Nov 25, 2012 |
before u start asking the couple questions, check whether ur hotel or the bar have alcoholics drink on display as i heard itz also a sin..plz confirm and get back to us... |
| Re: Should A Christian Hotelier Allow Unmarried Couples To Lodge In A Room? by abohrandy: 5:44pm On Nov 25, 2012 |
for heaven's sake its a hotel and not some sort of monastery or convent!!!! besides whats ur problem wif what a total stranger wants to do wif their life; provided no one dies in the process!!! |
| Re: Should A Christian Hotelier Allow Unmarried Couples To Lodge In A Room? by Nobody: 5:54pm On Nov 25, 2012 |
Its not new. Churches set up hotels, I've lodged in one at Enugu-owned by Daughters of divine love at Emene. There, ppl don't lodge together except they are married. Infact, a guy cannot receive a female visitor in his room and vice versa. There is also a male wing and female wing. What I didn't check was how they certify d couple is married(whether by marriage cert). Its a very good place. Bt I doubt they set it up for profit. |
| Re: Should A Christian Hotelier Allow Unmarried Couples To Lodge In A Room? by sweetrace(f): 6:13pm On Nov 25, 2012 |
If you're setting up a hotel, then it must be cos you want to make profit. There are lots of church activities that can keep your help keep your hotel in biz. Plus, making it a really posh hotel will help keep out the kind of clients you're talking about. Someone wrote about pasting a notice about unmarried couples. I think that's a good idea. If an unmarried "couple" come seeking a room though, there's nothing you can do about it. You have to accommodate them since you can't ask for their marraige certificate or the pastor, imam, or government official that wed them. |
| Re: Should A Christian Hotelier Allow Unmarried Couples To Lodge In A Room? by Standing5(m): 6:13pm On Nov 25, 2012 |
Mr. OP, please kindly get a life. How do you tell they are there just to get down? |
| Re: Should A Christian Hotelier Allow Unmarried Couples To Lodge In A Room? by hustla(m): 6:28pm On Nov 25, 2012 |
2good: If I owe an hotel and you deny my customer a room, I will personally sack you without pay. Why not go work in a church where lots of religious hypocrites like you are found? u have said it all...u wan ruin ma business for me abi werin concern me with werin una come my hotel come do as long as say una no kee person inside.. Nigerians wan dey carry Christianity for head pass oyinbo wey bring am sef..mhsewwwwwwwwwwww |
| Re: Should A Christian Hotelier Allow Unmarried Couples To Lodge In A Room? by hustla(m): 6:29pm On Nov 25, 2012 |
acidtalk: Please people help drop very logical advice here because I need it. Be like say u wan run down, better find another business do cos ppl go always come straff for ya hotel, tht na sure tin 1 Like |
| Re: Should A Christian Hotelier Allow Unmarried Couples To Lodge In A Room? by Nobody: 6:42pm On Nov 25, 2012 |
These days, unmarried couples go down in public places am afraid. They don't always need a hotel you know. |
| Re: Should A Christian Hotelier Allow Unmarried Couples To Lodge In A Room? by chisom19: 7:04pm On Nov 25, 2012 |
Why not build a homeless shelter? 3 Likes |
| Re: Should A Christian Hotelier Allow Unmarried Couples To Lodge In A Room? by AkinDavid2: 7:30pm On Nov 25, 2012 |
Wetin concern am go do hotel biz or work, na everyday things like that they happen. Better be sharing tracts. |
| Re: Should A Christian Hotelier Allow Unmarried Couples To Lodge In A Room? by mu2sa2: 8:05pm On Nov 25, 2012 |
mercylicious: Its not new. Churches set up hotels, I've lodged in one at Enugu-owned by Daughters of divine love at Emene. There, ppl don't lodge together except they are married. Infact, a guy cannot receive a female visitor in his room and vice versa. There is also a male wing and female wing.if it is not set up for profit then either it is a house for church guests or its subsidized. Do they allow two males in a room or two females in one room? These people can be homosexuals, u know. 1 Like |
| Re: Should A Christian Hotelier Allow Unmarried Couples To Lodge In A Room? by Nobody: 8:18pm On Nov 25, 2012 |
How does a hotelier determine the marital status of a couple if one person books a room and how do they also determine what the intents of the couple are? People give themselves unnecessary headaches What if two men or two women come to rent one room do I also take a DNA sample to determine that they are blood brothers or sisters and not homosexual partners How can I tell that a lodger did not just kill someone in another state and fled to my hotel? The what ifs are endless |
