omo_to_dun: @OP

If you are trying too hard to please this guy, then you are already walking the wrong path. In my little experience, you don't have to do much for someone to like you. Additionally, if you had to come to an online forum to seek advice as to how to make him "as happy as he makes you," then your relationship is not probably not real.

It should feel natural. Follow your guts.

Redmosquito: If I were the guy.....Well! i am the guy!
Just call me at least once a day for no other reason than to check up on me ( not for handout or lecture notes like most girls). That will make me happy. Nothing more, nothing less. See! I am easy to please.

Redmosquito: If I were the guy.....Well! i am the guy!
Just call me at least once a day for no other reason than to check up on me ( not for handout or lecture notes like most girls). That will make me happy. Nothing more, nothing less. See! I am easy to please.

Redmosquito:
Nah! It just shows to show that she's head over heels for the guy!
I also agree with not trying too hard! The guy fit no sabi face again!

Sweetlemon:
Lol! Iv never asked him for anything. He recently started doing stuff for me own his own.
Thanks for the advice. I leave encouraging, inspiring, messages for him almost everyday.
I need more 'expo'

ITbomb: Four things
1. Cook for him
2. Listen to him [develop skills of holding a healthy conversation]
3. Buy little lovely romantic gifts for him
4. Respect him
Above all always follow your instincts
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And one more thing
U seem too eager to give 'it' to him whenever he would demand for 'it' [at least he don try to hold am this long] .
My advice, DON'T .
Tell him at the first time , u r not ready , if u give in at first asking, he will surely treat u like one of 'em and get bored

Sweetlemon:
I be typical calabar babe

Sweetlemon:
I be typical calabar babe so cooking leaving to me!
Thanks so much for the 'expo' that guy makes me wet but I'll try to keep holding myself. Lol!

D-Explorer:

The way you're going, you just might lose this guy. He seem to be 'connected' to you already and those things you do at the moment pleases him. Whatever you gonna reciprocate should be by your discretion and understanding of the relationship. Also, it should naturally flow from your inside and not you surfing for "101 ways to please a guy".

Eze Promoe: I believe you are beautful and good looking. I don't see why it's difficult to pleasing such a man. How sure are you that there wouldn't be something he could possibly be hiding from your knowledge. I'll advice you to try querying his feeling towards you.

HARDDON:

Yuck! Can't bliv you just said she shld query his feelings toward her? Are you a she male?

Gurl dnt you ενεя do that .. He is here cos he deem you fascinating. Not ƒoя sex or anytin else!

HARDDON:

Yuck! Can't bliv you just said she shld query his feelings toward her? Are you a she male?

Gurl dnt you ενεя do that .. He is here cos he deem you fascinating. Not ƒoя sex or anytin else!

Eze Promoe:
The point is that no need to force yourself on someone who cares nothing or less about you. The babe should just get it straight now cus heartbreak is never a good thing to experience.

Eze Promoe: I believe you are beautful and good looking. I don't see why it's difficult to pleasing such a man. How sure are you that there wouldn't be something he could possibly be hiding from your knowledge. I'll advice you to try querying his feeling towards you.

HARDDON: Very seemingly simple things of life is what a made man is lukin ƒoя in a lady:

2) haw homely and organized is she? Does she kip d place spick and span when around? Does she readily help arrange and organize мч day and body dressing .

3) If he is into biznes, your knowledge and ideas ãbout d said biz or any oda oηε that can yield more money, wud ß highly appreciated.

4) a lil surprise here and there wud blow his mind .... You cud make a reservation @ a kul spot and arrange with d DJ to play his favorite song @ uя signal.

5) вυч him posh gifts: sorry to Saч , but ladies find it very hard to spend on their guys! Ενεη the married ones. And wen dey do, itz briefs and boxers and ties. We go all out ƒoя you, wonda y we can't get back same measure

Lastly, be yourself @ all times. And hey, neva ask that your question again cos dis is haw he wud interpret it: dey all wano get intimate and trap me into a r/ship cos they be all after ma dough . We ĸпoω as you all do, that d stomach is not the only way to a guy's heart! His third leg ïs not only a way to his heart but a great way to his pockets also!

Regards
Don