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90 Year Old Groom Pleads For His Teenage Bride To Return by Nobody: 5:38pm On Jan 10, 2013
A marriage between a 90-year-old man and his 15-year-old bride has reportedly been dissolved.

The match, which saw the man offer her parents a 45,000 riyal (£10,500) dowry, culminated in a ceremony in Riyadh, Saudi Arabia after which the distressed teenager barricaded herself in her room and refused to come out. grin grin

Suhaila Zein al-Abedin, a member of the Saudi National Association for Human Rights (NSHR), had urged authorities to intervene "as soon as possible to save this child from tragedy."

Abedin told Al Arabiya marriage in Islam must be based on mutual consent, and this was not satisfied, as demonstrated by the girl's decision to lock herself in her room.

The elderly man however, described his nuptial as "legal and correct" and said the girl's behaviour on their wedding night made him "suspicious of some kind of conspiracy".

The groom eventually allowed her family to console her, but when she refused to return to him, demanded the return of the dowry.

According to Gulf News, the family said they had spent the dowry, prompting the spurned groom to take them to court.

The channel adds: "Following several sessions, the court last week ruled the end of the marriage, but said that the family had to give the dowry back.

"However, the 90-year-old said that the case was still open and that the divorce had been pronounced by the leader of the tribe and not by an official judge."

The groom told the paper he does not want the dowry back and still wants his wife to come home to him. grin grin grin

He added: "I am going to take the case to a court this week to rule on the conspiracy by the family to take my money.My wife's family have now taken her out to Riyadh so that I cannot reach her." grin grin

Jamal Al-Twairqi, a psychologist, told the Saudi Gazette the girl is too young to make a decision on her marriage and warned if forced to go back to her husband, she might commit suicide.

According to Saudi newspaper Al Yawm, it is not the man's first marriage to an adolescent - 18 months ago he married a Yemei girl who was also just 15. shocked

A source said: "She stayed with him for about one month before fleeing and seeking help from a village dignitary."

This is unbelievable
What a smart girl
I hope they don't have to return the dowry jor
http://www.huffingtonpost.co.uk/2013/01/08/saudi-marriage-between-man-90--girl-15-dissolved-_n_2430000.html
Re: 90 Year Old Groom Pleads For His Teenage Bride To Return by TableLeg(m): 5:39pm On Jan 10, 2013
This is absolutely ridiculous ...
90yrs old and 15yrs old shocked
Re: 90 Year Old Groom Pleads For His Teenage Bride To Return by Nobody: 5:42pm On Jan 10, 2013
At least this one didn't allow him touch her
How did the other 15 year old last one month
Chai
Tufiakwa
Re: 90 Year Old Groom Pleads For His Teenage Bride To Return by Nobody: 6:12pm On Jan 10, 2013
Chukwu kpo kwa Nwoko'a okwu.

Anu mpam
Re: 90 Year Old Groom Pleads For His Teenage Bride To Return by chimex38: 6:25pm On Jan 10, 2013
His great great grand daughter nko?
Re: 90 Year Old Groom Pleads For His Teenage Bride To Return by slimyem: 9:33pm On Jan 10, 2013
The girl's family obviously needed the money..
See as dem don spend am sharp sharp.grin
...and the shameless 90-year old sef wan use hin shrunken blokous infest fresh young blood..
God don pass am this time!grin

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Re: 90 Year Old Groom Pleads For His Teenage Bride To Return by greatgod2012(f): 2:11am On Jan 11, 2013
Greediness on d part of d parent and shamelessness on d part of d old man.
Re: 90 Year Old Groom Pleads For His Teenage Bride To Return by Nobody: 5:54am On Jan 11, 2013
hahahahaha this man should be more interested in preparing for his impending death. What does he need sex for at 90?
Re: 90 Year Old Groom Pleads For His Teenage Bride To Return by Seun(m): 6:10pm On Jan 22, 2013
davidylan: hahahahaha this man should be more interested in preparing for his impending death. What does he need sex for at 90?
You will find out when you're ninety, but no one will listen to you because you'll be perceived as a senile old man.
Re: 90 Year Old Groom Pleads For His Teenage Bride To Return by EfemenaXY: 7:17pm On Jan 22, 2013
davidylan: hahahahaha this man should be more interested in preparing for his impending death. What does he need sex for at 90?

Lol!

You wicked o! cheesy
Re: 90 Year Old Groom Pleads For His Teenage Bride To Return by Nobody: 7:44pm On Jan 22, 2013
What kind of parents will want to give their teen daughter out to a soon to be dead 90yr old man? This is shameful.
Re: 90 Year Old Groom Pleads For His Teenage Bride To Return by EfemenaXY: 7:46pm On Jan 22, 2013
fellis: What kind of parents will want to give their teen daughter out to a soon to be dead 90yr old man? This is shameful.

A dirt poor family with no scruples whatsoever, who value money way more than their daughter's happiness or well being.
Re: 90 Year Old Groom Pleads For His Teenage Bride To Return by Nobody: 7:59pm On Jan 22, 2013
Efemena_xy:

A dirt poor family with no scruples whatsoever, who value money way more than their daughter's happiness or well being.

They must have no scruples indeed for them to have done something like this to their own child. Being poor does not justify their actions.
Re: 90 Year Old Groom Pleads For His Teenage Bride To Return by EfemenaXY: 8:02pm On Jan 22, 2013
^^ True that.

But you've got to admit that in their case, being poor was the driving factor behind their actions.

Let's factor in illiteracy too.
Re: 90 Year Old Groom Pleads For His Teenage Bride To Return by Nobody: 9:57pm On Jan 22, 2013
Seun:
You will find out when you're ninety, but no one will listen to you because you'll be perceived as a senile old man.
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Re: 90 Year Old Groom Pleads For His Teenage Bride To Return by Nobody: 10:08pm On Jan 22, 2013
davidylan: hahahahaha this man should be more interested in preparing for his impending death. What does he need sex for at 90?

When his " this thing" is still working?

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