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Re: On What Grounds Will You Divorce Your Partner? by slimyem: 3:49pm On Mar 20, 2013
lrguru:

so mild abuse (gentle slap) is considered bearable for u?
see your mouth.undecided
Mild slap go be for play na and if its not for play,there will be other consequences..not divorce YET8)
Re: On What Grounds Will You Divorce Your Partner? by slimyem: 3:53pm On Mar 20, 2013
Yoruba_Omoge:
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I'm proud of her.

At least she left before he killed her.

Marriage no be by force. Nigerians go force pesin into marriage, na dem go insult you if the marriage no dey work.

Where's that bytchazz babyosisi that thinks that marriage validates her existence? Even asking a 22 years old girl in school to go and marry.

E no dey surprise me when I heard that her marriage dey in the toilet. No married woman should be comparing dciiiks triballly. . . . just saying cool


@Post,

All of the above.

Esp episodic poverty. en no be my thing. . . . . cool
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ki lo de?
You dey find trouble?
Haba!
Re: On What Grounds Will You Divorce Your Partner? by bukatyne(f): 3:53pm On Mar 20, 2013
Jah Man:

Lolz!
Like Aunty,like Niece.

And what kind of comment is this?

If you do not agree with Itsmodella's view, why not state your opinion and leave her aunt out?

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Re: On What Grounds Will You Divorce Your Partner? by Okijajuju1(m): 3:54pm On Mar 20, 2013
slimyem: see your mouth.undecided
Mild slap go be for play na and if its not for play,there will be other consequences..not divorce YET8)

what of is I tell you sorry, buy you American Spec 2014 Range Rover Sports Autobiography (Full option), send you go Dubai or San trope for treatment, relaxation, recovery and shopping after this slap;

Tell me wether you no go dey annoy me every 2 weeks for more slaps.. grin
Re: On What Grounds Will You Divorce Your Partner? by Nobody: 3:57pm On Mar 20, 2013
bukatyne:

And what kind of comment is this?

If you do not agree with Itsmodella's view, why not state your opinion and leave her aunt out?
I wonder o.
Re: On What Grounds Will You Divorce Your Partner? by Ama28(f): 4:02pm On Mar 20, 2013
On the grounds of pedophilia or domestic violence
Re: On What Grounds Will You Divorce Your Partner? by sunee1: 4:07pm On Mar 20, 2013
if i caght her....doing kiss kiss kiss
Re: On What Grounds Will You Divorce Your Partner? by speaktome(m): 4:12pm On Mar 20, 2013
About 60% are saying infidelity, r u all faithful 2 ur wivies?

If God can 4give us our infidelity, why cant we do same.
Remember ur vow... Till death do us part...
May God help us
Re: On What Grounds Will You Divorce Your Partner? by Opiti99: 4:14pm On Mar 20, 2013
Baba Oyo: Infidelity......no second chance!!
Nagging......after the 50th chance!!
Frigidity.......after all psychological & emotional solutions have been explored.
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Odun m'elo la fe lo l'aye ta n wa nkan ti o s'onu kiri?

You are funny
Re: On What Grounds Will You Divorce Your Partner? by MrsChima(f): 4:17pm On Mar 20, 2013
Adultery/deceit.
Re: On What Grounds Will You Divorce Your Partner? by eagleeye2: 4:18pm On Mar 20, 2013
If and when I get married, I will stay married till death do us part.
I don't joke with any kind of vow made in the Presence of God.
But if she opts out for any reason, then it will be on her head.

Divorce is a word I will never wish to hear when am married.

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Re: On What Grounds Will You Divorce Your Partner? by Mcfemad(m): 4:27pm On Mar 20, 2013
No Not one!

We both signed for better for worse best. Till death do us part.

#That's all.
Re: On What Grounds Will You Divorce Your Partner? by Idazinim: 4:43pm On Mar 20, 2013
Nwogbe:
U never jam. Just pray it doesn't come to U.

