vanstanzy: Two people can't be raising their voices at the same time, that's where the silent treatment is good, to ensure peace.

Afamdman: please help modify ur post and remove my comment from it. Thanks

swaggrbabe: I wish most times to give my boyfriend the silient treatment. But I find my self letting it out. I shout, I insult him and I regret it lata. He gives me the silent treatment for days. Wen I txt nd beg, he just ignores me. I give up he calls me up. Sometimes I pray to have this attitude so I talk Less and don't insult him.

kandiikane: I hate, hate the silent treatment. I'm a sensitive person says my mum(which I deny ). It hurts my feelings because I like to talk things through, I hate sleeping with malice in the air. So, for a person like me, it just makes things worse. It makes me just want to kill the person, I swear.

preshuzpearl: People who give silent treatment cant help themselves, they are scared voicing out their hurt may make them look foolish. What makes it annoying is that you do not know WHY they are angry. They just go quiet without any specific incident preceding transition. &its common among melancholic temparaments.

swaggrbabe: I wish most times to give my boyfriend the silient treatment. But I find my self letting it out. I shout, I insult him and I regret it lata. He gives me the silent treatment for days. Wen I txt nd beg, he just ignores me. I give up he calls me up. Sometimes I pray to have this attitude so I talk Less and don't insult him.

sexybash:
Babee don't do dat again you might just push him into d arms of another loving lady infact I advise guys not to marry ladies like you buy d tyme he dump you once in your next relationship you go learn to dey humble

ThoniaSlim: There is a difference between silent treatment and calming down when you are angry so no need to confuse the two. Silent treatment killed whatever love I had for a particular ex. Just couldn't tolerate it anymore.

When you take a couple of minutes to hours to calm down, then that's acceptable. But when you continuously ignore your partner for a day to a couple of days or weeks, then that's just being wicked! Especially when you know the person is trying to apologize or talk you. I think silent treatment is a form of emotional abuse and it messes with the mind of the person trying to get your attention.

Majority of the people who give the silent treatment do not do so to calm down their anger, they do it to exercise some form of control over their partners. No matter how they might deny this, it makes them feel good because they feel they in control and that's the truth.

Leopantro:

girl, stop that. two Weeks? you are very lucky he's still there for you. I could be crazy about you but if you can't talk about your issues like an adult and prefer to keep malice for two Weeks then bone, i'm better off without you. there are other fishes in the sea. what makes you think there aren't girls waiting for the opportunity to grab your guy from you?

kross_01: silence can neva b productive in any rltnshp.it myt mke ur partner to yield @ first, but subsequently, it myt nt get d desired result. Trust me, nutyn kills a rltnshp than that(it had cost me one in d past & 've learnt from it).no matter what it is, communication holds d key 2 a blissful rltnshp.

mdsocks: Seems you guys just took a peep into what's currently happening to me.


I hate it! Damn....Talk things through instead of keeping mum...

Hotie Tima: well it's can be Good when your trying to
have things ur way!! but sometimes i really do piss the crap out of my bebe when i give him the silent treatment
i just don't like to talk too much when i am mad of else the convo will turn nasty.

but i have seem some people taking this method to another level
which even cost them break-ups at the end of the day.

Gentle Naaz: My girl provoked my a week 2 d day i suposed 2 gv her 25k. I saw dat as an opurtunity n i treated her wt silence untill 2 days after dat day. We reconciled,but d 25k ws ova. So i use my own cilent treatmnt 2 avoid unnecessary expense

Hotie Tima: well it's can be Good when your trying to
have things ur way!! but sometimes i really do piss the crap out of my bebe when i give him the silent treatment
i just don't like to talk too much when i am mad of else the convo will turn nasty.

but i have seem some people taking this method to another level
which even cost them break-ups at the end of the day.