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I Still Love Her, Whatever The Revelation by Ariscopy(m): 4:31am On Feb 16, 2008 |
I am depressed! I am dating a young lady and we are getting along very well. Everything tends to be pointing toward marriage by the end of this year until my parent steps in and decide to investigate this lady's past. The information they got is disappointing and baseless, so i don't believe it. Even if those informations are correct, i still want this lady as my wife but my parent tends to be making a mountain out of this issue. Please, what can i do? |
Re: I Still Love Her, Whatever The Revelation by spoilt(f): 4:38am On Feb 16, 2008 |
what did they discover? she stole the crown jewels of the royal family? ![]() |
Re: I Still Love Her, Whatever The Revelation by tommyex(m): 7:45am On Feb 16, 2008 |
lol,or mayb she had a nice affair with his dad n grandf Topic you need to take time out and analyse the situation well,marriage is 4 life remember. If u tell us what she did,we(the elders ![]() ![]() |
Re: I Still Love Her, Whatever The Revelation by debosky(m): 7:58am On Feb 16, 2008 |
what exactly is the revelation? We need to know that before we can make any comments. If you do feel its baseless. . .make this clear to your parents and let them understand. |
Re: I Still Love Her, Whatever The Revelation by TOYOSI20(f): 8:28am On Feb 16, 2008 |
What exactly was the revelation? ![]() |
Re: I Still Love Her, Whatever The Revelation by NaJaHaJe(f): 1:28pm On Feb 16, 2008 |
waiting for revelation . . . . . . . I think this will be really interesting ![]() |
Re: I Still Love Her, Whatever The Revelation by SweetT1: 3:57pm On Feb 16, 2008 |
@Spoilt Yoruba parents and all that nonsense. |
Re: I Still Love Her, Whatever The Revelation by squirrel20(f): 4:55pm On Feb 16, 2008 |
what was the revelation |
Re: I Still Love Her, Whatever The Revelation by iceland(m): 5:13pm On Feb 16, 2008 |
Wey the guy na?tell us the revelation.You only told us the GENESIS.,,,,dont you think we deserve to know the Revelation?Hey where are you now? |
Re: I Still Love Her, Whatever The Revelation by Nobody: 5:15pm On Feb 16, 2008 |
The revelations are: she has done this, that and this and that! |
Re: I Still Love Her, Whatever The Revelation by iceland(m): 5:36pm On Feb 16, 2008 |
michelin89:An this and that and that and this!! ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() |
Re: I Still Love Her, Whatever The Revelation by annboga(f): 5:37pm On Feb 16, 2008 |
maybe u shuld just tell us the revelation 1st,then we advise u on wht to do, aiight ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() |
Re: I Still Love Her, Whatever The Revelation by TheSly: 5:47pm On Feb 16, 2008 |
hmnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnn. . . . . . . ![]() |
Re: I Still Love Her, Whatever The Revelation by edwardaigb: 5:53pm On Feb 16, 2008 |
i no sabi your question. i no get answer 4 you |
Re: I Still Love Her, Whatever The Revelation by edwardaigb: 5:56pm On Feb 16, 2008 |
i no sabi your question. i no get answer 4 you |
Re: I Still Love Her, Whatever The Revelation by sistajay(f): 7:02pm On Feb 16, 2008 |
@Ariscopy This is what the power of love can do to you, you don't care what she's done in the past. You have to convince your parents that this is the girl of your dreams and that your decision is final. |
Re: I Still Love Her, Whatever The Revelation by spoilt(f): 6:02pm On Feb 17, 2008 |
Sweet T: please! since when did having a previous boyfriend become an ![]() |
Re: I Still Love Her, Whatever The Revelation by 4Him(m): 6:07pm On Feb 17, 2008 |
while i wholeheartedly support the fact that parents shld be involved in the marital decisions of their kids . . . you shld strive to maintain your independence in that regard. I once allowed mine to dictate to me and i'm still regreting it today 4yrs after. I lost the first and only woman so far i ever saw myself marrying. |
Re: I Still Love Her, Whatever The Revelation by SweetT1: 7:06pm On Feb 17, 2008 |
@4him I bet your parents are Yorubas. A very selfish culture. |
Re: I Still Love Her, Whatever The Revelation by ifyalways(f): 7:09pm On Feb 17, 2008 |
michelin89:lmao |
Re: I Still Love Her, Whatever The Revelation by Dreloaded(f): 7:21pm On Feb 17, 2008 |
