jkpretty:

One leads to the other.

What u are interested in catches the eye. One's u are not interested the mind don't go there. You don't look out for it.

well, they happen in my presence or while im there. i dont go looking for  girls and guys kissing or making out.

but y do u choose to be ignorant of a rife lifestyle? im sure u know these things happen but u choose not to acknowledge.

stillwater:

Omo Ibo and bawomolo

Are you guys "bi curious"? Do you fantasize about other men, that's why you think we women should be the same? Do tell,

SMH.

bawomolo:

nope, real homosexuals are repulsed by the opposite sex. come on ladies, fess up

we won't give in. The truth has been spelt.

The way some girls hug and feel on each other in public amazes me, and they claim to be friends.

They take pictures holding each other, something men can't even dare try to do. They feel on

each others boob. That is why i am really convinced almost all woman have a little lesbian trace on them.

OMO IBO:

SMH.

What's SMH?

OMO IBO:

well, they happen in my presence or while im there. i don't go looking for girls and guys kissing or making out.

but y do u choose to be ignorant of a rife lifestyle? im sure u know these things happen but u choose not to acknowledge.

I admit things happen, I'm speaking as a whole. but that we admire a fellow lady don't mean that we trip.

stillwater:

What's SMH?

shaking my head

stillwater:

Omo Ibo and bawomolo

Are you guys "bi curious"? Do you fantasize about other men, that's why you think we women should be the same? Do tell,

my sister na wa o
I've cried on shoulders of friends,they've cried on mine
we've shared very intimate things about one another and I know girls with deep friendships are the same way.
I've talked with friends for hours on end,I remember one time I chatted with a friend from 10 PM to 5 AM.
Just because men are wired differently doesn't mean every affectionate act means or leads to sex

If you watch a porn movie, there is always a chapter where two girls make out with each.

Its so easy for a girl porn star to accept sexing another woman even if she is not gay.

kojeiwa:

The way some girls hug and feel on each other in public amazes me, and they claim to be friends.

They take pictures holding each other, something men can't even dare try to do. They feel on
each others boob. That is why i am really convinced almost all woman have a little lesbian trace on them.

na wa for you.
no wonder when a woman sees a male friend and affectionately throws her hands on his shoulders and gives him a big hug just to say nice to see you again
he immediately thinks he should lead her to the bedroom and unzip his pants.

nwando:

my sister na wa o
I've cried on shoulders of friends,they've cried on mine
we've shared very intimate things about one another and I know girls with deep friendships are the same way.
I've talked with friends for hours on end,I remember one time I chatted with a friend from 10 PM to 5 AM.
Just because men are wired differently doesn't mean every affectionate act means or leads to sex

this woman, stop generalizing. the fact that u dont fall in that group does not mean it doesnt happen. trust me, it happens

jkpretty:

I admit things happen, I'm speaking as a whole. but that we admire a fellow lady don't mean that we trip.

admire,  thats how it starts.  jkpretty, just believe me, these things happen.

kojeiwa:


If you watch a porn movie, there is always a chapter where two girls make out with each.

Its so easy for a girl porn star to accept sexing another woman even if she is not gay.

Please don't use a porn movie to describe sane women.

omo ibo,you are the one generalising here.
I'm just letting you know that a woman can hug,kiss a fellow woman on her cheeks,hold,admire and compliment another women without it being sexual.
A girl can even sit on the laps of another girl in a crowded room with no chair space and she's not feeling a thang

to me seriously all women have lesbian tendencies. only some few actually practicalise it.

stillwater:

Please don't use a porn movie to describe a sane women.

no wonder we're talking A and there're talking B.
Porn is their yardstick abi ?

abeg men probably do the same thing.

Imagine my surprise when i was in naija seeing 2 men hold each other's hands and even hold each other's body while walking or sitting.
I mean some of them are gay and are yet to realize it. it is normal for women to hug, hold each other but with guys it is just so WRONG on so many different levels.

ima1:

abeg men probably do the same thing.

Imagine my surprise when i was in naija seeing 2 men hold each other's hands and even hold each other's body while walking or sitting.
I mean some of them are gay and are yet to realize it. it is normal for women to hug, hold each other but with guys it is just so WRONG on so many different levels.

why is it wrong? I've never thot about it but nigerian guys are not usually touchy-feely with each other. I didnt know anything like homosexuality existed until a few yrs ago . . . those things just dont cross my mind that a man his fellow man attractive.
Women maybe . . . who knows.

u ladies are missing something here. i'll try to make u understand it.

ima1:

abeg men probably do the same thing.

