The Bible says we should honor them both, muslims favour the mother after Allah. Some cultures supports the mother. Well on the average,the mother gets the most votes. But as an individual,whats your vote.
For me,my father wins. Though from a polygamous home, my mum was never there for me. Abandoned me at 3 with my pop & step mams. Well,my father ensured i had a life . He did his best for me. I luv my father even though my mum has my luv tøo and i do my best for her too.
Lets share opinions. . . .

MUMMY>DADDY

My dad.

Most Fathers will hurt the child for his good but mums are known to manage children not wanting to hurt their feelings. Gues why mums have the upper hand with children.

My Mum always have my honour,can't imagine life without her. Popsie na no go area,didn't live with him all my life,I see him as a stranger.

Love my mum so much that I vow to name my first child,and house after her.

God bless me more to take care of my Jewel. Iya ni wura (mother is Gold).

BOTH EQUALLY!
They both have their strengths. . . and weaknesses!

Silencer1: BOTH EQUALLY!
They both have their strengths. . . and weaknesses!

yes, this is how it should be, but what happens when one totally abandon his/her responsibility to d other.
For this, my mum gets my honour first and more.

greatgod2012:


yes, this is how it should be, but what happens when one totally abandon his/her responsibility to d other.
For this, my mum gets my honour first and more.

That is why the thread is for sharing.
I was NEVER abandoned by either parent.
They only abandoned themselves!
Free world. Na dem wahala be dat-i-o! Not my consain!
We, the ONLY children they had . . . . . .ALWAYS came FIRST!

my palee cos he is my mentor but my mum is just like a friend with her motherly nature. Did u get my gist ?

Silencer1: BOTH EQUALLY!
They both have their strengths. . . and weaknesses!

that is why we have varying passion for them. Sometime thier "weaknesses " are just too flimsy and some "strenghts" break things too easily.

BAMMZ:
that is why we have varying passion for them. Sometime thier "weaknesses " are just too flimsy and some "strenghts" break things too easily.

My passion nor dey vary o! NA PURE 50-50 LOVE!
The thing wey my PAPA DO FOR MY LIFE. . . my mama could not do!. . . (TEACH ME SELF RESPECT WITOUT TAKING BULLSHYTE FROM NOBARRY)
The thing wey my MAMA DO FOR MY LIFE. . . my papa could not do!. . . .(TEACH ME HOW TO DEAL WITH NIGERIAN MEN)

They are both champions in their own rights! EQUALLY LOVED. . . HEAVY WEIGHTS!

No wavering! NO VARYING!

A mother comes FIRST anyday anytime... Yes we love our father's but the selfless sacrifices our mothers make day and night just to make sure we are comfortable and happy is second to none....I love you mama, may you live long my first love.