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Re: Can You Allow Your Child To Live With Another Person? by Koolking(m): 1:48pm On Jan 02, 2013 |
A child's sojourn with people other than their biological parents helps a child to appreciate people more. |
Re: Can You Allow Your Child To Live With Another Person? by engrfcuksmtin(m): 1:50pm On Jan 02, 2013 |
NOOOO |
Re: Can You Allow Your Child To Live With Another Person? by Nobody: 2:03pm On Jan 02, 2013 |
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Re: Can You Allow Your Child To Live With Another Person? by omenka(m): 2:03pm On Jan 02, 2013 |
Under no circumstsnce would I. |
Re: Can You Allow Your Child To Live With Another Person? by HARDDON: 2:09pm On Jan 02, 2013 |
depends. If ma wify and i just wano hit it off with a lil get away timee ƒoя ourselves, sure. The kids cud stay with som trusted relatives. If not, No oda person wud ß able to raise ma kid beta dan ♏ԑ . And i cudnt afford to miss dεм ! |
Re: Can You Allow Your Child To Live With Another Person? by flow1759: 2:09pm On Jan 02, 2013 |
ojuikwu: IGBO CAN DO IT BCUZ OF Money.well THIER BUNCH OF SLAVE IN NIGERIA.i MAGINE YORUBA WILL START PRODUCING Oil.added 2 OUR FINE STATE. Lagos.igbo are borntroway.see them run up and down inside sun.but the money then no get.well make then go back 2 thier ojukwu that starve them.thnks 4 ur corpporation. Welcomeis dis person hi on mari J mixed dried pepper? guy u run comot 4rm psychia home abi? Dem dey find u oh. D federal ministry of health warns d 4 jumbo of mari J a day leads to kolomentality. FULLSTOP @topic, hell no FULLSTOP AGAIN |
Re: Can You Allow Your Child To Live With Another Person? by Nobody: 2:16pm On Jan 02, 2013 |
NO ... No matter ao close d person may be to me |
Re: Can You Allow Your Child To Live With Another Person? by ifedun2: 2:19pm On Jan 02, 2013 |
Nay! |
Re: Can You Allow Your Child To Live With Another Person? by justi4jesu(f): 2:21pm On Jan 02, 2013 |
I no go try am lie lie oooo...under 6years ke..that's not fair abeg.. Even if he or she is up to 18years sef, they can be molested..Instead of that, them go stay for boarding school. I have sworn not to try it. |
Re: Can You Allow Your Child To Live With Another Person? by Giftedhands2(f): 2:30pm On Jan 02, 2013 |
Hell no! Not while i'm alive. Weneva i send my younger brother on an errand and he did not show up on time, i feel restless. So imagine if he was my son, would'nt deem it fit to let him outta my sight. |
Re: Can You Allow Your Child To Live With Another Person? by Zeebah23(f): 2:33pm On Jan 02, 2013 |
No matter how close,i won't allow it. You don't assume you know somebody's behaviour coz your kids spent their vacation there and enjoyed it. Let them stay longer,you'll know. The irony is,the one's you think aint close enough are better by far. Unfortunately,most kids won't tell you the ugly part of the story. |
Re: Can You Allow Your Child To Live With Another Person? by Richy4(m): 2:49pm On Jan 02, 2013 |
How old are we talking about here? because from 0 -11years is not suitable for that child to live with another person when their parent are alive and breathing. although in every majority, there must be minority. it is not every uncle/ Aunt that mistreats children in their care.if that is your fear |
Re: Can You Allow Your Child To Live With Another Person? by OmoAlata(f): 2:56pm On Jan 02, 2013 |
My mum wanted me to send one of my kids to live with her (she lives in Lagos, we're in the UK). I mean what's the point of it? If we don't send money to our mum she can't buy food so why does she want one of my kids I don't get it really. Anyway, it was a resounding NO from me. She quickly dropped the idea. |
Re: Can You Allow Your Child To Live With Another Person? by partner5: 3:00pm On Jan 02, 2013 |
I will never allow my child to live with anyone, i grew up living with my elder sister and what i went through in her house is better not told here. |
Re: Can You Allow Your Child To Live With Another Person? by Angel778(f): 3:02pm On Jan 02, 2013 |
NEVER! |
Re: Can You Allow Your Child To Live With Another Person? by Sagamite(m): 3:03pm On Jan 02, 2013 |
Definitely! As long as the child would get the care and love they need from the person and still have frequent access to his/her parents. It is not necessarily ideal, but it is very feasible. |
Re: Can You Allow Your Child To Live With Another Person? by reach4it: 3:26pm On Jan 02, 2013 |
Never, @ 6 when am supposed to be there at the child's formative years, Mbanu. |
Re: Can You Allow Your Child To Live With Another Person? by Okijajuju1(m): 3:27pm On Jan 02, 2013 |
Not when they are under 18 and I am still alive... |
