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Love Is Ideal Not Real by boborosky(m): 12:30am On Dec 25, 2012
With reference to the concept and meaning of love in comparison with what is actually practiced, i would say dat love is imaginary rather than real. Love, they say, is unconditional but i know dat what is actually practised is conditional and directly responds to varying motivational elements or factors depending on d way of life of the persons involved. For instance, in Nigeria, money is d motivational tool dat triggers 'love', except in very rare cases where either of, or both of the persons involved are immature, inexposed, barbaric or naive. Even in such an instance, things begin to change over time. Lets not deceive ourselves, for as long as we want to be abreast of societal trends, we must live this way - no money, no love. This is a societal demand which we must supply. Girls know what i mean. It is worthy to note dat love without money can be for a while but would never stand the test of timd.

Marriage on d other hand is slightly different from dating as regards d issue of love. The institution of marriage, compatibility, understanding, and tolerance are some of the factors responsible for long term unions. Compare d rate of divorce now and then when our parents lived in a less corrupt society devoid of money influenced relationships. Obviously, d difference is immeasurable. The bottom line is dat, love, as it is painted doesnt really exist.
Wats ur own view?
Re: Love Is Ideal Not Real by fuckluv(f): 4:55am On Dec 25, 2012
Love still exists only that lust now dominate. Money lubricates love. Love without money is poverty and this is not to say that our fathers love unconditionally, they were not sensitive 2 d usefulness of money as we have nowadays.
Re: Love Is Ideal Not Real by larrymoore(m): 7:09am On Dec 25, 2012
Op, where is lv burried? I will exhume it and get it increaminated. Luv is neisance it has caused lot of troubles.

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