When it comes to intimate relationship or life generally, who cheats more? Am very sure its the ladies becos Statistics from research has proven that in Africa, ladies (both the singles and married ones) cheat more than the men. Am I wrong?

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imoh4king: When it comes to intimate relationship or life generally, who cheats more? Am very sure its the ladies becos Statistics from research has proven that in Africa, ladies (both the singles and married ones) cheat more than the men. Am I wrong?

Ladies ofcourse, they lie, they cheat and even consult native doctors more.

Who Is Responsible For Most Heartbreaks, Male Or Female

Deciding who causes heartbreaks the most is like finding someone to blame for what went wrong in a relationship. Heartbreak occurs when either party in a relationship does something that hurts the other, which might lead to eventual breakup in a relationship.

The question here is who causes the “something” that breaks the heart of the other party and causes relationships to end? My natural answer would be for you to ask Google, but trust me, even Google doesn't know - I checked.

Therefore, another approach to this would be to examine these “somethings” that cause heartbreaks, and try to decide which party is more likely to do these things.

- Cheating: this is when either party in a relationship is seeing someone else. This is usually the forte of the male party in a relationship, but with the rising need for the female to exert herself, the scales are close to being balanced.

- Lies: this is hard. Lying is a part of every human, it is bad, very bad, but we still do it. It’s hard to say which party lies more, but it can’t be denied that lies cause heartbreaks and even kills the heart.

- Lack of Communication: when both parties do not communicate their feelings appropriately in a relationship, they are unable to know what makes the other person happy, sad or irritated. In the end, both parties end up dissatisfied and angry. There are a myriad other things that cause heartbreaks, and deciding who is responsible might be impossible. In the end, no one is entirely blame free in these kind of issues.

However, the trick to avoiding the occurrence of heartbreaks is to always treat the other person like you would like to be treated. If heartbreaks still occur, love yourself, rid yourself of guilt and blame, and remember that no matter how bad it was, you ultimately learn something that makes you a better person.

Derrick Walcott in his poem “Love after Love” says:

The time will come when
With elation, You will greet yourself arriving
At your own door, in your own mirror
And each will smile at the other’s welcome and say
sit here.Eat.
You will love again the stranger who was yourself
In losing love, you would have found it.

But you only heal, when you truly learn to love yourself.

Article From: www.iamaslucker.com

Let's be realistic here, the men cheat more as a result of the leverage we have. Society has deemed it fit for a man to cheat and it being okay devoid of scorn or reproach.

imoh4king: When it comes to intimate relationship or life generally, who cheats more? Am very sure its the ladies becos Statistics from research has proven that in Africa, ladies (both the singles and married ones) cheat more than the men. Am I wrong?

ladies ofcourse,especialy when d guy is not meeting up wit dia numerous demands.

Ladies cheat far more.

Of course.....cheaters dont accept. A reason student ashawos call it RUNS........
It's a 2-way thing, if guys dont cheat, girls wont cheat too. 50-50!

imoh4king: When it comes to intimate relationship or life generally, who cheats more? Am very sure its the ladies becos Statistics from research has proven that in Africa, ladies (both the singles and married ones) cheat more than the men. Am I wrong?

men of course