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Re: Most Common Reasons For Break Up? by Nobody: 10:33pm On Dec 02, 2012 |
IMO,it depends on the two persons in the r/ship.whatever leads them to break up is their reason for breaking up.Whether its a common issue or not. |
Re: Most Common Reasons For Break Up? by Jambsupport(f): 10:35pm On Dec 02, 2012 |
jhydebaba: Small joystickn sum dumbo like ds. ow z ds a reason? na him create am |
Re: Most Common Reasons For Break Up? by koolJ1(f): 10:44pm On Dec 02, 2012 |
Maybe she has a phobia for commitment and at d serious mention of marriage,she hit the roads. Yeah,she jst myt not have been d commitment/marriage kinda gurl. |
Re: Most Common Reasons For Break Up? by zannie(f): 10:51pm On Dec 02, 2012 |
I'm guessing she wanted marriage and u were not even mentioning it. Maybe she found someone else with marriage on his mind. 4 years is a long time to tie a chic down without something permanent 1 Like |
Re: Most Common Reasons For Break Up? by Nobody: 10:54pm On Dec 02, 2012 |
KINGwax: all you fools and the nigerian girls' syndrome. It's fuckin borin now! Thirdhanded gan!!! |
Re: Most Common Reasons For Break Up? by Duquesa(f): 10:56pm On Dec 02, 2012 |
[color=#990000][/color] Incompatibility and lack os solid communication. |
Re: Most Common Reasons For Break Up? by claremont(m): 11:01pm On Dec 02, 2012 |
alomoh: Women and money, food, sex, are inseparable, They will Call you Lord when you can throw Money around, Although they have nothing to spend. They will call you King when you can go deep (Sure you know what i mean)They have a price. There is no real Love anymore. They come with baggage, A woman love is paid for. That is why many of them are single and unmarried. They want the whole world but have nothing LesbianBoy:Nah, they will marry the tree itself! @OP: Don't worry about it, you are better off without her anyway. 1 Like |
Re: Most Common Reasons For Break Up? by Nobody: 11:13pm On Dec 02, 2012 |
jhydebaba: Small joystick |
Re: Most Common Reasons For Break Up? by AGgal(f): 11:15pm On Dec 02, 2012 |
Beating ur partner. |
Re: Most Common Reasons For Break Up? by TableLeg(m): 11:23pm On Dec 02, 2012 |
Abujafood: Hi Nairaland addicts/peepsAre you broke or do you have a small co/ck? |
Re: Most Common Reasons For Break Up? by Nobody: 11:24pm On Dec 02, 2012 |
It could very well be that her leaving had nothing to do with you, but her. That's my own guess and the first thing that came to mind when I read your post. Frankly, in situations like this, making assumptions is unnecessary. You can question and make as many assumptions as you want (just look at the responses by NLers), but at the end of the day you still would not know. Anyone in your shoes would be inclined to wonder, so I completely understand you questioning. But there's only one person who knows. After dating for 4-years, it was selfish of her to leave without giving you any explanation/s. She has made her decision, now you need to play your own part and look after you. Sometimes things just aren't meant to be and often it's for the best; sometimes people need to leave to make way for someone better. It's a hard pill to swallow, especially when the situation's still fresh, but I really believe it. It's great you're focusing on your career because you need somewhere productive to direct your energy to. Good luck, OP. 7 Likes |
Re: Most Common Reasons For Break Up? by victorD3: 11:25pm On Dec 02, 2012 |
Some comments sounds gay to me |
Re: Most Common Reasons For Break Up? by phineboy1pimple(m): 11:34pm On Dec 02, 2012 |
gree-die: People don't just grow apart..... There's always a reason.... |
Re: Most Common Reasons For Break Up? by Abujafood: 11:44pm On Dec 02, 2012 |
Localamos: I mean no offence here, but if I were the chick, I'd ditch you too. What fool you are, analyzing my post with so much bias and folly and thinking you're smart, you call me a control-centric loser like you know me one on one, fool take a hike and analyse your own self with brevity and wit, left o me, you're one hateful person spoiling for a fight too bad I'm not available for that. I gat notin to say to you further, good luck with the hate and find yourself another customer. 2 Likes |
Re: Most Common Reasons For Break Up? by phineboy1pimple(m): 11:45pm On Dec 02, 2012 |
