Who would verify if they are really virgins

Virgins stil dey reign?

what happens when they turn eighteen?

If all girls are virgins, then most boys would be.

1 shortblackboy: Na only girls dem dey worry to remain virgins wat of d boys

hopefully only sons for me

hard times being a virgin

and wit what culture being what it is today. . .

all4naija: Guys should whet their rods for girls saved in this attempt of purity balls. . Happy Islamic Virgin-like Year!

Uu don start again dis year ... Ʊ ₪☺ dey taya? Nawa 4u oo!

The essence is very simple and cannot be denied; pre-marital sex is as sinful as extra-marital sex; you know what? I once thought of VAM Group in Nigeria - Virginity A Must. To defy the falsehood that keeping urselves pure until marriage is not possible! It seems some1 kickstarted it already and I believe there are many groups that encourage people to keep themselves until marriage. Our grandparents taught us so, our parents too, taught us same and we must teach our children, too!

You may consider this step 'weird' but what cld be miserable than a woman putting us those white gowns (which signify purity) and yet had already messed herself up over and over again. Same applies to men, too!

greatgod2012: ..........we've heard of notorious virgins, desperate virgins, and even, wicked virgins.

Bros u get talent o,ur services are urgently required in nollywood,see as u jus came up with 3movie titles under one minute

Something about this father-daughter relationship seems whack to me - way too much emphasis on sexuality if you ask me. It looks very ripe for abuse

Creepy, i just hope for d sake of dose girls deres nothing occult or clandestine about dis ball.we know americans nd dier small small palver, na im one gel go break d vow, her papa go massacre d gel and her bf, im go talk say na crime of passion now.
But on d other hand if its totally clean, it mite be a chance for father- daughter bonding, i think for most of girls, as kids we get to be with our dad a lot"daddyz girl", when we get into our teens, though we usually HATE our moms, we still sort of gravitate towards dem, cos @ dat point daddy understands very littlecoz he cant buy u icecream n make all d contradictory hormones n emotion go away.
Love d pictures sha......tootles

believe it or not virgins are a rare commodity now

What a creepy rite. I think parents should make all their children (boys and girls) accountable for the time they spend away from home. I'm not saying to be a stalker, but your children need to know that you want to know where they are at all times, and that they cannot go out without permission. This way, you prevent them from engaging in illcit s@x at a young age. Unless your daughter is a born nymphomaniac, at that age she would normally have to pass through a dating process before having s@x with anyone. If she does not have that freedom of movement, she will not be able to develop the sexual relationship. I know this because as a guy, I grew up in such a household, and it was really difficult to get my groove on then. Once they are off to the University, all bets are off. Hopefully you would have taught them enough to manage themselves well. Once your daughter is 18-19, as a father, what is your f-ing business with her virginity status? face your fathering work, and leave your young adult daughter's punny alone.

1 shortblackboy: Na only girls dem dey worry to remain virgins wat of d boys

boys don't just love to taste the "forbidden fruit", they love "fruit salad"

azimibraun: UndUe pressure! Me wanna knw the concequence of a violation of the Code.

Violation attracts death by MAGUN

Diligence: The essence is very simple and cannot be denied; pre-marital sex is as sinful as extra-marital sex; you know what? I once thought of VAM Group in Nigeria - Virginity A Must. To defy the falsehood that keeping urselves pure until marriage is not possible! It seems some1 kickstarted it already and I believe there are many groups that encourage people to keep themselves until marriage. Our grandparents taught us so, our parents too, taught us same and we must teach our children, too!

You may consider this step 'weird' but what cld be miserable than a woman putting us those white gowns (which signify purity) and yet had already messed herself up over and over again. Same applies to men, too!

Men wear Black. So wat does dat signify?

Is it just me or did ya'll notice that there is no black girl here,
A black chic wanna get her groove on.
On a serious note will ya'll be suprised when u start hearing news like " she was violated by her dad" because what u see right here is a perfect recipe for disaster.

Well its good sha but e dey one kind for eye...but all dis american gals dem spoil yapa..when situation get tough they become strippers and from dere porn stars lol

The end will justify the means. This is not to encourage any form of abuse or manipulation. For as long as this rite does not result in any sexual molestation/abuse in disguise by the fathers, I think this is not really going to be creepy or bad. What I sense is this: that the parents make effort to consciously drill into the minds of their daughters the virtue of virginity. As these girls experience this rite year in year out, they may get to the point where independently they will see the propriety of keeping themselves and saving their first kisses until the wedding day. Virginity whether we agree or not is virtuous. A nairalander expressed the neglect of the boys in this purification efforts; I must quickly point out that it takes two to tangle. Where the girls uphold this virtue/value, the boys will also be helped to abstain. The likely option for the boys may be sugar mamas or other deflowered girls. This may not really be a large size but overtime, virginity may be restored or upheld by both sexes. Having said this, it is worthy of note to also reiterate the view of another nairalander who stressed the need for parental guidance, monitoring and ensuring their kids' time is well accounted for. Finally, I strongly believe that parents must live by examples; they must keep their families/marriages and abstain from illicit sex, pornography,or any other irresponsible acts. A lion begets a lion; the chance that irresponsible parents will raise irresponsible children may be estimated around 80-90%.God help us!

birdman: Something about this father-daughter relationship seems whack to me - way too much emphasis on sexuality if you ask me. It looks very ripe for abuse

True talk

This is the problem I always have with all these stuffs. Don't these fathers have sons? why don't they make the ceremony for the whole kids? God expects equal standards from men and women. Why this fixation on the virginity of women? Can't men also be encouraged to be virgins? If all the women are virgins and the boys are not taught to be virgins, what happens?

