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Re: Why You Should Not Marry A Girl Below 25 Years Of Age by free2ryhme: 4:05am On Dec 21, 2012 |
AmBeautiful: Seriously op, you are one very annoying character on nairaland. You must be below 25 yrs of age.. I can see the truth is bitter.. and its aim was direct on spot no missing ..Ouch!!!! 6 Likes |
Re: Why You Should Not Marry A Girl Below 25 Years Of Age by drnoel: 8:14am On Dec 21, 2012 |
AmBeautiful: Seriously op, you are one very annoying character on nairaland.Humble yaself 4 d truth will set u free... 1 Like |
Re: Why You Should Not Marry A Girl Below 25 Years Of Age by Nobody: 10:08am On Dec 21, 2012 |
Dolly-Parton:what traits |
Re: Why You Should Not Marry A Girl Below 25 Years Of Age by Nobody: 10:09am On Dec 21, 2012 |
beylinko: D Op is really rite abt dis 1. Funny enough,i ws talkin to a friend abt dis just few weeks ago. thanks...its a honor |
Re: Why You Should Not Marry A Girl Below 25 Years Of Age by Nobody: 10:10am On Dec 21, 2012 |
free2ryhme:God bless you always... |
Re: Why You Should Not Marry A Girl Below 25 Years Of Age by Nobody: 2:21pm On Dec 21, 2012 |
Another dumb stereotype, IMO When did age become a factor for maturity? Heck, I've met childish and really immature ladies that are well over 25 and some really smart girls under 25. (some points are true though, BUT not for everyone) |
Re: Why You Should Not Marry A Girl Below 25 Years Of Age by jerk: 9:22am On Dec 22, 2012 |
Good post frm the op,bt there are some above 25 that still wants to live those kind of life u mentioned. I met one and shes 29 bt she told me she still wants to catch fun,club and so on. 1 Like |
Re: Why You Should Not Marry A Girl Below 25 Years Of Age by Nobody: 4:34pm On Dec 22, 2012 |
HQ: Another dumb stereotype, IMONigeria is a corrupt country, doesn't mean all Nigerians are corrupt, but majority are |
Re: Why You Should Not Marry A Girl Below 25 Years Of Age by Nobody: 6:58pm On Dec 23, 2012 |
Different strokes for different folks anyway.I married below 25 to a man only five years older and I must confess that the only regret is that we didn't do it earlier.We were mentally prepared to be together.My MIL cannot help commending us as she has never smelt any disagreement b/w us.The points u mentioned as the demerits are not age specific.Am pretty much the family accountant,so I don't know what you are talking about materialism.Am pretty enough but I truly believe that my hubby is the only man that is worth my time. Seriously,each time I enter a public place with my family,I can't help enjoying the stares.There is nothing like young parents sending the kids to Villa once in a while so they can catch up with the latest.Its been four years ago but we still feel like its barely 6months.No drama,no bullshit stories,no assholic behaviours.we want it to work and we are making happen.Abeg life make sense when u find love early joor.Meanwhile the so called advanced couples keep inviting third party to settle their scores. 1 Like |
Re: Why You Should Not Marry A Girl Below 25 Years Of Age by Nobody: 7:03pm On Dec 23, 2012 |
Maturity nah for mind,age nah just numbers.Experience is a different issue all together. |
Re: Why You Should Not Marry A Girl Below 25 Years Of Age by Nobody: 7:53pm On Dec 23, 2012 |
byvan: Maturity nah for mind,age nah just numbers.Experience is a different issue all together.I am happy that your marriage is going on smoothly, I pray it continue on that lovely trend, it gives me joy reading cute marital testimonies. That said, some people are gifted with early maturity. Some people, though very few, reason like adults while they are teen, that's a rare gift. It doesn't mean that becos 10 marriages out of 1000 marriages in August were successful, that August marriages are now seen as success! Believe it or not, I have done a census within my locality and even within my immediate environments, before coming up with this piece. I am a realistic writer, I don't just write folk tales to entertain people while the truth remains buried and causing more harm. Thanks for stopping by |
Re: Why You Should Not Marry A Girl Below 25 Years Of Age by dagr8(m): 6:22am On Dec 24, 2012 |
DailyNews: ]This portion actually got me rolling on my bed with laughter dis early morning....*my tummy o*...*@OP...no kill me abeg* I totally agree with you OP....but I put my statistics at 70%...i av met few "under 25" dat display class of maturity the "above 25" dont possess |
Re: Why You Should Not Marry A Girl Below 25 Years Of Age by dagr8(m): 6:23am On Dec 24, 2012 |
ceewai lebi: I-totally-disagree,i-got-married-b4-25-and-am-not/never-been-a-drama-queen*ask-my-husband* DailyNews: ] pls takee note of d bolded....there are exceptions...although i go with 70%... |
Re: Why You Should Not Marry A Girl Below 25 Years Of Age by dagr8(m): 6:25am On Dec 24, 2012 |
Dolly-Parton:Perhaps u are part of the 30%( my own statistics) who dont belong 2 dis category...and if so, good 4 u...d OP never said all...bt most |
Re: Why You Should Not Marry A Girl Below 25 Years Of Age by dagr8(m): 6:32am On Dec 24, 2012 |