Re: Can You Allow Your Child To Live With Another Person? by agog: 3:38pm On Jan 02, 2013 |
I am a very emmotional person. As far as I am still alive, I believe I cant allow my kid to live with another person, not even my parents whom I so much love and respect. I cant imagine myself comming from work and not see my child to hug. |
Re: Can You Allow Your Child To Live With Another Person? by hardbody: 3:41pm On Jan 02, 2013 |
Yes I can, as soon as I confirm myself a failure. How else can I not provide for my child or children including buying or paying for whatever will make their lives same as what obtains at home. God forbid that my child should be allowed to stay with anyone else be the person a relation or otherwise? At least not while I am alive and kicking. |
Re: Can You Allow Your Child To Live With Another Person? by passionate88: 3:47pm On Jan 02, 2013 |
Akshow: Hell nomy frnd's mom has 4 boys nd no gal of her own... Bt 2 gals are staying with her and she treats them just like her children... So @ op, it depends on the condition.. |
Re: Can You Allow Your Child To Live With Another Person? by JOYCEOUS(f): 3:54pm On Jan 02, 2013 |
NNEEVVEERRR!!! Nt yl am stil breathin |
Re: Can You Allow Your Child To Live With Another Person? by gabbytabby: 4:10pm On Jan 02, 2013 |
Callotti: Most definitely. . . MY MOM AND DAD OR SIBLINGS! Survival instincts at 6 years old you do come across as a totally cold human being so I am not sure that it worked for you. |
Re: Can You Allow Your Child To Live With Another Person? by agitator: 4:13pm On Jan 02, 2013 |
debrief08: Seeing what I went through before having babies one will expect me to be over protective and want my kids around me 24/7, Contrary, I learnt a lot mrom my mother in law. somebody dey talk of permanent living, you dey mention "holiday" all these ajebotas for nairaland na wah 1 Like |
Re: Can You Allow Your Child To Live With Another Person? by DOKON(m): 4:26pm On Jan 02, 2013 |
My children can only spend the night(s) outside my house only in their grandmother's house! Children of nowadays need close monitoring. My take on this is a very big NO |
Re: Can You Allow Your Child To Live With Another Person? by 5much(m): 4:45pm On Jan 02, 2013 |
pple shd b ready to take responsibility nd train their kids by themselves. |
Re: Can You Allow Your Child To Live With Another Person? by remmydada(m): 4:47pm On Jan 02, 2013 |
As for me i cant allow my child to live anybody no matter how close, i was a product of that kind of lifestyle i lived the first 30 yrs of my live with my uncle and i still have the scar on me up till now u can never know the heart of man i pray that God will give us long life so that we will be able to take very good care of our children nobody i mean nobody can take care of your child like you |
Re: Can You Allow Your Child To Live With Another Person? by Nobody: 4:57pm On Jan 02, 2013 |
How can she single out a child from the rest,well to be on a safe side,because some people can be wicked,maybe she has gone to (yewo) the childs destiny as some people believe.Its no good idea,tell your friend to train her kid herself. |
Re: Can You Allow Your Child To Live With Another Person? by Nobody: 5:12pm On Jan 02, 2013 |
@uplawal e pele nibe yen ..... destiny you said eh?..... Now that is a serious matter o you believe in all that? but what do I know?..... It's human we are talking about here |
Re: Can You Allow Your Child To Live With Another Person? by ghettodreamz(m): 5:39pm On Jan 02, 2013 |
While growing up I once lived with an uncle, not a good experience but I'm a better person and in a better position today, so thank God. Anyways, it was just an experience for me. Under no circumstance, whatsoever would any of my kids live with any relatives. I pray for long life, financial wealth and sufficiency to be father enough for my families in Jesus name, amen. |
Re: Can You Allow Your Child To Live With Another Person? by oyarose(f): 6:05pm On Jan 02, 2013 |
Ok, this na my own take. I lived with my own blood sister for almost eleven years. Even though we were blood related, it never stopped her from treating me like a slave. At slightest provocation, my ghana must go will see the street that day, hurling all manner of abuse at me. I saw ghen ghen 4 her hand. i was always abused by her Husband, and because i tuned down all his advances, he lied to my sister that i disrespect him, therefore the abuse never stopped. The main housemaid of thr house,that one, my own case better pass her own. Tufiakwa..plus God forbid, never will my children live with anyone. |
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