booqee: I broke up because he's cheating. I want to be the one and only, not just no1 out of some. Quite understandable....... |
Re: Most Common Reasons For Break Up? by mrrock: 11:49pm On Dec 02, 2012 |
@OP I' am so sorry what you had to pass through. But I think your girl is in best position to give you the right answer. Afterall when the going was good and you was fukcing her you didn't ask any Nairaland addict to help on your bed work. Just joking. |
Re: Most Common Reasons For Break Up? by Nobody: 11:55pm On Dec 02, 2012 |
Ileke-IdI: I am Einstein himself |
Re: Most Common Reasons For Break Up? by dapojaja(m): 12:22am On Dec 03, 2012 |
Table Leg : when is cock small/big? 4/5/6/7/8/9" ? |
Re: Most Common Reasons For Break Up? by Nobody: 12:26am On Dec 03, 2012 |
dapojaja: Anything shorter than 10inches while soft and/or thinner than 4inches is a small dciikkkk |
Re: Most Common Reasons For Break Up? by Nobody: 12:27am On Dec 03, 2012 |
mxxpunkxx!: Which Einstein? |
Re: Most Common Reasons For Break Up? by veron007: 12:54am On Dec 03, 2012 |
Bro the only reason I can think of is money! When I had no money .... I when through the same drama. But immediately my levels changed, even the ladies that will not give me their numbers before are practically dropping to theirs pants once I say hello. Good thing this happened to you early in life just concentrate and focus on your career. Better once are still out there. Forget talk about small joy stict etc ....even with a longest joy stick a nija babe will leave your broke ass if the money is not there. Get your money right first! And then use the OBJ style; put the carrot infront and they will follow you. Lol.... 1 Like |
Re: Most Common Reasons For Break Up? by dapojaja(m): 12:56am On Dec 03, 2012 |
Ileke-IdI: I will report your answer to the moderator! |
Re: Most Common Reasons For Break Up? by princemaicheal: 1:04am On Dec 03, 2012 |
jhydebaba: Small joystickYou guys are hilarious!Anyway,maybe the spark is no longer there and is no longer fun anymore.You guys or rather she may have being enduring rather than enjoy the relationship. |
Re: Most Common Reasons For Break Up? by anthoniaz(f): 1:39am On Dec 03, 2012 |
Julieccentric: You sef no try, after four years of dating maybe you both didn't have a clear understanding otif where you were heading to & she saw someone that was objective with clear goals. U said my mind.Most guys tie girls down without any clear view as per where the relationship is heaading.Maybe she was just tired of waiting cos she didn't see any seriousness in the OP.If I were her I'd sit the guy down and tell him my mind,ask him what he really wants cos we're not growing younger. |
Re: Most Common Reasons For Break Up? by Bongii04: 2:04am On Dec 03, 2012 |
Re: Most Common Reasons For Break Up? by dljbd1(m): 2:45am On Dec 03, 2012 |
Abujafood: My guy dn vex |
Re: Most Common Reasons For Break Up? by Nuezha(m): 4:12am On Dec 03, 2012 |
LesbianBoy: Correction....'corrector' ALL GIRLS......ALL GIRLS!!! |
Re: Most Common Reasons For Break Up? by Nuezha(m): 4:19am On Dec 03, 2012 |
Localamos: I mean no offence here, but if I were the chick, I'd ditch you too. You sounded like a very bad counselor to me. Use Soft words next time. |
Re: Most Common Reasons For Break Up? by Adenine9(m): 4:36am On Dec 03, 2012 |
Ego-sentric or Ego-ism. |
Re: Most Common Reasons For Break Up? by AdeniyiA(m): 5:58am On Dec 03, 2012 |
demonic manipulations for continuation of vicious cycle of séxual escapades,which later make them come online to seek for advice for their broken/abt to break relp which is full of regrets. also,many unfaithful ladies ditch their fiance when they find another who throws money at them,in the end they find out that not all dt glitters is gold,very few ladies are ready to start small wt a man,sorry to say, many ladies will remain unmarried |
Re: Most Common Reasons For Break Up? by sweetchicks(f): 6:53am On Dec 03, 2012 |
LesbianBoy:fine. Let's all admit the fact that money rules these days, I still don't think it calls for generalization u know. Meet the right gals stop looking @ flashy things so that u won't come to nl and be sounding like a wounded monkey! 1 Like |
Re: Most Common Reasons For Break Up? by 190theclown: 6:55am On Dec 03, 2012 |
L brasi: different people different reasons... Rotfl my ex is guilty of dat bell ringing 1 Like |
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