Everybody have had crunch on the opposite sex at every point in time, and we would still have, So tell me how your first crunch experience was like.

Tell us how he walked up to you and what he said to you, and what you said to her and how you walKed up to her

We were gisting, I raised it, she said "no, hell no, absolutely not" and that was that, hehe. Basically.

Seun:

We were gisting, I raised it, she said "no, hell no, absolutely not" and that was that, hehe. Basically.

Hmm, Seun, when was that this year, last year, when you were in school or what,


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By the way Seun we "Christians" need to conduct a voting exercise over there on the religions thread.

How can be do it and how can we send the result of the voting to you,

Also seun, try and make a provision on nairaland so that there can be one on one chatting by each member of nairaland.

we gist and i told her i love her from their,the gisting carried us to some where else.

@SysUser , cao alvin, Seun

Thanks for sharing the experience with us, but hope nobody would ask me about mine cos i didn't find it funny. All the same i need be i should tell you mine, but keeping my fingers crossed to see more response from other members.

Appreciate your response.






the truely handicapped are those who measure beauty by the sole prerequisites of physical perfection.

first of all poster, it is not crunch. . . . it is CRUSH !
2) cao kalvin?? u told her u LOVE her on a first date?? ohh my Jesus !

bakk to you poster. . . DO NOT ask her out on a first date. focus more on makiin the date fun, get to know her, spark up her interest share a story that would really make her shift kloser to you to listen, u feel me and let her see the fun part of you, make her laff, be spontaneos, watch her body language and see where physical contact is possible (not a kiss or a$s grabbin) more like holdin hands, slight nudges or sumthn. look into her eyes a lot. . .when she goes "stoooppp . . . " yeeaaaaaaa . lol tell her wen u look into her eyes, u see that sparkle, lol. be creative
ITS A WRAP, if she likes ur company, then thats step 1 taken care of, cos then she'll wanna spend more time wit u.
na tackiness, no lines, no rehearsed words, just naturally be YOU !
AFTER that, probably when u're about to leave or part ways. . . tell her how u really feel about her, dont use the word LOVE yet, cos in reality (u dont yet) and dont get all "oohhh baby am sooo feeliin u" in ur actions, cos then u appear to be a sucker and been too pushy and dat might drive a gurl away. a lady like sum firmness in her man. after u tell her, dont expect her to say i like you too or sumthn, but she already know u hav feelings for her, so its ahlfway done. then reach for a nice warm hug, and keep a great smile on ur face.

dont call her tooooo much, then u make her start gettin sik of you, talk to her sum more cassually, on other things. dont base ur discussions solely on u likin her cos that gets boring and thats wat makes a girl go "no its not possible"
just pop it up when she least expects, tell her u want her to be ur official WIFEYY ! and follow up on it.

quite a long lecture, but its worth it, BE YOURSELF !
get bak at me and lets know how it goes, irregular behavior on her part? just let the doctor (me. . lol) hear it.

peace, love and more chicken !

deedami:

first of all poster, it is not crunch. . . . it is CRUSH !
2) cao kalvin?? u told her u LOVE her on a first date?? ohh my Jesus !

bakk to you poster. . . DO NOT ask her out on a first date. focus more on makiin the date fun, get to know her, spark up her interest share a story that would really make her shift kloser to you to listen, u feel me and let her see the fun part of you, make her laff, be spontaneos, watch her body language and see where physical contact is possible (not a kiss or a$s grabbin) more like holdin hands, slight nudges or sumthn. look into her eyes a lot. . .when she goes "stoooppp . . . " yeeaaaaaaa . lol tell her when u look into her eyes, u see that sparkle, lol. be creative
ITS A WRAP, if she likes your company, then thats step 1 taken care of, because then she'll want to spend more time wit u.
na tackiness, no lines, no rehearsed words, just naturally be YOU !
AFTER that, probably when u're about to leave or part ways. . . tell her how u really feel about her, don't use the word LOVE yet, because in reality (u don't yet) and don't get all "oohhh baby am sooo feeliin u" in your actions, because then u appear to be a sucker and been too pushy and that might drive a girl away. a lady like sum firmness in her man. after u tell her, don't expect her to say i like you too or sumthn, but she already know u hav feelings for her, so its ahlfway done. then reach for a nice warm hug, and keep a great smile on your face.

don't call her tooooo much, then u make her start gettin sik of you, talk to her sum more cassually, on other things. don't base your discussions solely on u likin her because that gets boring and thats what makes a girl go "no its not possible"
just pop it up when she least expects, tell her u want her to be your official WIFEYY ! and follow up on it.

quite a long lecture, but its worth it, BE YOURSELF !
get bak at me and lets know how it goes, irregular behavior on her part? just let the doctor (me. . lol) hear it.

peace, love and more chicken !

Well said.

thanxx Toyosi, u really stay in sac tho, i live in sacramento too, i actually replied u on ur post about the half man half tree thang
get at me

Yes I do, but I go to school, in Santa Cruz, University of California, in Santa Cruz.

My Family has lived in sac town for the longest.

ohh dats koo. . . am still in the JC i go to sac city, i been here for about 2 years.
u on myspace or facebook or sumthn?

Me, naaa, I don't have a my space account, nor facebook.

I'm kind of a book a book worm. I kip ma head in 'em books

oohhhh. . . sounds not exctiting, but its ookk. lol
wats ur major

Biology, I'm a pretty exciting person tho

am tryn to transfer for computer engineering/audio production
dang we turned this guys helpline to our lil networkin spot. lol

U right , those are really nice courses, good luck.

yup. tryn to get those good skills for life

@deedami

Thanks for your post and correction well taken, i think you'll make a good ralationship consultant your analysis is off the hook, don't worry i'll give u a call to get more tips from you.

Thanks to all who has contributed too, but those who are deviating from the topic please don't distract us from we are discussing.

u're welcome sir.
all d best