Imagine my surprise when i was in naija seeing 2 men hold each other's hands and even hold each other's body while walking or sitting.
I mean some of them are gay and are yet to realize it. it is normal for women to hug, hold each other but with guys it is just so WRONG on so many different levels.

in this case, the guys maybe out right gay. if that is the case then that rulees them out of the subject matter.

the subject matter is based on straight women. And in my opinion and some other guys opinions, more girls are likely to act out their fantasies or even become gay than their male counter part.

it is completely different from men or women are already gay. we are talking about women that are straight but would act out their fantasies

OMO IBO:

u ladies are missing something here. i'll try to make u understand it.

in this case, the guys maybe out right gay. if that is the case then that rulees them out of the subject matter.

the subject matter is based on straight women. And in my opinion and some other guys opinions, more girls are likely to act out their fantasies or even become gay than their male counter part.

it is completely different from men or women are already gay. we are talking about women that are straight but would act out their fantasies

What fantansies? My being close to a friend is not an outstretch of my "fantasies" but of friendship, no more, no less. Purity of mind has practically been lost on this generation.

stillwater:

What fantansies? My being close to a friend is not an outstretch of my "fantasies" but of friendship, no more, no less. Purity of mind has practically been lost on this generation.

ughhhh,
u fail to understand

Are you guys "bi curious"? Do you fantasize about other men, that's why you think we women should be the same? Huh Do tell,

women have tighter bonds than men. that's a fact u can't deny. no am not bicurious

And I'm telling you those compliments have no sexual undertones.

it would be considered absurd if a man complimented another man's private parts. seems to me that u ladies are closer to each other than u think.

That is women for you.

that girl talk can lead to experimentation lol

we won't give in. The truth has been spelt.

are u trying to say u haven't or u don't know a chick that has gotten a bit too close to other girls. hmmm

I admit things happen, I'm speaking as a whole. but that we admire a fellow lady don't mean that we trip.

admiring another woman's body part such as ass or boobs goes beyond just compliments. do guys admire each other's penis??

Purity of mind has practically been lost on this generation

humans aren't that pure behind closed doors. the truth remains that bisexuality among women is much more celebrated that bisexuality among men. phrases such as "my girl gotta girlfriend" is common these days. u ladies are just putting up a front.

nope, real homosexuals are repulsed by the opposite sex.  come on ladies, fess up

I guess that would explain why Elton John was married for a women for years and the same for George Michael. I'd like to believe you're not that naive.

anyway this thread is now lame and juvenile filled with "Nigerian women are just prudish, they dont wnat to admit the truth, they know they lust after other women balh blah blah". Good for you, eyin "openminded" cos the fact that not everry woman wants to sleep with another is just too mcuh to accept.

I stamp this thread with "Lame"

ima1:

abeg men probably do the same thing.

Imagine my surprise when i was in naija seeing 2 men hold each other's hands and even hold each other's body while walking or sitting.
I mean some of them are gay and are yet to realize it. it is normal for women to hug, hold each other but with guys it is just so WRONG on so many different levels.

ima, please tell them. The most touchy feely men I've ever seen in my life, see them walking around camopus holding each other like they are close to making out.

Go and check those " male celeb vs celeb threads", they are always there fighting with the woman o, telling her she's worng for saying someone like Jim Iyke or whoemever is ugly. "You are wrong, he's very handsome, nice lips" it's like wtf, seriously, you will  see them in every one of those threads, fighting with the girls, I'd be wondering why are guys in such thread sin the first place now they want to throw their madnss on others

It wont work! Asiri yin ti tu! 

I guess that would explain why Elton John was married for a women for years and the same for George Michael. I'd like to believe you're not that naive.

gays usually struggle with their sexuality due to societal pressure. they usually date the opposite sex at first then reverse to their true nature. homosexuals are only attracted the same sex. u must have heard of down-low men

because the fact that not everry woman wants to sleep with another is just too mcuh to accept

we are talking about tendencies and curiosity. not the act itself.

bawomolo:

humans aren't that pure behind closed doors. the truth remains that bisexuality among women is much more celebrated that bisexuality among men. phrases such as "my girl gotta girlfriend" is common these days. u ladies are just putting up a front.

dude, how do u manage to say my mind?

these women need to stop generalizing. we never said all women are like this but women are more likely to act this out. thats all i am trying to say.

OMO IBO:

dude, how do u manage to say my mind?

these women need to stop generalizing. we never said all women are like this but women are more likely to act this out. thats all i am trying to say.

I suggest you re-read your title.

bawolomo, at the end of the day dont these down low men go back to their women, so why arent they repulsed by sleeping with them. Are you saying the fact that they dont STAY with the men they creep with means they arent gay?

so why arent they repulsed by sleeping with them

to put up a front while shielding their lifestyle. DL men are a minority in the LGBT population.

Are you saying the fact that they don't STAY with the men they creep with means they arent gay?

some are homo's, some are bi. don't u think bisexuality among chicks is more common that bisexuality among men.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=O6htOTlQIJs

D-reloaded:

I suggest you re-read your title.

bawolomo, at the end of the day don't these down low men go back to their women, so why arent they repulsed by sleeping with them. Are you saying the fact that they don't STAY with the men they creep with means they arent gay?

sorry, i didnt create the thread and i never generalized. u read everything that was said incorrectly

I have seen many cases where women turned lesbian just because they have experience many

heart break from men. How those that justify her turning to lesbian if she never at some point

admire another woman. How many men have you seem turn gay because a woman broke his heart.

abeg men probably do the same thing.
Imagine my surprise when i was in naija seeing 2 men hold each other's hands and even hold each other's body while walking or sitting.

Ohhh what if they were brothers?
Sum kinda african mentality . . . .^{shakes head}