Have u guys ever thought of the fact that some guys can hardly accept love when they are financially not settled? Do you know that most good guys don't like to waste a girl's time knowing that he is not financially balanced enough to shoulder a healthy relationship?

Believe me, if this guy happens to be those type, the op can only have him back when he is financially feat, so op, try and help him to get back financially n career-wise in any way u can- advice, tips, links (if u got any), etc, n watch out.

Leave his sorry ass. Cos d more u kip on begging him ur wasting ur time in getting sum1. He has gotten wat he wants dats y he is giving dat excuse. He is dating or has seen another gal he likes

@ Op forget him dear, 5 weeks is much too early, his sorry a.s.s doesn't deserve you.

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Ms_Steph: Leave his sorry ass. Cos d more u kip on begging him ur wasting ur time in getting sum1. He has gotten wat he wants dats y he is giving dat excuse. He is dating or has seen another gal he likes

Seun and co pls kindly introduce dislike option here,sorry it's seen l'm address the wrong person.

My Pals Zone: .

what's that for? well l advice u stay to find out what' wrong with him first b/f u know the next step just be calm and watch.Since u said u don't want to lose him that't why l gave that advice don't mind those shouting dump him move on bla bla as if it's just easy.

my dear,those execuses he made ar to justify himself,give him d space he needs, dt call him on d phone,dt text him ,mov ahead wit ur life,be wit peopl who brings happiness to u ad understands ur feelings,if he truly loves u he wil com back,but if u keep calling him,makin him understand u can not stay witout him,he wil use u as trash

Give him space to find out where he is headed... He will never make time for the relationship as much as u wld want him to until he has discovered wats going on wit him

Nothing is going on with him,the sharp guy don chop clean mouth..
@Op take heart,shhitt do happen,assuming he loved you dearly,you would have treated him like shhiit.

MyPalsZone: I have been dating this guy for 5 weeks now. The first two weeks were great but by the 3rd week I began to notice that there was a distance building between us. He was calling less often and we were spending less time together. Last week I asked him if there was a problem and he said that he felt that the dating was moving quickly towards a relationship/commitment when he was not really ready for one. He said that he was experiencing financial difficulty at the moment and he didn't want to get into anything serious unless he was sure his career was headed in the right direction. I really want this to work because I feel a connection with him and I think that this can be really special. But he is making it more and more difficult for me to get through to him, and I don't want to lose him. What should I do?

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Bola, is this you?

Eehn give him the same space jare! 5 weeks is a short time to start feeling all too good about anyone for a deep commitment. Even as a girl you suppose fear small. 5 weeks and you are feeling all funky and thinking about a future. That's scary please. Give yourself some space too. You sef don't move in so fast .

MyPalsZone:
I have been dating this guy for 5 weeks now. The first two weeks were great but by the 3rd week I began to notice that there was a distance building between us. He was calling less often and we were spending less time together. Last week I asked him if there was a problem and he said that he felt that the dating was moving quickly towards a relationship/commitment when he was not really ready for one. He said that he was experiencing financial difficulty at the moment and he didn't want to get into anything serious unless he was sure his career was headed in the right direction. I really want this to work because I feel a connection with him and I think that this can be really special. But he is making it more and more difficult for me to get through to him, and I don't want to lose him. What should I do?

As far as we currently know, space is largely uninhabited.

He could lay claim to large swats of it and no one would object.