There is this friend of mine who is about 2 marry my sister. We became friends owing to the fact that we were roommates in school. Back then this guy was a womanizer. During our 1yr IT news started reaching me that my friend is going after my sis but I could'nt verify this because,
1. I didn't develop interest and my sister was not staying with us, she only comes around once in a while. 2. My friend was in a serious relationship with a girl then even to the extend he took me to the girl's home to meet the girl's mother and siblings. After some couple of yrs, we met and he told me about his interest in my sis but i didn't take it serious and I know he must have told my sis that I'm aware/approve of it but all this yrs I have never discusd it with my sis because i feel our private life should remain so. Pls Ndlers, i need ur advice cos I'm about to confront him on the issue and for the first time i would like to tell him that i never felt comfortable and would not like to have him as an inlaw because of the life I have known him of.

About to marry u say? Guy wots ur problem nau? U did not say anyting al dese years but suddenly woke up now dat dey plannin marriage... Free d lovee-birds to enjoy emselves mhen

As you have rightly said, you have your private lives so there is not much to do but support her. From what you have poeted here, I have not seen anything bad in what your friend did so just relax and try to embrace your new brother-in-law

brixton: About to marry u say? Guy wots ur problem nau? U did not say anyting al dese years but suddenly woke up now dat dey plannin marriage... Free d lovee-birds to enjoy emselves mhen

it's true sha but I feel some guilt becos i should have let my sis know the kind of person he is. But I stil need to do something atleast confront him to know whether he has changed

It‘s a very difficult situation i must say because i know how you feel but oweing to the fact that ur sis is an adult then let them be and support them ok

thanks, but, he hasn't come to us to make known his intentions but from the little conversation i had with him on the phone he said something concerning that, though I wished it away with a wave of a hand. Truth is, I did liked to comfront him on this.

Did you say roommates with this dude? Wow, Niger students!! Jealousy has set in, isn't it?.I think you should mind your very own business, drink for the good news & be happy for your sister.

Ofunaofu: There is this friend of mine who is about 2 marry my sister. We became friends owing to the fact that we were roommates in school. Back then this guy was a womanizer. During our 1yr IT news started reaching me that my friend is going after my sis but I could'nt verify this because,
1. I didn't develop interest and my sister was not staying with us, she only comes around once in a while. 2. My friend was in a serious relationship with a girl then even to the extend he took me to the girl's home to meet the girl's mother and siblings. After some couple of yrs, we met and he told me about his interest in my sis but i didn't take it serious and I know he must have told my sis that I'm aware/approve of it but all this yrs I have never discusd it with my sis because i feel our private life should remain so. Pls Ndlers, i need ur advice cos I'm about to confront him on the issue and for the first time i would like to tell him that i never felt comfortable and would not like to have him as an inlaw because of the life I have known him of.

Na wa for this guy sha. When you were supposed to be crying wolf, you kept quiet, now that you are supposed to be happy for both of them you are here blabbing.