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The Younger Nigerian Man And The Older Woman: by britgirlee(f): 8:53am On Feb 09, 2008 |
Hummmmm What are you views on the younger Nigerian man dating an older nNigerianwoman or any woman. Is a social stigma? It is more acceptable for a niNigerianan to marry a younger woman or of like age BUT when it comes to the older woman who is uyupo 3-8 years older then him the tables are turned, If the woman looks half her age and has aged very well it is difficult to decide her age unless told i myself look a good ten years younger!!!!! ![]() And I always have the pause your how old ![]() But seriously what are your views in our present society do you wonder what the attraction is ?/. what the guy sees in the woman , what the woman sees in the younger guy?? Is she of child bearing age, does she want children or not does he even more so, I wont write much its an open forum your views please ![]() |
Re: The Younger Nigerian Man And The Older Woman: by almondjoy(f): 9:27am On Feb 09, 2008 |
Yes it is stigma in most societies in Nigeria. Everywhere you turn you hear things like "old cargo" mostly from men. The women often spite older ones even if the age difference is that of 2 years--like they are any younger themselves. It is not very common go see a young Nigerian man marry an older Nigerian lady without incurring the wrath of his relatives. Most women lie about their ages go get the men's attention till the truth is eventually revealed when the lady's schoolmates start screaming foul. She was my older sister's mate in secondary school oooooooooooooooh"! ![]() Thanks to women taking better care of themselves and learning to love themselves for whom they are. Most women do not look their ages anymore. Thanks also for getting out of the kitchen and graduating from higher institutions and maintaining their careers. Just living for themselves. It can only take a confident man to appreciates any lady for whom she is without considering her age when it is of no consequence to "matters arising". Not up to 5% in Africa. ![]() In the western world, who cares? Go Demi Moore!!! You look good with baby Ashton K!!! ![]() Wow! Britgirleeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee! I love your profile picture. There is stiff competition on Nairaland now. Too bad, the girls look way better than the guys. Are those real?--If I were a guy--age would not be a factor arrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrallll! Hmmmmmmmmmm! What a pair of bosoms! ![]() |
Re: The Younger Nigerian Man And The Older Woman: by britgirlee(f): 9:51am On Feb 09, 2008 |
Almond Girleee, love your write up and views!!!! Yes Im all real,,,,and yes im an older woman and proud to be me, I ve fogotten about the pic posted , hahahaha Any way hope your well |
Re: The Younger Nigerian Man And The Older Woman: by almondjoy(f): 1:48pm On Feb 09, 2008 |
britgirlee: Getting better with age too! ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() |
Re: The Younger Nigerian Man And The Older Woman: by doyin13(m): 2:11am On Feb 14, 2008 |
almondjoy: bosoms. . .Did I hear bosoms. . . Nwanwu pawpaw men. . .make una show me na Yawwww |
Re: The Younger Nigerian Man And The Older Woman: by almondjoy(f): 7:45am On Feb 14, 2008 |
doyin13: As usual, you never fail to show up at the right time! Where is that picture of yours from last year? ![]() Ooooooooooooooooooooooooooh! I spoke too soooooooooon! ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Downloading several copies!---if no be you--no problem still! |
Re: The Younger Nigerian Man And The Older Woman: by darfur(m): 1:56pm On Feb 14, 2008 |
almond joy, that na your picture for ya profile ![]() you fine well well oo ![]() ![]() |
Re: The Younger Nigerian Man And The Older Woman: by almondjoy(f): 3:09pm On Feb 14, 2008 |
darfur: Hmmmmmmmm! Thank you very much! ![]() |
Re: The Younger Nigerian Man And The Older Woman: by Blatant: 5:23pm On Feb 14, 2008 |
How boys go dey carry old cargo? Na only if the old cargo want give them papers or maybe she get money wey she dey spend for boys. almondjoy: It takes a desperate man to go with an old cargo lol Besides, why should we do something simply because it is done in the western world? Must we be colomentality fools following without thought? If you dont like it, go and meet men from the western world |
Re: The Younger Nigerian Man And The Older Woman: by Blatant: 5:25pm On Feb 14, 2008 |
why the women sef no find dem mates? |
Re: The Younger Nigerian Man And The Older Woman: by almondjoy(f): 7:01am On Feb 19, 2008 |
Hmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm! A see! Just lak a thought. Typical Nigerian mentality. The good news is that more Nigerian guys have wives at home and keep sugar mommies on the side. Desperate or not. Let freedom of choice reign. Some old cargos make better wives than young mules! ![]() |
Re: The Younger Nigerian Man And The Older Woman: by ayoparadig: 3:29pm On Aug 31, 2010 |
I wonder why age becomes a barrier to the true state of the heart. As a matter of fact, I prefer to date an older woman because they seem to be more understanding and they give you the space to be yourself without crowding in on you. I am 28 years old and wouldn't really mind hooking up with a much older lady. Send me a mail at ayoparadigm@yahoo.com and lets see how it goes from there. |
Re: The Younger Nigerian Man And The Older Woman: by afime: 8:47pm On Oct 19, 2010 |
I am 10 years older than my Igbo husband ![]() ![]() NB. I am definately not old cargo!!! facety!! ![]() |
Re: The Younger Nigerian Man And The Older Woman: by spiaggia: 8:29am On Mar 27, 2012 |
Britgirl, you look so much like a sweet lady I knew in London. Her name is Grace. Are you Grace? |
Re: The Younger Nigerian Man And The Older Woman: by Biut(m): 5:00pm On May 22, 2016 |
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