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Family Section Debate by Tgirl4real(f): 4:32pm On Jan 31, 2013 |
A user suggested this topic : "Is it RIGHT or LEGAL for an adopted child and a child of the same parents to marry?" for debate here. The topic was motivated by this thread : https://www.nairaland.com/1179222/whitney-houston-daughtergets-engaged-brother he came across recently. And I think it wouldn't be a bad idea if we had a Family Section debate. We can think up more topics as time goes on. If you are interested or you think it's a good idea, kindly signify here. Thanks. |
Re: Family Section Debate by Nobody: 4:36pm On Jan 31, 2013 |
Yaaaaaaaaaaay! Pull a chair. All those forming sharp mouth here, time to show ur skills. No more blabbing . . . |
Re: Family Section Debate by Nobody: 4:37pm On Jan 31, 2013 |
Anyways, just to add my 2 cents before the debates starts, I think it's WRONG. It's like saying an adoptive father can marry his adopted daughter. Ewwww! |
Re: Family Section Debate by Tgirl4real(f): 4:38pm On Jan 31, 2013 |
hehehehe Don't tell me u are planning to be a judge... |
Re: Family Section Debate by Nobody: 4:38pm On Jan 31, 2013 |
subscribing |
Re: Family Section Debate by Tgirl4real(f): 4:39pm On Jan 31, 2013 |
Ujujoan: Anyways, just to add my 2 cents before the debates starts, I think it's WRONG. ohhhhhh!!!!! Uju, I will fight u o. Not a topic for discussion . . . na debate jor. |
Re: Family Section Debate by Tgirl4real(f): 4:40pm On Jan 31, 2013 |
BTW, anybody can debate, male or female... Pls, indicate interest so that we can fix date on Val's day. |
Re: Family Section Debate by HumbledbYGrace(f): 4:40pm On Jan 31, 2013 |
Hmmmmmmmm Bad idea but I can't wait to see this debate progress. |
Re: Family Section Debate by Nobody: 4:44pm On Jan 31, 2013 |
Sorry tee, my lips are sealed. |
Re: Family Section Debate by ayobase(m): 4:55pm On Jan 31, 2013 |
I'm following! Tee, on val day ke? People go dey here so? |
Re: Family Section Debate by blank(f): 4:59pm On Jan 31, 2013 |
Good idea but vals day is not a good date. |
Re: Family Section Debate by Tgirl4real(f): 5:16pm On Jan 31, 2013 |
U guys didn't get d joke. Val's day is a joke. So, who n who would like to go first? Should we nominate? |
Re: Family Section Debate by Nobody: 5:32pm On Jan 31, 2013 |
Tee which kain joke be that You want the likes of Jenny to get a heart attack, after all this strategizing. Abeg no take that kind thing joke Me I nominate Coogar as a debater. |
Re: Family Section Debate by coogar: 5:36pm On Jan 31, 2013 |
Tgirl4real: BTW, anybody can debate, male or female... val's day? that's tedious o - my spouse won't let me touch any gadget that day. the eve of valentine is okay! but this debate sef - i could argue it either way but come on - is there a scarcity of women that those 2 must marry? it's a bit tacky |
Re: Family Section Debate by Tgirl4real(f): 5:58pm On Jan 31, 2013 |
Yippie!!! We have Coogar then. More pls. |
Re: Family Section Debate by BABE3: 6:52pm On Jan 31, 2013 |
Legal? According to which country's/state's constitution/law? Who are we to decide if it's legal? Or do you mean "legalize" (that's if it's not already legal)? Tgirl4real: "Is it RIGHT or LEGAL for an adopted child and a child of the same parents to marry?" Since I have the option to go with 'RIGHT' or 'LEGAL', if i decide to go with LEGAL, that's like having "is Same-$ex marraige in NewYork legal?" as a debate topic. That's no debate. It's a True/False question, so you might wanna edit the topic. |
Re: Family Section Debate by EfemenaXY: 7:15pm On Jan 31, 2013 |
Tgirl4real: A user suggested this topic : "Is it RIGHT or LEGAL for an adopted child and a child of the same parents to marry?" Actually, I see nothing wrong with it. As long as the two concerned aren't biologically related, then anything goes jare. One-for-all-and-all-for-one I say. |