Thank you Nwogbe, Did he truly understand what he is is saying. He requires serious prayers not to encounter an instance. Every man's nightmare

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Re: On What Grounds Will You Divorce Your Partner? by nenergy(m): 4:43pm On Mar 20, 2013
The only on ethe bible permits.........Infidelity! And after divource, i'm off to Tibet to become a MONK.hahahaha
Re: On What Grounds Will You Divorce Your Partner? by Nobody: 4:44pm On Mar 20, 2013
staicey: I'll never sue for divorce, I'll only try to work out things fine..
but I can ONLY if my partner tries to kill me, anyother thing asides this can be worked out and am serious.. smiley
yea i agree. am suprised some women on this thread are saying infidelity,so if ur husband cheat u would divorce him? have u forgetten this is africa i mean niaja and men,married or not will always cheat.

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Re: On What Grounds Will You Divorce Your Partner? by Nobody: 4:45pm On Mar 20, 2013
Mrs.Chima:
Adultery/deceit.

So you would leave Chima just cos of one instance of infidelity shocked shocked shocked shocked

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Re: On What Grounds Will You Divorce Your Partner? by spiritchild(f): 4:46pm On Mar 20, 2013
Men are just sooooooo selfish! see all of them screaming 'infidelity' So una no wan share una wives? Yet u freely distribute your sperm to any aisha, ngozi or bimbo!

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Re: On What Grounds Will You Divorce Your Partner? by MrsChima(f): 4:52pm On Mar 20, 2013
Donxavier:

So you would leave Chima just cos of one instance of infidelity shocked shocked shocked shocked

Did you not see deceit as well?
Re: On What Grounds Will You Divorce Your Partner? by slimyem: 4:52pm On Mar 20, 2013
Okija_juju:

what of is I tell you sorry, buy you American Spec 2014 Range Rover Sports Autobiography (Full option), send you go Dubai or San trope for treatment, relaxation, recovery and shopping after this slap;

Tell me wether you no go dey annoy me every 2 weeks for more slaps.. grin
lool.
You are not serious.
But seriously,I might take the bribe/pacifier at first but one day monkey go go market,e nor go return!undecided

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Re: On What Grounds Will You Divorce Your Partner? by Nwogbe: 4:57pm On Mar 20, 2013
Idazinim:

Thank you Nwogbe, Did he truly understand what he is is saying. He requires serious prayers not to encounter an instance. Every man's nightmare
U knw say talk na free, na d act/action be d koko.
Re: On What Grounds Will You Divorce Your Partner? by cold(m): 4:58pm On Mar 20, 2013
Yeah for better for worse until someone is seriously hurt or at worst the death of either one or both parties. Religion should not be an excuse for stvpidity. Some common sense is required. Divorce remains a sensible option in extreme cases
Re: On What Grounds Will You Divorce Your Partner? by JOJORHYMES(m): 4:58pm On Mar 20, 2013
am
a man and can only divorce my wife on the ground of
fornication.(matthew 19:9)if were a woman,i will divorce a man on the
ground of fornication,if I suffer physical or other abuse and if he does
not agree that I serve my Heavenly father and creator.
Re: On What Grounds Will You Divorce Your Partner? by Nobody: 5:00pm On Mar 20, 2013
cold: Yeah for better for worse until someone is seriously hurt or at worst the death of either one or both parties. Religion should not be an excuse for stvpidity. Some common sense is required. Divorce remains a sensible option in extreme cases
+100 likes..

For better, for worse my azz.
Re: On What Grounds Will You Divorce Your Partner? by Nobody: 5:06pm On Mar 20, 2013
Cheating
Re: On What Grounds Will You Divorce Your Partner? by dasparrow: 5:07pm On Mar 20, 2013
speaktome: About 60% are saying infidelity, r u all faithful 2 ur wivies?

If God can 4give us our infidelity, why cant we do same.
Remember ur vow... Till death do us part...
May God help us

Please leave Baba God Almighty out of this. First of all, the bible permits divorce on grounds of infidelity. Matthew 19:9 says: And I say to you: whoever divorces his wife, except for sexual immorality, and marries another, commits adultery.

Secondly, yes God forgives our infidelity but Daddy Jehovah lives in the heavens and is not at risk of contracting a deadly STI/STD like HIV/AIDS. We humans on the other hand stand the risk of getting infected and living out the rest of our years on earth with much pain and discomfort should we contract STI from a philandering cheating spouse. So your comparison holds no water for me.

