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Watch Out, Your Partner Could Be Manipulative by Yaya6: 10:15am On Jan 14, 2013 |
Manipulation in relationships is a form of emotional abuse. When a man/woman is manipulative, it can lead to his/her partner feeling ‘trapped’ and unable to escape. www.ehow.com, lists traits that a manipulative partner could possess: Uses money A manipulative man may try to convince his partner that she need him financially. He may spend lots of money on her in the beginning of the relationship to get her used to living well and receiving plenty of gifts. He may even invite her to move in and encourage her to quit her job so that she has few options if she decides to leave. Later in the relationship, he may stop spending money on her each time there is an argument to try to regain control and make her feel bad. Acts depressed Manipulative people often act depressed or even suicidal when their partners consider ending the relationship. He or she may say something like, “I can’t live without you” or “I am going to hurt myself if you leave and it will be your fault.” Plays mind games Many people manipulate their partners by playing mind games. For example, the person may spend time with his or her partner going on fun dates, but as soon as a disagreement occurs, he or she avoids contact with him or her until they starts to worry about them and wonder why they disappeared. Avoids communication Manipulators may avoid talking about their problems or how they are manipulative, or they may completely deny it. If accused of being manipulative, they often become defensive or attempts to make their partner feel guilty for saying such things. Isolation The man may convince his partner to stop seeing her friends and family to hide his level of manipulation. This is especially true if the friends and family members point out his bad behaviour on a regular basis. He might use guilt to stop his partner from seeing them or he may find a way to make her resent the other people, so she will stop seeing them on her own. Blames others Each time a problem arises, a manipulative person blames the problem on his or her partner. They use blame and guilt to make their partners feel as though they caused the disagreement, leading them to apologise and try to fix the relationship. Bullies Bullying is another form of manipulation. If a man uses threats to keep his partner around, whether he follows through or not, it is manipulation and abuse. Bribes and affection Some manipulators pretend to be nice to you to get their way. A person may bribe you to go on a date with him, for example, by offering you a free meal, drink or other desirable item. She may use affection to coerce you into doing her chores or taking over her responsibilities. The manipulator will, rather than call you derogatory names, say that she knows you don’t mind helping them since you love them so much. At first, it seems like the person is kind and grateful, but after she uses this excuse repeatedly, her true motives become obvious. Guilt People with manipulative personalities know how to effectively use guilt to their advantage. For instance, your partner may say “You don’t really love me” if you refuse to give in to his requests. He may exaggerate his disappointment and make you feel like you are the source of his unhappiness. He may use crying and tears to make you feel guilty. Even children can use this ploy to get their way. Emotional manipulators cast themselves in the role of the victim to make everyone around them feel sorry for them. Disrespect and blame People who manipulate others do not have any respect for their victims. A manipulator may ask his victim to do something he believes is unethical. When the victim protests or refuses, the manipulator continues to harass them until they give in. Manipulators are very passive-aggressive. They will blame you for things that go wrong because of their behaviour. Manipulators try to appear innocent, even when they are obviously guilty, using others around them as scapegoats. http://www.punchng.com/spice/relationship/watch-out-your-partner-could-be-manipulative/ |
Re: Watch Out, Your Partner Could Be Manipulative by Nobody: 10:39am On Jan 14, 2013 |
Hmmmn..and check yourself...YOU might be manipulative! ![]() |
Re: Watch Out, Your Partner Could Be Manipulative by sexybash(f): 10:55am On Jan 14, 2013 |
nice quote hmm who dey manupulate me ![]() ![]() |
Re: Watch Out, Your Partner Could Be Manipulative by REMMEI(m): 12:16pm On Jan 14, 2013 |
CAN I MANIPULATE YOU?. . . ![]() @OP...NICE ONE YOU GOT THERE THOUGH. |
Re: Watch Out, Your Partner Could Be Manipulative by Arsenate(m): 2:18pm On Jan 14, 2013 |
True Story...sooooo many manipulators out there... |
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