I have always loved reading articles on Nairaland and i also love
peoples opinion and comments on issues neither did ever knew that it
would come to my turn one day.
I have a girlfriend whom we have been dating since the past 3 years.We
have concluded plans in doing our traditional marriage in the next two
weeks only for me to be browsing the internet yesterday night to find
her profile on an escort website www.nigerianescort.com
I have been unable to sleep since yesterday night and i think i should
just cancel the wedding arrangement.I want to call her to ask her
involvement with the website but she has traveled to her village to
put finishing touches to our traditional wedding ceremony.
I do not know if i should call her mother and explain everything to
her.I am so ashamed.Please nairalanders advice me on what to do

Ask her first naw, people usually use other peoples picture on stuff like that.

Thank you for your comment.How do i ask her?

Yeaa ryt! No 1 'll click dat site.. But if u're real, sorry shaa.

I have called my fiance,she will back tomorrow.I intending sitting with her in front of my pc and open the website.That way i will be able to ask her directly and see her reaction.Do you think i should cancel the marriage?I love this girl very much.Confused

the first question is what have you gone to do in the site?

luka1981: the first question is what have you gone to do in the site?

He's looking for his wedding suit n shoe

luka1981: the first question is what have you gone to do in the site?

Maybe he needs an escort for his bachelor eve.

@op, hhmn *sighs*
Why don't you ask her, showing her on ur pc.
Moreover, its in the past and if you really love her you should just pretend it never happened.

On the other hand she should have told u regardless. Abi wetin una wan do about the wedding arrangements.

#kneels down sharp sharp#
Father lord anything that would stand against me on the day of my happiness, nullify IJN.

@op, be wise and all will be well

@op,pls try ur best 2 ask her in a polite way.u neva can tel wat she hav 2 tel u.neva use force on her n dnt even threaten her by telin her u wnt 2 cal it off.she has her reasons pls.wish u luck.

cutiepie25: @op,pls try ur best 2 ask her in a polite way.u neva can tel wat she hav 2 tel u.neva use force on her n dnt even threaten her by telin her u wnt 2 cal it off.she has her reasons pls.wish u luck.

well said sis,bro u need to hear from her in a polite way,i can feel ur pain just take it easy

Well u was bold enough to ask her and she was swearing on her fathers grave that she has nothing to do with it and that she submitted her pictures to a modelling agency in the past but she never know that it was being used for adult works.All the same i have decided to forgive her and move on with the marriage ceremony.I have told her to write the escort website an email requesting for her email to be removed from the website

poskiworld: Thank you for your comment.How do i ask her?

take to the site, precisely, invite her as if u re an intend client, just pretent to be a client.