Hunnydropps: I would absolutely start to dress more sexy for my husband. If you can't do things to please him, who will you please? Put those booty shorts on and show your husband that you are up to spicing up your marriage.

JallowBah: If the worst thing a husband might ask you to do, is to dress in what he consider hot, inside the house..you are a lucky woman

I understand the point that Mynd is coming with as well. But still, it is inside their house, only for his eyes. Many women forget to show their.."se*iness" to their men after some years, I forgot it myself after having a baby. He had to remind me.. what pleases a wife more than to see her husband happy..?

1920MaMa: [size=14pt]there are other ways she can dress and still look good. it mustn't be [b] provocative before you know it, he'd want them to watch p0rn together. that man no be deeper life born again. i think he only feigned born-againsm just to get her.[/size]

SniperInADiaper: Haba! Get a stripper pole and let the girl go wild. Its ok to dress immodest in front of your hubby.

Bludeville: My friend came to me, she is a deeper life lady and she is married to a deeper life man. Recently he called her and told her that he wanted her to become more Sexy for him, to perm her hair,wear earrings and wear more appealing clothes like knee length skirts and even bum shorts when they are alone at home. She's confused. So my deeper life sisters, is it okay to dress like this when your husband asks you to, or would you not do so and risk losing your husband. Because she said she's confused.

c.fours:
I agree with those that say that he married her knowing her choice to be conservative.
why the sudden change?

a woman who is perming her hair, wearing earrings and bum shorts for her husband will become unhappy. She should be doing it mostly for herself. She is forced to change her identity and no doubt she will become bitter about it. Even if she changes, the change will not last and she will revert back to her true identity otherwise, she might fall into depression if she stays unhappy.

you can't force people to change for you. that's why you should open your eyes and marry someone who you are compatible with.
that guy is not a true deeper-life member. I mean perming your hair and piercing your ears for earrings is not something you can hide from others and say "bedroom only".