Lmao @ she has a previous bf. Only immature morons would allow that to bother them/allow his parents to use that as a reaspon for him to leav ethe person. So much for "love" Awon ode "Iwadi" is important to Yorubas however, you have to know what exactly is it that is "seen" that bothers you. They do it in my family. Saved my aunt actually who was dating this guy and she was so bent on marrying him. He had alot of money too, anyway before martial arrangements were done. my grandmother decided to look into it, apparently they saw that he'd soon be arrested as his source of money was in the line of embezzlement, my aunt gave up, year later married someone else, ironically the first dude is now in jail in Lagos for embezzlement Now I personally wouldnt care unless the so called revelation involves -Said guy has a child outside -" " is known for domestic abuse yada yada. stuff I know will hurt me in the future, everything else is irrelevant for the most part |
Re: I Still Love Her, Whatever The Revelation by SweetT1: 7:27pm On Feb 17, 2008 |
iwadi ko oshodi ni. As long as she is not into illegal activities and has the ability to change for good, there are no amounts of iwadi that can change my mind.am allergic to yoruba culture. Imagine an excuse like " She's had a boyfriend b/4". Who cares if she's had 10,000 aristole b/4. Just kidding about that one. |
Re: I Still Love Her, Whatever The Revelation by Dreloaded(f): 7:30pm On Feb 17, 2008 |
Oh so you knew that such a revelation was stupid yet YOU still ended the relationship over it abi? In other words, blame for yourself for your immature idiocy, not Yorubas. |
Re: I Still Love Her, Whatever The Revelation by SweetT1: 7:30pm On Feb 17, 2008 |
Or better yetsome parents will say " They said she talks in her sleep" or "she sleeps with her leg on the wall" or "she doesn't come to see us regularly" etec. |
Re: I Still Love Her, Whatever The Revelation by SweetT1: 7:33pm On Feb 17, 2008 |
@D-reloaded You wouldn't know hot it feels to be a man. would you? |
Re: I Still Love Her, Whatever The Revelation by almondjoy(f): 8:04pm On Feb 17, 2008 |
@poster Please, take a time out and let this thing blow over. Your emotional state is highly questionable at this time, hardly one you want to get married with. I really do not care to know what the deal is and what they dug up since everyone has a past. Even if you go get another "girl" now without any past to dig up--her future might be worse than this one's past. Talk to your "gal" and let her be upfront with you. You need to sit down and really sort out what your feelings are. If you can forgive and try to forget whatever the heck it is--then you may want to win your parents over. If not--please call it quits. If all else fails, toss a coin and stick to the winning side! Life is a game of chance ma dear--fear of the unknown never made it any better or worse! Still a game of chance we must all take. You must follow what your heart tells you to do. ![]() Goodluck! |
Re: I Still Love Her, Whatever The Revelation by ifyalways(f): 8:48pm On Feb 17, 2008 |
almondjoy:AJ am just loving you.at times you can be so so sour yet sweet,very few times yet,you can be so angelic and a little darling.good advice here. @poster,you have been given it all.be wise and goodluck dear. |
Re: I Still Love Her, Whatever The Revelation by Dreloaded(f): 8:54pm On Feb 17, 2008 |
Sweet T: Obviously it wsnt else you wouldnt have allowed such a foolish revelation to get in the way of "true love" Only a BOY would allow the fact that his "girl" has been in previous relationships affect his current relationship. So bloody selfish. |
Re: I Still Love Her, Whatever The Revelation by oziomatv(m): 9:01pm On Feb 17, 2008 |
D-reloaded: So you know already!!!! |
Re: I Still Love Her, Whatever The Revelation by spoilt(f): 9:03pm On Feb 17, 2008 |
How is it that in this day and age parents are still able to manipulate their kids? I dont get it. its different if your parents find out something earth shattering about your intended but i dont understand how they can demand you end a relationship based on her age, her tribe, her looks or some other ridiculous flimsy reason. Dudes have to stand up and severe that umbilical cord and have a mind of their own. We all know that sometimes parents have their own selfish agendas and desperately try to relive their lives through their kids. I took my husband home to my parents after we had already decided to get married. Even if my folks didnt like him i was going to do it anyway. He wasnt from my tribe, and according to some he was too young and too good looking!! ![]() ![]() Luckily ![]() |
Re: I Still Love Her, Whatever The Revelation by Dreloaded(f): 9:50pm On Feb 17, 2008 |
too young in general or for you? were they expecting Moses? |
Re: I Still Love Her, Whatever The Revelation by SweetT1: 12:21am On Feb 18, 2008 |
@D-reloaded Whatever, what would you know about love anyways. |
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