Re: Family Section Debate by Nobody: 7:50pm On Jan 31, 2013 |
Sa Shhhh . . Efe wetin nah Infact Tee I nominate Efe to argue FOR. Coogar can argue AGAINST! |
Re: Family Section Debate by EfemenaXY: 8:19pm On Jan 31, 2013 |
^^ Lol! Shebi you know the ancient Egyptian Queens and Pharaohs married their siblings? So it begs the question: Who really decides what's wrong and what's right? What's socially acceptable for one tribe may be an outright taboo for another tribe. Lemme give you an example: Traditional Eskimo / Innuit culture dictates that if a male visitor visits a home, the host is obliged to give the visitor a female member of his family (or sister, I think) to the visitor to sleep with...so as to keep him warm at night. Now, you'll agree with me that this is a taboo for West African / Nigerian culture, abi? So, this just goes to prove that our "understanding" of what's right or wrong is subjective. The only time it's definitely clear is if an act is committed against the other person (i.e abuse be it physical or emotional) |
Re: Family Section Debate by xynerise: 8:52pm On Jan 31, 2013 |
I will use China as a reference |
Re: Family Section Debate by Tgirl4real(f): 8:56pm On Jan 31, 2013 |
I trust Efe to go the hard way. It will be fun to see an Efe/Sisikill/Coogar Battle. So, we have Efe n Coogar. U guys decide when will be ok so that we can carry on with the modalities. |
Re: Family Section Debate by Tgirl4real(f): 9:00pm On Jan 31, 2013 |
Babe, u can cross out legal and use right. Copied and pasted the topic as it was sent to me. Do u wanna debate? |
Re: Family Section Debate by EfemenaXY: 9:05pm On Jan 31, 2013 |
Tgirl4real: I trust Efe to go the hard way. Choi! This woman sef!! I never commit to anything na! |
Re: Family Section Debate by BABE3: 9:37pm On Jan 31, 2013 |
Tgirl4real: Babe, u can cross out legal and use right. depends on the time. Publish the date and time and i'll decide. |
Re: Family Section Debate by honeric01(m): 9:36am On Feb 01, 2013 |
Efemena_xy: ^^ Lol! The bolded is not true, there are some parts of Nigeria that practice this thing you call a taboo. i think it's in Benue or Plateau. can't remember. |
Re: Family Section Debate by Tgirl4real(f): 11:50am On Feb 01, 2013 |
Tgirl4real: Babe, u can cross out legal and use right. I really don't have any date in mind. I would prefer you indicate your interest and decide on a convenient date. |
Re: Family Section Debate by EfemenaXY: 11:54am On Feb 01, 2013 |
honeric01: You may be correct...but note the keyword there, "some"...meaning this practise is not prevalent nor widely practised in Nigeria / West Africa. So it's safe to assume that it largely regarded as a taboo. This brings me back to the point I was trying to make, that our understanding / definition of right / wrong or what's acceptable is largely dependant on societal values and is most definitely subjective. |
Re: Family Section Debate by dayokanu(m): 1:43pm On Feb 01, 2013 |
Its not illegal but Its awkward |
Re: Family Section Debate by chamotex(m): 2:30pm On Feb 01, 2013 |
Would have participated in this but I hate writing/reading epistles. |
Re: Family Section Debate by dayokanu(m): 3:00pm On Feb 01, 2013 |
This topic get as e be. WHy not some regular topics like Alimony vs Non-Alimony Career wife vs Housewife Spouse importation Marrying from your culture for/against |
Re: Family Section Debate by BABE3: 4:16pm On Feb 01, 2013 |
coogar: |
Re: Family Section Debate by debosky(m): 4:20pm On Feb 01, 2013 |
The topic is not the type to generate strong opinions from either side - most will not support it so it will be a damp squib. Pick something juicy like DK recommends. |
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