My heart grieves only a few percentage of men are normal.there are so many wicked, immature men out there. Things I have seen stories I have heard. How can a grown adult keep malice for 1 year even one week. Some men saying cheating is okay we are men and polygamous by nature. If you teach little boys how to treat their little sisters and women. If you engrave into their hearts what is wrong. We would have less epidemic. There is right and wrong let's call it out please. Teach your daughters self worth and value. Teach them that they can do more with the brain the almighty has provided. Teach them their bodies are not a money making scheme. We have a lot of work to do. Raising children is not just putting food on the table and sending them to school. This rot in the society needs to be burnt out. Its a disgrace and a killer. We are not animals. Morals morals morals, intergrity. I look around and I am afraid one day GOD will say enough is enough. I want to write so much. But thought I should keep it short uinfortunately its not even short. Please let us raise our children in love and how to treat other people.

FOR WOMEN ONLY KE?
No wonder children grow up to be dysfunctional. A child should be raised by BOTH PARENTS . . . . . Divorced or separated! Unless one spouse is EXTINCT!

It should start with the men! All they know how to do is EJA KU LATE!!!
Especially, the black race!
The concept of 'love' remains an enigma.

Too many ABSENTEE dads!!!
No hope. ONLY A MAN CAN RAISE A BOY!!!! Only a few women have succeeded!!!

It shouldnt be about mothers only, both parents have a lot to do to reduce d dysfunctional breedings of human race, so, op, you will need to change d title of d thread to something like........... "Parents;lets raise a better generation of men and women", if you really want to get d best of and from this thread.
Thanks.

Gambrosia:
FOR WOMEN ONLY KE?
No wonder children grow up to be dysfunctional. A child should be raised by BOTH PARENTS . . . . . Divorced or separated! Unless one spouse is EXTINCT!

It should start with the men! All they know how to do is EJA KU LATE!!!
Especially, the black race!
The concept of 'love' remains an enigma.

Too many ABSENTEE dads!!!
No hope. ONLY A MAN CAN RAISE A BOY!!!! Only a few women have succeeded!!!

this is exactly what im saying..........@Gambrosia......thank you very sincerely.

Blazay

Hmmm we never see this year oo.

greatgod2012:

this is exactly what im saying..........@Gambrosia......thank you very sincerely.

Amen!!!

dayokanu: Blazay

Hmmm we never see this year oo.

Go marry first! I love to phock ONLY MARRIED MEN!!!

Gambrosia:

Too many ABSENTEE dads!!!
No hope. ONLY A MAN CAN RAISE A BOY!!!! Only a few women have succeeded!!!

I have to agree with you.

J12:

I have to agree with you.

Amen!!!!

The reason why I said women only is because in a society like Nigeria. Where women are beaten down, told that every man is a cheat because he is polygamous by nature. Women should close their eyes to heating husbands because the next man might be worse. Now I am not saying that men should not contribute but if you are truly a GOD fearing man then please by all means contribute to your child's growth as well and set good examples. Not the one that daddy has girlfriends all over the place. Or other children outside. I mean what sort of example are you setting. I ha an ex bf whose father said in my presence today it's bola tomorrow he can be with Titi. I mean I this is what you teach your son how do we break away from the cycle of men who disregard women. so I feel strongly that women should take that role up since percentage wise women bear the cruelty of men as opposed to men.

greatgod2012: It shouldnt be about mothers only, both parents have a lot to do to reduce d dysfunctional breedings of human race, so, op, you will need to change d title of d thread to something like........... "Parents;lets raise a better generation of men and women", if you really want to get d best of and from this thread.
Thanks.

I understand what you are saying I agree but I am really directing this post to women am not saying fathers should not contribute. But am saying this society has become so out of hand things that shouldn't be normal are deemed normal. I just wanted women to read this and really make it a point to concentrate on their children making sure they r better generations. Because most men will tell their son that their wife I number one but try can have different soup outside.

Gambrosia:
FOR WOMEN ONLY KE?
No wonder children grow up to be dysfunctional. A child should be raised by BOTH PARENTS . . . . . Divorced or separated! Unless one spouse is EXTINCT!

It should start with the men! All they know how to do is EJA KU LATE!!!
Especially, the black race!
The concept of 'love' remains an enigma.

Too many ABSENTEE dads!!!
No hope. ONLY A MAN CAN RAISE A BOY!!!! Only a few women have succeeded!!!

Think about how many men will come read this and say it is in our nature to be this way we can't help it. Should they raise their carbon copies. If you are doing what is not right as a father and not respecting your wife you think telling that child to do the opposite would register very well with the child. I feel it's really up to women at this point because if the men most, of this generation are like this how do you want to influence your son to be better. There are still some good level headed men but so few I see.