This is when you're dating or in a relationship with a lady or a guy who is bound to drag you to your destruction either by omission or by commission.
Many are in a relationship, where their partners have become a pain in their neck. Constantly nagging, complaining, draining their resources or causing one problem or the other for them. And there're some girlfriends who dont care how their guys make their money. all they know and want is for him to always meet their needs. And some of them are never satisfied, as they keep asking for more. And most guys are trapped or stuck with such girls cos of sex. yeah, sex! There are girls who use sex to entrap their boyfriends while milking/draining his resources. And once they realize a guy likes sex, they would want to use it to their advantage. Most of the relationship we see nowadays is a selfish and sexual relationship. Partners no longer think as one, but individually. the guy wants and thinks of sex all the time, while the girl thinks about money and how to satisfy her personal needs only. so, its like a trade by barter relationship. you bring this, I bring that kind of stuff. That's why relationships break up easily these days. And its cos of these desires, many are constantly dragged to their destruction. Guys meet their doom, while trying to satisfy the needs of a viper girlfriend. And girls meet their own doom when they are stuck with a violent or problem-prone boyfriend...
Just like the case of a kidnapper and his girlfriend who were caught recently. How did the girl got mixed up in this mess? She was arrested cos of a #750 MTN recharge card sent to her by her boyfriend, and which was among the recharge cards demanded and given to her kidnapper boyfriend by the family of the person they kidnapped while negotiating for his release. Her stingy boyfriend after collecting #750,000 or so ransom from the family of the victim, still went ahead to demand for some recharge cards. one of which he later text to his girlfriend somewhere, which the police now use to trace the girl and also use it to catch the guy and his partners in-crime. See what I'm saying? see how the girl has been dragged into a huge mess, cos of her boyfriend...
So, manage your expectations. Be extra careful when going into a relationship. Use your head and dont be deceived or carried away by the material benefits or enjoyment you might derive from the relationship. Think straight and do the right thing!

Na today
There is nothing wrong in asking ur spouse 4 card. The guy was just a fool........BTW, why cant d police use d phone number d card was sent to?