We got married a few weeks ago{Traditional marriage}while planning for the white wedding coming up in 5wks time,my point is,wuld it be wrong if she spends the weekends at my place?

Why don't you ask your Pastor?

Yes, traditional wedding is d real wedding that God ordained for pple, others are just to show off.


That been said, if along d line, your wife get pregnant, some churches will refuse to conduct d wedding for u pple, so i will advise u cool temper a little bit more unless you can afford to miss church wedding, which is not really a big deal, you just go to d registry and legalise your marriage.

Summary of it all is that, if you MUST do church wedding, wait till after d church wedding to avoid d avoidable and unnecessary embarrasment for yourself.
If you wont mind what pple will say, then she can start spending weekends with you, but make arrangement for registry.
Above all, have d fear of God, if pregnancy occurs in-between.....do not go for abortion in order to have your church wedding.....that is hypocrisy and deception.
May God help you.

willarrie: We got married a few weeks ago{Traditional marriage}

Congratulations

willarrie: While planning for the white wedding coming up in 5wks time,my point is,wuld it be wrong if she spends the weekends at my place?

Why should it be wrong...you're already married.

Even God wouldn't frown at that.

Why call it traditional "marriage" when it obviously does not qualify as a marriage to you?

What's "sin" to you?sleeping over or fornication?

Na una sabi.

em, wait small. You go chop tire soon. Hang in there bros.

marriage is marriage be it traditional or church.

Just 5 weeks more

Guy cool Ur temper!!!

Congi dey worry the bros.

Its just 5weeks common! She does not need to come over given room for fornication (that's if you have not been doing that). Honeymoon is for getting to know each other. Don't start exploration now

Wetin you dey wait forGo recharge am Booster card abeg!!!If pentecoastal no wed u,go catholic,if they still no wed u,go court.

Yep you can.... But nope for my kids.... What's the point of white wedding then? That's the main union before God IMO..... but to each, his owns

No,she can't spend it at your place ooo,but she can spend it at my own place.

Very amusing comments
I guess you re both married now........from what I ve seen with my cousins, they had to pack bag and baggage and follow hubby home immediately after trad wedding. Nobody will even allow the new bride to sleep under her fathers roof again. It's pretty much a done deal

But I think church wedding is also important for Gods blessing too
Congrats though