it has been a norm for guys or most guys to break up with their girlfriends prior to festive season, for instance, valantine's around the corner and some guys are making up excuses to break up with their girlfriends only to reappear a week after val!
Now, must u spend money when u dont have? Must u get her gift? Must u take her to the most expensive restaurant? There are things she will appreciate better than the aforementioned. Or is it that d only language most girls understand is money? So guys, what's d problem?

Ask dat 2 d naija gals who c Val as a day 2 eat d hell outta der luva in xchange 4 sex

Tell dat 2 d bleeped up mentality of d nigerian gals who c Vak as a day 2 eat up der luvers in xchange 4 sex

emperorchedda: Ask dat 2 d naija gals who c Val as a day 2 eat d hell outta der luva in xchange 4 sex

lol, bros u dey vex oo

Just one obvious reason- They are broke to the a$$.

emperorchedda: Tell dat 2 d bleeped up mentality of d nigerian gals who c Vak as a day 2 eat up der luvers in xchange 4 sex

Eat?? E be like say na only hungry girls u dey date

Dalu uzor: it has been a norm for guys or most guys to break up with their girlfriends prior to festive season,

I doubt if your assertion is true, only a boy will act that way, definitely not a man

for instance, valantine's around the corner and some guys are making up excuses to break up with their girlfriends only to reappear a week after val!

A girl who takes that kind of guy back is equally as stupi.d as the guy.

Now, must u spend money when u dont have?

No, you can't spend what you don't have

Must u get her gift? Must u take her to the most expensive restaurant?

It's not a must, but if the guy gets her a gift, there is absolutely nothing wrong.
By the way a guy doesn't necessarily have to wait till val. to send his girl a gift.

There are things she will appreciate better than the aforementioned.

I agree with you in all totality.

Or is it that d only language most girls understand is money?

The girls are in the best position to answer this.

So guys, what's d problem?

I think this question should have been directed to the ladies.


Unfortunately I have met more girls who are reluctant to accept gift.
There are ladies who consider the pocket of their partners, who understand and aren't demanding when the guy is broke.

@K2039, Sir r u married? If yes, u r not meant to b here. No harm intended.