Why Do Some Men Beat Their Wives?

OCTAVO: Is anything wrong with some men mentally? Cos I wonder why a man will raise his hand to hit or flog his wife.
What happened to the first love they had for each other?
When I asked some men why they engage in battering, their response was that some women are deleberately troublesome. And if the situation demands for it, they have to flog their wives (an example is a wife that jerks her husband's shirt during any arguement).
No matter what a woman does, does she really deserve to be beaten?

tpacalipse: Do you have to beat a woman?

kokoye: Tis same thread has been created like 75 billions times already and the answer is always the same.

nobniger: same reason

nobniger: same reason

Mynd_44: ^^
Ma'am, I completely disagree with your point that no man can beat you without your permission. As wife battering is a crime, we canot say a man needs permission to commit a crime.

But if you meant a man needs your permission to turn it into an habit then you are completely right

greatgod2012:

heloooo, my dear brother, a man may not need my permission to commit any other crime, but not when my body is involves, as i've said b4, its one of d things to thoroughly thrash out b4 marriage, no, not ever, will i allow a man to lay his hand on me and IF he makes an attempt to break our agreement then, he should be ready to pay for his criminal and unheard attitude of his.
I wish you know me in real life, im very tolerant, but highly principled. Abeg, no make me talk, even reading about it is disgursting, i tell you, i can go EXTRA-EXTRA MILE with anyone that try it with me.

greatgod2012: Why do some men beat their wives?

Because their wives allows them.


Sincerely, no man can lay his hand on me to beat me, that is d MOST UNACCEPTABLE in my marriage.......no man dares it.......he will rot in jail. Infact, those men knows d type of women who can indulge them in that area.
Women, d fact is that, if you dont allow it, no man can do it.

No man can beat you without your permission.
Its one of those things to thoroughly discuss b4 marriage.
May God help us all.

Mynd_44: The correct statement is that you cannot allow any man get away with it.

Mynd_44:
Ma'am, you are not getting my point. I am againt the word "Permission" even you have said there that it is one of those things you will thrash out before the marriage. You you will tell him what he should/should not do but he can decide to go against those rules.

You are not permitting him but he does anyway and that's when you will bring in the law. But that first time, he does not need your permission. It is just like saying you cannot allow yourself get robbed. You can and might get robbed but the correct statement is that you cannot allow any man get away with it.

greatgod2012:


o.k oooo, i concur