1 shortblackboy: Na only girls dem dey worry to remain virgins wat of d boys

Plsssssssssssssssss someone should answer this question cuz me I'm a boy and I'm a virgin!!!!! What about me!!!

Jaggiey: The end will justify the means. This is not to encourage any form of abuse or manipulation. For as long as this rite does not result in any sexual molestation/abuse in disguise by the fathers, I think this is not really going to be creepy or bad. What I sense is this: that the parents make effort to consciously drill into the minds of their daughters the virtue of virginity. As these girls experience this rite year in year out, they may get to the point where independently they will see the propriety of keeping themselves and saving their first kisses until the wedding day. Virginity whether we agree or not is virtuous. A nairalander expressed the neglect of the boys in this purification efforts; I must quickly point out that it takes two to tangle. Where the girls uphold this virtue/value, the boys will also be helped to abstain. The likely option for the boys may be sugar mamas or other deflowered girls. This may not really be a large size but overtime, virginity may be restored or upheld by both sexes. Having said this, it is worthy of note to also reiterate the view of another nairalander who stressed the need for parental guidance, monitoring and ensuring their kids' time is well accounted for. Finally, I strongly believe that parents must live by examples; they must keep their families/marriages and abstain from illicit sex, pornography,or any other irresponsible acts. A lion begets a lion; the chance that irresponsible parents will raise irresponsible children may be estimated around 80-90%.God help us!

I beg to disagree! The girls and boys should be taught and not only girls. If fact, parents are told to train both children in the Bible. If you train only the girls, the boys will end up luring the girls into pre - marital sex.

Hmmmm, hypocrites. Even incorporatin it into religion. Wit their so much american value and freedom, so dey still value virginity. Gettin a virgin in America is lyk lookin for a needle in a haysack. When most of d gals and guys hav start havin sex since 12 years old and also gettin pregnant early. After dey will accuse some ppl dat marry early.

peruso:

Plsssssssssssssssss someone should answer this question cuz me I'm a boy and I'm a virgin!!!!! What about me!!!

Please uphold it. Some people will soon come and tell you that you are a jew man etc etc. God expects men and women to be virgins. It's society that put undue pressures on women

awwww. That's awesome.

If I had a daughter, I'll give her out to her husband a virgin.

I'll be proud of her likewise he even up to the point of saying/declaring it.

If you find that gross, go to hell!!!

there's a reason doG put two holes down there.

all4naija: Guys should whet their rods for girls saved in this attempt of purity balls. . Happy Islamic Virgin-like Year!

u shud b serious with serious issues!
[b][/b]is good marry a virgin

It may appear weird but totally true that for most girls who will not bow to the pressure of peers and boys to 'prove' themselves, they will need to have a safe male figure( and in my opinion, a real father is best suited) to reaffirm their 'okayness' to remain virgins. It does seem over elaborate but worth it if u ask me. A woman's self worth is so so precious esp now that she is asked to prove herself and acceptable only by the standards of a world gone all messy.

azimibraun: UndUe pressure! Me wanna knw the concequence of a violation of the Code.

In the documentary, the interviewed a girl who couldn't keep the vow. . .she had sex, got pregnant and when her parents found out, they started planning wedding. A few months into the pregnancy, she miscarried...she called off the engagement kia kia because she said deep down she and the guy knew they were only getting married because of the baby. They went their separate ways and she found someone else but says till today her mother uses that mistake against her because the girl's failure is her mother's failure.

Let me repeat that. . .the girl who took a vow with her father, breaks the vow and the mother is blamed. At no point during the ritualistic ceremony does the mom have any facetime. . .she is relegated to the background while daddy and his little girl pledge to each other but as soon as one of them fails, she get the blame. Nice huh?

Another one wrote a book on how she was ostracized because she was unable to uphold the vow. . .when it starts getting to the point, then you know something ain't kosher. Even God whose principles they are trying to keep isn't that unforgiving. . .but then again, that's the tried and true staple of anything religion gets its meaty paws on.

What is most intriguing to me is the reactions of the mothers, they just sit there with a fake smile plastered on their faces. . .no say whatsoever except to repeat /agree with whatever their husbands say.

@Sisi_Kill: The impression I got is that the mother took it personally and has been mean to her ever since, not that the mother was blamed.

@ sisi_kill, i m sure u wished this is happening in Africa & not ur sane world(America & d rests). What i think abt this is, whatever that is done to protect a girl virginity is d best thing that can happen to d girl. Most of young girls behave so foolishly that they give their virginity to some unworthy & underserving guys.A teenage girl shd be protected & prevented from sexuality, & if d vows will do, all well & gud. Virginity is d sweetest gift a woman can give 2 her husband.