Serendipity: God forbid that I spend money from the outset of anything with a girl.
May God also forbid that I become an impostor. In fact, it is even better to downgrade yourself a little bit.

LET it not be seen that I'm parsimonious or niggardly. No. I can give a girl something that I think she needs and not a 'want' motivated by the desire to keep up with the joneses; say she use a BB curve that is in a very good condition and just all of a sudden she just wants to upgrade maybe to meet up with her friends, She go meet her papa be that. But if she needs, I repeat needs something that I can easily afford, then what prevents me from providing same, be that person a female/ male friend or even an acquaintance

Serendipity:
LET it not be seen that I'm parsimonious or niggardly. No. I can give a girl something that I think she needs and not a 'want' motivated by the desire to keep up with the joneses; say she use a BB curve that is in a very good condition and just all of a sudden she just wants to upgrade maybe to meet up with her friends, She go meet her papa be that. But if she needs, I repeat needs something that I can easily afford, then what prevents me from providing same, be that person a female/ male friend or even an acquaintance

Bro, thank God that you understood me. But you know the funniest thing about things like this, he will still spend that money on the girl. My elder brother used to warn me then that YOU DONT START a relationship by spending money on a girl. did i listen. But you know, they experience is the best teacher. It just that I have made a promise to myself that I will stop sharing that info on nairaland. Na wetin she no use my eyes see? even go fvck another guy sef.

if the OP like, make him listen, if him like make e no listen. na him no. I was had my own share, my friend too has had his and I dont think is a bad idea if you have your own share too.

2sexy:

Bro, thank God that you understood me. But you know the funniest thing about things like this, he will still spend that money on the girl. My elder brother used to warn me then that YOU DONT START a relationship by spending money on a girl. did i listen. But you know, they experience is the best teacher. It just that I have made a promise to myself that I will stop sharing that info on nairaland. Na wetin she no use my eyes see? even go fvck another guy sef.

if the OP like, make him listen, if him like make e no listen. na him no. I was had my own share, my friend too has had his and I dont think is a bad idea if you have your own share too.

Maybe the guy should be pardoned for harbouring that thought. He may be a neophyte or novice in such matters.
BUT then again, He that has ear let him hear...

Serendipity:
Maybe the guy should be pardoned for harbouring that thought. He may be a neophyte or novice in such matters.
BUT then again, He that has ear let him hear...

you are right. he may. because I too was new to this dating thing back then and worst off all is that she had been in the game before me. He may not be new though because there are somethings that love could make us do you know.

Me I like myself, I can tell you now just as it is. If I decide to tell again otherwise, with the current "wise-up" syndrome in me, then I am just playing games with her.

why do guys always wanna take a gal to an eatery? She neva chop better food ni? Bros, if u really like the gal, you do somfin special for her. And I dont mean spend big money on her. You can take her to many places. Ask her friends (datz if u know any) ask dem of the kinda of tins she likes doing. Take her to somewhere dat holds sentimental value to her. Somewhere beautiful, where u both can have quiet cool time 2geda. If after that, shez still wan chop, take her 2 iya basira . She would be begging in no time

Take her to a bar parlour,if your cab fare is 2k to n fro,you have 5k left and u can still buy affordable drinks dere and pepper soup

Op pls mayb u shld go to her area, and call her to come meet u at a place; dat wld cut down d cost of cabfare. Let her order wat she wants, mayb go for a walk den say g'nite. Pls guys 7k is not a huge sum pls relax, not all girls her like dat. D first tym I spent tym wv my bf he pd my bike fare since we were both in GRA.I didn't judge him wv dat and rite now he steps up and does everytin he's supposed to.

Well,I'm a very good cook as you don't need to waste your money..just send me 3k to cook something nice for you.at the end of the day,you will still save yourself some cash bro..
Jokes apart,I don't always buy the idea of going to eatry.there are beautiful places out there yu can take her to..2sexy had a point bt I think the heartbreak hit him hard...cheers

Soyedele1: Well,I'm a very good cook as you don't need to waste your money..just send me 3k to cook something nice for you.at the end of the day,you will still save yourself some cash bro..
Jokes apart,I don't always buy the idea of going to eatry.there are beautiful places out there yu can take her to..2sexy had a point bt I think the heartbreak hit him hard...cheers

yes it did and a big one at that. I was hating girls after that experience but I thank God that I have learnt my lessons, grown much wiser and now appreciate good girls.

7K??
Wen u cn easily buy a btl of fanta nd two digestive biscuite totalling N100 nd u hv a balance of N6,900.
Besyds, u neva even shine congo sef. F.ool

Beync: where did he get dis 7k from?
Ur school fees I guess

ik121: 7K??
Wen u cn easily buy a btl of fanta nd two digestive biscuite totalling N100 nd u hv a balance of N6,900.
Besyds, u neva even shine congo sef. F.ool

jemima99: Take her to a bar parlour,if your cab fare is 2k to n fro,you have 5k left and u can still buy affordable drinks dere and pepper soup

pepper soup for a first date. Lol. Ur not the romantic at all. Are you?

kay29000: Guys, I need your help with this. I'm meant to take this lovely girl i just met on a date on Friday, and I have just 7k to spend...cab money inclusive. Pls guys, be creative and help out.

Thanks.

Guy 7k wit cab inclusive? How old re u? Must u entre cab, make u trek go any 'E-tri', no do where ur hand to reach, be yaself..

k2039: [color=soyouquotedme]Watch a movie at Ozone Cinemas [/color]

Don't take her to ozone cinemas. There's too much a lady can buy at ozone ranging from earrings to dresses, ice cream, shawarma, mozaya pizza and chicken republic including dominoes supermarket downstairs.And knowing Lagos Cabs, when they see you with a girl, their prices automatically increase. Depending on the type of girl she is, she might help you price the fare but on getting to ozone, if she points to something the way girls do and is like "oh I really love that dress, its really cute. Can I have it?" Or can we visit Dominoes I would like to get some snacks or can we pls chill at mozaya? What do you say? You would definitely be embarrassed.
My advice is to stay home, pick a nice movie and try cooking for her. If she really wants to get to know you, she would appreciate it.