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Re: What Type Of girls will You Approve Your Sons To Marry by JoeBatters: 9:34pm On Nov 27, 2012
There is good n evil in every woman, it depends on the ability young man 2 bring out the good in his woman.....I can only advice him n nothin more, because d choice is his 2 mk, I hv already made my own choice.
Re: What Type Of girls will You Approve Your Sons To Marry by Sweetlemon(f): 9:40pm On Nov 27, 2012
Archmed: well, my 5yr old son wants to marry my mother...reason according to him was because i married his mother...
This is the funniest thing I v seen in a while
Re: What Type Of girls will You Approve Your Sons To Marry by TimePiece(f): 9:51pm On Nov 27, 2012
@ poster.
the type that he feels and knows will make him happy.
after all, haven't i trained him to make the right choice by sticking to the values that he himself grew up being conscious of?
Re: What Type Of girls will You Approve Your Sons To Marry by tintingz(m): 9:51pm On Nov 27, 2012
advocate666: If my child is old enough to marry, then he or she is old enough to make their own choices.
and if your son brought home ashawo, whorre gal. . .will you approve that just like that? A choice of your son?
Re: What Type Of girls will You Approve Your Sons To Marry by Freiburger(m): 10:02pm On Nov 27, 2012
Any girl i think he is happy and comfortable with. Why must i influence his choice on whom he should marry?
Re: What Type Of girls will You Approve Your Sons To Marry by dayokanu(m): 10:02pm On Nov 27, 2012
frosbel: Girl A. If your Son came back home with a girl who wore a mini skirt , bosoms hanging out, with layers and layers of make up, will you honestly approve of the relationship or marriage.

Or


Girl B . If your Son came back home with a girl who dressed all covered up , quiet, respectful and almost shy-like in attitude, will you consider her too out of date for your Son.


Suppose Girl A is more sweet , kind hearted and loving than Girl B , would you not rather try to speak to her with respect and love , so that she might consider her outward appearance or would you write her off almost immediately.

Suppose girl B is really a demon in full head gear and long dress, how would you know ? Surely this is not a pre-requisite for approving their relationship, no ?

I am trying to be balanced here.

Let me know your thoughts.

It depends on the size of the breast hanging out.

And Did my son bring the girl for me?
Re: What Type Of girls will You Approve Your Sons To Marry by Freiburger(m): 10:03pm On Nov 27, 2012
zangiff: Anyone that makes him happy
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Re: What Type Of girls will You Approve Your Sons To Marry by Butoneday2(m): 10:09pm On Nov 27, 2012
Rugged girl.
Re: What Type Of girls will You Approve Your Sons To Marry by ikachi1: 10:37pm On Nov 27, 2012
tintingz: and if your son brought home ashawo, whorre gal. . .will you approve that just like that? A choice of your son?

Some people say that Ashawos make the most faithful wives because they saw it all but my take here is "Okafor's law". To me, it is dangerous.
Re: What Type Of girls will You Approve Your Sons To Marry by RudySmith(m): 10:56pm On Nov 27, 2012
I will go 4 whatever girl *he* has chosen 2 date. Is he not the one who will date the poor lady? Let him suffer the consequences of his own choices, instead of coming 2 blame *me* when the girl I choose 4 him turns out 2 b a demon.

So long as he protects himself and follow the guidance I have instilled in him, fire away!
Re: What Type Of girls will You Approve Your Sons To Marry by fortyfeet(m): 11:23pm On Nov 27, 2012
k2039: I will aprove any one he brings home.

Who he marries isnt for me to decide just as I wont want my parent to interfere with my own choice.

I can only advise him,besides I must have trained him well enough to know the qualities to look for in a woman,if he decides to follow my advice good for him and if not,also good for him.
Exactly! Just my type.
Re: What Type Of girls will You Approve Your Sons To Marry by fortyfeet(m): 11:27pm On Nov 27, 2012
tintingz: and if your son brought home ashawo, whorre gal. . .will you approve that just like that? A choice of your son?
How do I identify ashawo at a glance? No idea, so I won't even know she is and if she eventually is, then my son most likely is too. Fits both.
Re: What Type Of girls will You Approve Your Sons To Marry by smile4kenn(m): 11:50pm On Nov 27, 2012
its your choice!
Re: What Type Of girls will You Approve Your Sons To Marry by BE811APP: 12:02am On Nov 28, 2012
First Impression Matters a lot...
Most babes dress as Girl A......
But 4 a Parents meetn...4 d first tym....dress decently..
Is d heart dat Matters in Marriage NOT dressing/Apperance!!!!!
Re: What Type Of girls will You Approve Your Sons To Marry by Archmed(m): 12:52am On Nov 28, 2012
Sweetlemon:
This is the funniest thing I v seen in a while
...lolsss...u can say that again dear...kids with their funny way of thinking..i laughed my intestines out wen he said it!!
Re: What Type Of girls will You Approve Your Sons To Marry by Archmed(m): 12:54am On Nov 28, 2012
naturalwaves:
cheesy cheesy cheesy.Funniest thing I've heard today. Very very funny! Your son has got a brilliant mind. He thinks like a Scientist.
lolss...u can say that again brah!!