| Re: Should A Christian Hotelier Allow Unmarried Couples To Lodge In A Room? by ChiSun27(m): 8:18pm On Nov 25, 2012 |
acidtalk: Please people help drop very logical advice here because I need it. u neva hala. |
| Re: Should A Christian Hotelier Allow Unmarried Couples To Lodge In A Room? by Nobody: 8:25pm On Nov 25, 2012 |
mercylicious: Its not new. Churches set up hotels, I've lodged in one at Enugu-owned by Daughters of divine love at Emene. There, ppl don't lodge together except they are married. Infact, a guy cannot receive a female visitor in his room and vice versa. There is also a male wing and female wing. So people need to carry their marital certificates to get a hotel room What nonsense In the same country where rev fathers ,pastors and imams are having carnal knowledge of underaged boys and girls on a daily basis,a hotel attendant who may herself be a runs girl is making a judgement of guests |
| Re: Should A Christian Hotelier Allow Unmarried Couples To Lodge In A Room? by lastpage: 8:30pm On Nov 25, 2012 |
acidtalk: Please people help drop very logical advice here because I need it.I feel you man .... as a "fellow Kristian"!  But how come that out of all the "Christianly Businesses available", na only "Love Boat" dey interest you? Okay, you like the MONEY, yet your "conscience" is intimidating you?  [size=16pt] Alright, my advise: Go and build a "Homeless People's Home"[/size]. That way, no "ashawo" go come near ya tenth ..... and for helping the "homeless", heaven is guaranteed for you! (Well, l cannot guarantee if "virgins" will be included as part of the bargain!)  Chei, my guy vex with me for this kain advise!  Damn,Love of money!  Did l hear you say: "Non-alcoholic and no-adultery/fornication Hotel"? Even G.O. would not allow you to build such "non-profitable" venture on the Camp grounds (Na soso Banks, expensive schools, full there! )Make l waka joor. Lastpage! BTW: Are Nigerians getting more promiscuous or what is it with everyone l know trying to build "ashawo and Beer parlors"? 1 Like |
| Re: Should A Christian Hotelier Allow Unmarried Couples To Lodge In A Room? by charlsecy4(m): 8:32pm On Nov 25, 2012 |
Baby mama: How does a hotelier determine the marital status of a couple if one person books a room and how do they also determine what the intents of the couple are? Did you read the post? |
| Re: Should A Christian Hotelier Allow Unmarried Couples To Lodge In A Room? by Tobiustobius: 9:32pm On Nov 25, 2012 |
acidtalk: Please people help drop very logical advice here because I need it. @acidtalk: So, if I come in with my partner to your hotel, you'd ask for proof of marriage before letting me in? On top my own money? Na wa for people. @Topic: Just to be clear, as long as it's not illegal and the hotel accommodation was paid for, it's no-one's business what happens in the room. Olofofo peeps. Catholic-run guest houses do not allow opposite sex guests to stay in the same room or even adjacent rooms. Open a guest house under your religious umbrella, if you must; don't go poking your nose into people's lives. Hotels should possess discretion. |
| Re: Should A Christian Hotelier Allow Unmarried Couples To Lodge In A Room? by Tobiustobius: 9:38pm On Nov 25, 2012 |
ITbomb: For every work , there are terms and conditions. Those that don't sell, don't even stock condoms, not to talk of trying to find out if the man is unmarried. A chemist not selling condoms in these days of HIV/AIDS. |
| Re: Should A Christian Hotelier Allow Unmarried Couples To Lodge In A Room? by Sike(m): 9:44pm On Nov 25, 2012 |
Customers are always right. |
| Re: Should A Christian Hotelier Allow Unmarried Couples To Lodge In A Room? by Nobody: 9:45pm On Nov 25, 2012 |
Put bible inside your hotel rooms. Pray that the spirit of lust becomes instantly sabotaged as soon as its victims step into your establishment. If led, give distant brotherly hintish advise with WISDOM ( bcus its none of your business). Although, if youy make that sacrifice of turning back customers in same room who are not married, orputting them in 2 different rooms, for God, I am sure You will catch Gods attention and he will surely announce your establishment to the world one way or another. Yes, this sounds like a thing God would want one of his children to prove him with  Seriously, someone should try this business model. |
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