Donxavier:

So you would leave Chima just cos of one instance of infidelity shocked shocked shocked shocked

Why not? what of if Mr Chima unknowingly cheated with a woman who has HIV/AIDS? Don't you know that it takes just one unfortunate incidence to get infected?

Joavid: yea i agree. am suprised some women on this thread are saying infidelity,so if ur husband cheat u would divorce him? have u forgetten this is africa i mean niaja and men,married or not will always cheat.

Yes we know this is Africa and your type of mindset is the reason why Africa is the HIV/AIDS capital of the world. I have met your type severally. You continue to sleep with a husband who sticks his banana in every pussie and then one day, he brings the deadly disease home to you.

Few years later, he dies and you die and your children are left with no parents and then they become housemaids/house boy or girl in the homes of distant relatives where they will be severely maltreated and beaten to a pulp. Later, the children grow up and lead a life filled with abject poverty.

Sit there and accept a male LovePeddler for a husband and let me see whether your days on earth will not be shortened drastically.

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Re: On What Grounds Will You Divorce Your Partner? by MrsChima(f): 5:10pm On Mar 20, 2013
cold: Yeah for better for worse until someone is seriously hurt or at worst the death of either one or both parties. Religion should not be an excuse for stvpidity. Some common sense is required. Divorce remains a sensible option in extreme cases

I agree. Even the bible said adultery is a sin and acceptable for divorce.
Re: On What Grounds Will You Divorce Your Partner? by Nobody: 6:28pm On Mar 20, 2013
Phyiscal abuse
Infidelity

Those are my two absolute deal breakers .

not my portion sha,thank God.
Re: On What Grounds Will You Divorce Your Partner? by badesco(m): 6:35pm On Mar 20, 2013
staicey: I'll never sue for divorce, I'll only try to work out things fine..
but I can ONLY if my partner tries to kill me, anyother thing asides this can be worked out and am serious.. smiley

supposing your found her and her man friend on your matrimonial bed doing the thing. wil u still forgive her?
Re: On What Grounds Will You Divorce Your Partner? by Nobody: 6:43pm On Mar 20, 2013
Mrs.Chima:


Did you not see deceit as well?

Am not supporting infidelity or deceit, but if it's not a constant repeated persistent grin grin grin case of Infidelity/Deceit at least you should be willing to give Chima a second chance smiley
Re: On What Grounds Will You Divorce Your Partner? by MrsChima(f): 6:44pm On Mar 20, 2013
Daspparrow. That was a great point however if my husband was to cheat I wud never trust him again sexually so you know lack of sex or intimacy leads to more infidelity...so divorce is the answer. I also feel why sex when I do not use sex as an punishment. He is never deprived of that and too much diseases are out there. ..if I can't sex my husband without worries..I don't need to be with him.

Once the bed is defiled...hard to bounce back. I don't do it and he shouldnt.
Re: On What Grounds Will You Divorce Your Partner? by Nobody: 6:51pm On Mar 20, 2013
dasparrow:




Why not? what of if Mr Chima unknowingly cheated with a woman who has HIV/AIDS? Don't you know that it takes just one unfortunate incidence to get infected?




Did you just hear of HIV/AIDS grin grin grin what's with the paranoia If Mr Chima protects himself during intercourse with an infected person he wont get it, and I believe he is smart enough to know how to protect himself properly. So the disease aspect is no issue. Besides he has gone for a test and he is clean. It was just an unfortunate spur of the moment action that wasn't planned and he is remorseful but Mrs Chima still wants a divorce
Re: On What Grounds Will You Divorce Your Partner? by MrsChima(f): 6:59pm On Mar 20, 2013
Donxavier:

Did you just hear of HIV/AIDS grin grin grin what's with the paranoia If Mr Chima protects himself during intercourse with an infected person he wont get it, and I believe he is smart enough to know how to protect himself properly. So the disease aspect is no issue. Besides he has gone for a test and he is clean. It was just an unfortunate spur of the moment action that wasn't planned and he is remorseful but Mrs Chima still wants a divorce

I sure would and gon get a Jew lawyer just to stick him hard!!!!:ooooooooooo

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