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Re: What Type Of girls will You Approve Your Sons To Marry by hagma37yahoocom: 4:03am On Nov 28, 2012
@OP your topic dont realy make semse to me. Since Girl B is a devil in human clothing then their is no need for the argument. You painted Girl B as devil wat more do you want.
Re: What Type Of girls will You Approve Your Sons To Marry by vanstanzy(m): 4:57am On Nov 28, 2012
Erroneously, first impressions always do count. But taking the time to know the person in question, sometimes throws up a different light. 'Not all demons appear in black', just as 'not all angels appear in white' lets try to remember that always.
Re: What Type Of girls will You Approve Your Sons To Marry by vanstanzy(m): 5:06am On Nov 28, 2012
[quote author=BE811APP]First Impression Matters a lot...
Most babes dress as Girl A......
But 4 a Parents meetn...4 d first tym....dress decently..
Is d heart dat Matters in Marriage NOT dressing/Apperance!!!!![/quote

Very true, a decently dressed woman, most esp. wife wont send the wrong signal. Just as u cant make a wh0re a housewife, or its ur funeral.
Re: What Type Of girls will You Approve Your Sons To Marry by vanstanzy(m): 5:15am On Nov 28, 2012
Archmed: well, my 5yr old son wants to marry my mother...reason according to him was because i married his mother...

And i had half tot the reason was going to be that ur mother is very beautiful n extremely kind to him. Anyhoo, thats a good one. Ur son's got jokes.
Re: What Type Of girls will You Approve Your Sons To Marry by salt1: 5:50am On Nov 28, 2012
Poster is just creating stereotypes and feeding on people's desire to make themselves good by mocking those who are modest.
Who says appearance doesn't matter? The police interrogate peoPle for LOOKING like criminals. How you look is a reflection of what is inside you.
I also don't see parents' desire for the best for their children as interference. Most mothers can intuitively tell who is good enough for their children so how will securing their approval and blessing be considered intrusive? It is the person's decision alright but no one lives or dies alone. Seeing me happy adds to my parents' joy so I waited until they approved of my choice and we are all happy together. Girls, think twice before entering a home where the parents of the man don't want you. When you marry a man,you marry his family
Re: What Type Of girls will You Approve Your Sons To Marry by Gee001: 6:38am On Nov 28, 2012
Whether GirlA, or GirlB, I'll want him 2 marry d one dat is just like his mum. Gaskiya...
Re: What Type Of girls will You Approve Your Sons To Marry by Nobody: 6:49am On Nov 28, 2012
felifeli:

The way you are thinking I swear if you were my father I will simply not invite you to my wedding.you want to "approve" the woman I will live with for the rest of my life? SMH
People will just come here and be forming internet dragons. Nonsense.
We are Nigerians and 90% of marriages MUST be approved by both families so stop being in denial.
@OP, the key thing is for people to avoid the first impression rubbish. Anyways, if I see a girl that dresses hot and I feel she is good enough for me to want to marry her, she will have to dress decently when we visit my parents. She can always keep dressing sexy for me after the wedding. grin
Re: What Type Of girls will You Approve Your Sons To Marry by jaybee3(m): 7:20am On Nov 28, 2012
Whatever makes him happy
Re: What Type Of girls will You Approve Your Sons To Marry by pendo89(f): 7:26am On Nov 28, 2012
I trust my sons judgement.I wouldn't ever think for them or choose wives for them.I will embrace whoever they bring because of the faith and trust I have in them.
somebody said it's a nigerian's thing for parents to approve of one's choice? well.In that case I thank God.
Re: What Type Of girls will You Approve Your Sons To Marry by yumsty: 7:42am On Nov 28, 2012
Archmed: well, my 5yr old son wants to marry my mother...reason according to him was because i married his mother...
that is like d funniest sh*t ever said.lmfao
Re: What Type Of girls will You Approve Your Sons To Marry by slimyem: 8:21am On Nov 28, 2012
Things are not always as black and white as the op's instances....
That said,i'll pick girl A over girl B anytime or day if the mode of dressing is the only issue..
Better one who is open and expressive than one who shy,reserved and unpredictable.
Re: What Type Of girls will You Approve Your Sons To Marry by slimyem: 8:23am On Nov 28, 2012
dayokanu:

It depends on the size of the breast hanging out.

And Did my son bring the girl for me?
lmao...
Silly!!!
Re: What Type Of girls will You Approve Your Sons To Marry by Archmed(m): 8:59am On Nov 28, 2012
vanstanzy:

And i had half tot the reason was going to be that ur mother is very beautiful n extremely kind to him. Anyhoo, thats a good one. Ur son's got jokes.
lols....he was annoyed saying it...I think he felt bad dat I married his mum whom he would have preferred to marry..so marrying my mum was his own way of getting at me...KIDS!!
Re: What Type Of girls will You Approve Your Sons To Marry by FlamingGun: 3:04pm On Nov 28, 2012
A totally infantile subject.

Why should you have to "decide" who your son should marry?

You would be a disaster of a father to even harbor the thought, and your son an even worse failure to listen to you.

Christ!

FG

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