Duke_Nija: I think the OP has some good points there./quote] YEs! i totally agreee with you on d bolded bt we must not deny d fact dat maturity also has age package along side with it...one way or d other... if a child boassts of more new clothes dan d adult, what abt d rags? |
Re: Why You Should Not Marry A Girl Below 25 Years Of Age by dagr8(m): 6:34am On Dec 24, 2012 |
HQ: Another dumb stereotype, IMOyes u are very correct...bt we are talking abt MOST here |
Re: Why You Should Not Marry A Girl Below 25 Years Of Age by Nobody: 1:57pm On Dec 24, 2012 |
dagr8:You are a wonderful critic...thanks for the honest analysis of the topic |
Re: Why You Should Not Marry A Girl Below 25 Years Of Age by divinelove(m): 5:37pm On Dec 24, 2012 |
D op is largely correct, though there r some few exceptions. D point is actually maturity, marriage is for mature ppl. Much more ladies r ready for marriage above 25 than below this age. |
Re: Why You Should Not Marry A Girl Below 25 Years Of Age by Nobody: 10:46am On Dec 26, 2012 |
Overall i give the poster an A for a good analysis wit exceptions which he clearly highlighted. This i know is not a direct science dat one should base his/her life on but a sort of a yardstick to measure and judge wisely. |
Re: Why You Should Not Marry A Girl Below 25 Years Of Age by Nobody: 2:30pm On Dec 26, 2012 |
hisblud: Overall i give the poster an A for a good analysis wit exceptions which he clearly highlighted. This i know is not a direct science dat one should base his/her life on but a sort of a yardstick to measure and judge wisely.I feel honoured, thanks a bunch! |
Re: Why You Should Not Marry A Girl Below 25 Years Of Age by Nobody: 2:31pm On Dec 26, 2012 |
divinelove: D op is largely correct, though there r some few exceptions. D point is actually maturity, marriage is for mature ppl. Much more ladies r ready for marriage above 25 than below this age.You got the point so well, stay blessed |
Re: Why You Should Not Marry A Girl Below 25 Years Of Age by Nobody: 5:37pm On Dec 28, 2012 |
@DailyNews You are well on point. I am experiencing one right now. She just turned 25 in September, now serving and already been called to the Bar. She is religious and from all indication she wants to marry. She is well matured, pretty, never been to party. |
Re: Why You Should Not Marry A Girl Below 25 Years Of Age by Nobody: 8:01pm On Dec 28, 2012 |
payless: @DailyNewsglad to hear honest confessions, tnkx for sharing, wishing u two a successful love life come 2013 |
Re: Why You Should Not Marry A Girl Below 25 Years Of Age by tny60(f): 8:43pm On Dec 28, 2012 |
if a woman is under 25, she is too young. if she is 26 and over, she has become too old. wetin woman go do? |
Re: Why You Should Not Marry A Girl Below 25 Years Of Age by Nobody: 1:57am On Dec 29, 2012 |
tny60: if a woman is under 25, she is too young. Remain 25.5 forever |
Re: Why You Should Not Marry A Girl Below 25 Years Of Age by claremont(m): 2:18am On Dec 29, 2012 |
Age cannot be used as a measure of maturity. We can't just pluck figures from the air and concoct hypothesis around those figures, there has to be evidence. |
Re: Why You Should Not Marry A Girl Below 25 Years Of Age by tny60(f): 7:28pm On Dec 29, 2012 |
SniperInADiaper: LOL don't make me laugh |
Re: Why You Should Not Marry A Girl Below 25 Years Of Age by pak: 12:10am On Jan 01, 2013 |
byvan: Different strokes for different folks anyway.I married below 25 to a man only five years older and I must confess that the only regret is that we didn't do it earlier.We were mentally prepared to be together.My MIL cannot help commending us as she has never smelt any disagreement b/w us.The points u mentioned as the demerits are not age specific.Am pretty much the family accountant,so I don't know what you are talking about materialism.Am pretty enough but I truly believe that my hubby is the only man that is worth my time. WOW ! You're making me jealous ! You guys are really wonderful Wish you more sweeter years of marriage I sincerely pray that four years down the line, I will have a testimony like yours (and even better) 1 Like |
Re: Why You Should Not Marry A Girl Below 25 Years Of Age by djeezy(m): 7:56am On Jan 01, 2013 |
Forget the below 25 thing. It's all about the woman you're marrying and has nothing to do with how desperate she craves to settle down with a man. How desperate she is doesn't guarantee a happy marriage. There are some men who married their wives @the age of 16/18/20 during the days our fathers/grandfathers and the married worked perfectly till date. I have also seen men who married their wives @the age of 22/23 and it turned out well. In a nutshell what I'm. Saying is that it all depends on the values and goals of the said woman and not age. Anyway you still got a nice post@Op. |
Re: Why You Should Not Marry A Girl Below 25 Years Of Age by ajirapsy(m): 3:27pm On Jan 02, 2013 |
My 22yrs old fiancée who has concluded her NYSC is an exception to almost all the things you have mentioned. |
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